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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/16/2009 5:37:37 AM

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whether or not you personally feel i was asking a question- that is one you. in the most basic form- a question contains a question mark at the end of a sentance.

accordingly, if i were trying to begin a debate, i would presented a 2 part question that would give readers a definite position to choose a side in the form of "pro" or "con".

i didn't. therefor, it was not a debate, nor intended to be one.
and my dear, it is sincerely laughable that you consider typing in CAPS to be patronizing.
writing in CAPS is used to grab the reader's attention, despite if it is written in a polite or rude way.

i obviously used it correctly since you even bothered to mention it.

it makes it clear that you really have no idea what it means. The only person in this instance who was at all patronizing, i.e. a higher degree of condescending, is you for your need to feel you are in the position to tell me what i am being, or what i am stupidly doing, or being dumber than a box of rocks.

i have no desire or need to put anybody beneath for any reason. i may have disagreed with what has now become the majority of the members who had a negative feeling about my question, but thats fine-i see them as attempts at progress and critique.

sorry if i may not fully understand the mind of a male dom, but if there is a forum available for this and people who can give input, why would i just stay in wonder about it when there are resources at my disposal?

now that would make me dumb.

if my question was seriously that stupid and a waste of time, nobody who was even remotely intelligent would respond. that would be an even bigger waste of time.

suffice it to say, i don't consider anybody who posted to be truely brainless. therefor, my post wasn't as stupid and pointless as you claim it to be.

take care love.

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/16/2009 5:43:42 AM

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i dont believe i said anything else to you beyond your previous post. so thanks for your input my dear.

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/16/2009 6:02:13 AM

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Ahhh, so you still want to play do ya? Have it your way, it is your thread.

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ORIGINAL: MissAsylum

i dont believe i said anything else to you beyond your previous post. so thanks for your input my dear.

You see, you never directly solicited my comments the first time I just fell under the intelligent category. But it is good to see you remain an attentive listener, perhaps in time you’ll earn a treat.

See, I can be a condescending ass too.

Your turn!

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/16/2009 6:04:58 AM

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ORIGINAL: MsMillgrove

What made me laugh the hardest in this thread was a big Bull man commenting on the appropriateness of lime green pedi polish--claiming, "it's not your color". Wow, that's so Not a guy thing. Makes me wonder what color Bull puts on his own toenails?

actually, i thought it was one of his better comments. A clear example that when there is nothing intelligent to say..insult the feet.

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/16/2009 6:28:37 AM

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Well hello holly.... You were feeling left out again, weren't you.

Welcome to the Asylum...

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ORIGINAL: MsMillgrove

What made me laugh the hardest in this thread was a big Bull man commenting on the appropriateness of lime green pedi polish--claiming, "it's not your color". Wow, that's so Not a guy thing. Makes me wonder what color Bull puts on his own toenails?

actually, i thought it was one of his better comments. A clear example that when there is nothing intelligent to say..insult the feet.

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/16/2009 6:33:38 AM

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But Southern Prime Mover,

I think you have missed an instructional moment here.

Let me take it.

Bull was not being as flip or saucy as you might imagine, in your first of blushes.

Some of us men want women (even if they are not slaves) to be pleasing to us.

I, for example, do not like fishnets or the color purple, they displease me mightily.

I believe that Bull finds lime green pedi polish unappealing (and while on the subject so do I because ---- well DAMN!!!!!!!!)

And he was just trying to help her out.

Ron

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/16/2009 6:51:20 AM

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*note to self....never buy lime green nail polish. Stick with whore red.

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/16/2009 6:54:10 AM

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I believe that Bull finds lime green pedi polish unappealing (and while on the subject so do I because ---- well DAMN!!!!!!!!)

Ron

Helpful tip: you can't see the color of a woman's pedi if she's on her knees.

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/16/2009 6:54:21 AM

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thanks for your input.

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/16/2009 6:59:16 AM

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ORIGINAL: Lucienne

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I believe that Bull finds lime green pedi polish unappealing (and while on the subject so do I because ---- well DAMN!!!!!!!!)

Ron

Helpful tip: you can't see the color of a woman's pedi if she's on her knees.

Yeah, you girls want nice walls and decorations on them, and you don't care so much what you don't see, bet we know whats in there, from building it.

Now, even if you were on your knees and gobbling my cock like a christmas turkey, in the deep recesses of my higher order functions, even though for the most part I would be solidly planted in my reptilian brain.........I'd have those thoughts.........

