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Mercnbeth -> RE: Your Must Have... (11/17/2009 9:18:54 AM)
quote: ...but what is one of your "must have's" for a "D" type?... when this slave was considering an intimate sexual relationship - a virile male. quote: ...It would even be cool to hear, and talk about why something is your "must have"... because this slave is neither a lesbian nor bisexual...it seemed rather pointless to consider entering into an intimate sexual relationship with a woman.

littleone35 -> RE: Your Must Have... (11/17/2009 10:01:02 AM)
My Must haves are gentle but firm, intelligence, and most definitly a sense of humor. Without those 3 things i would not submit, and Master has them in spades. Matt's littleone

breatheasone -> RE: Your Must Have... (11/17/2009 10:07:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Drifa For me, my dominant should NOT be Christian, since I'm not. Much more important than religion, however: Must be able to communicate their orders, needs, and desires clearly and honestly. Must be sensitive to my needs as well. Treats me as a valued member of the partnership. Must have a sense of humor and be intelligent and witty. On the "nice to have" list: Tall and blonde and female Strong Slightly sadistic, enjoying flogger, crop, etc. Enjoys the same sorts of things I do, although we needn't share every interest and hobby. i only mentioned Christianity because to me personally its very important. It was not said as a declaration of what i think ALL people should do. Hope that clears up any possible confusion on why i mentioned Christianity.

favesclava -> RE: Your Must Have... (11/17/2009 10:08:01 AM)
honesty.without it nothing else counts . i have to trust every word He says. and a mustache . must have a mustache.

stella41b -> RE: Your Must Have... (11/17/2009 10:22:24 AM)
Oh, are we talking about male doms here? Bollocks.. if it's a male dom he's got to have bollocks. Don't have to be big, you know, like what you get sticking out the back of a Rottweiler, or what you often see a Great Dane licking if you attend dog shows, but yes, a male dom has to have bollocks.

subtlebutterfly -> RE: Your Must Have... (11/17/2009 10:32:36 AM)
FR. Good question.....but the harder I think the further away from the answer I get. I don't think I have any must haves besides an attractive personality.

breatheasone -> RE: Your Must Have... (11/17/2009 10:33:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stella41b Oh, are we talking about male doms here? Bollocks.. if it's a male dom he's got to have bollocks. Don't have to be big, you know, like what you get sticking out the back of a Rottweiler, or what you often see a Great Dane licking if you attend dog shows, but yes, a male dom has to have bollocks. Stella you can talk about whatever trips your trigger![;)] whether that someone has a hot hard ramrod of love.....or a hot steamy love taco![sm=biggrin.gif][sm=banana.gif][sm=rofl.gif][sm=biggrin.gif][sm=banana.gif]btw...are you saying bollocks wouldn't look good on a girl?

peppermint -> RE: Your Must Have... (11/17/2009 10:35:38 AM)
He MUST have a positive outlook on life. I lived 27 years with a man who went in and out of some deep depressions. No way will I ever do that again. I want to be happy and I want the people I surround myself with to be happy.

divi -> RE: Your Must Have... (11/17/2009 10:38:53 AM)
My musts are : 1. Great sense of humor can laugh at themselves and others 2. Easy