I gotta talk to her about those FUCKIN toenails.

It would detract from my experience, do you empathise with that at all, does it resonate?

Ron

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/16/2009 7:00:35 AM

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Has your annoying-man traffic increased since 10/12? In that journal entry, you portray yourself as ready to provide a free session that includes oral worship. This is hard to find, period, and even harder when the offerer is a hot young thang. However, you place restrictions on who you'll session with that many men can't live up to. Penis size is of course a hot button for many men, and a lot of men also have mucho body hair, and can't shave without their wife or girlfriend wondering why the hell they did that.

So you make a piece of candy available, then snatch it away, saying, "But not for you!!!!"

Please understand, I'm not saying what you wrote is "wrong." I am, however, trying to point out that if you're wondering why men are writing you and sounding like bratty kids, some of them are affected because of that kind of attitude in your profile.

As for me.... well, yum. (Does that make me sound childish?)

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/16/2009 7:01:10 AM

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It's all in the little details...

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/16/2009 7:07:19 AM

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: LanceHughes

DarkSteven: are you going to enter the McGuyver contest at Sanctuary this Saturday?

Huh? What McGuyver contest? Is that where Doms use duct tape, dental floss, and a pair of old shoes to make a full dungeon complete with St. Andrews cross?

I attend the Enclave... never been to the Sanctuary. But Sanctuary much for the invitation...

You have CMail in a minute, but short answer is "Yes."

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/16/2009 7:12:15 AM

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Hmmmmm, details..... Aileen, Christmas turkey....gobble, gobble..................oh yeah!!!

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It's all in the little details...

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/16/2009 7:36:14 AM

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it hasnt increased at all- surprising, isnt it?

but i dont think my standards are rediculously high.

i dont care for body hair at all. my boyfriend is completely hairless where it counts for me as a result.

i'm not asking for "omg you are so fucking hot" ,just decent.

and the childish thing was directed primarily to those who act as if they don't know what "no" means.

and no-that wasnt childish.

thanks for your input.

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/16/2009 7:38:11 AM

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail
I'd have those thoughts.........

I gotta talk to her about those FUCKIN toenails.

It would detract from my experience, do you empathise with that at all, does it resonate?

Ron

Lol. Not exactly. The closest thing I can think of is my hatred of animal prints. Like, if the bed has animal print sheets, I'm stripping the sheets before we get busy. Which, I guess, makes me less tolerant than you. And causes me to make a note to self: don't mention the animal print thing to a sadistic partner.

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/16/2009 9:14:43 AM

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I, for example, do not like fishnets or the color purple, they displease me mightily.

I can attest, Ron is VEHEMENTLY OPPOSED to both lol, even when its more fushia that purple and fishnets are on the arms not the legs and on a cartoon.

just sayin`.

angel

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/16/2009 9:35:58 AM

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I, for example, do not like fishnets or the color purple, they displease me mightily.

I can attest, Ron is VEHEMENTLY OPPOSED to both lol, even when its more fushia that purple and fishnets are on the arms not the legs and on a cartoon.

just sayin`.

angel

Yeah, I am a man, I am not going to see the subtle difference between a fuschia, a mauve or even a puce (since we are on toenails, which I don't mind too much) for fucks sake.

Close enough to purple for me, kid.

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/16/2009 10:44:57 AM

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ORIGINAL: MissAsylum

i apologize- i might not have written this as clear as i could have. i was simply wondering if there was some sort of weird reason why some doms insist on acting like spoiled children who don't get their way. it was totally over my head in that sense. it has nothing to do with my age or insecurities that i may or may not have about my role as a domme. i frequently go to live BDSM events and its rare when a dom behaves like this in person, unless he is being a drunken idiot. but thanks for all the advice and input!

It is because they're bullies and may be Dominants too, the terms are not either mutually exclusive or synonymous.

Also they believe that if they do it often enough, to sufficient people, sooner or later they may strike lucky, which may well be true.

They don't have a reputation to lose, so don't care, (or don't realise in their arrogance), that they're making such a fool of themselves.

You won't meet many at real BDSM events, because if they behave like that publicly they'll get laughed out of the door.

Not just by people they target, but by everyone else present, which is why they stalk the internet, and the contact ad.s before then.

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/16/2009 11:36:47 AM

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Now, even if you were on your knees and gobbling my cock like a christmas turkey,

Ron...when in hell was the last time a Christmas turkey gobbled your cock?

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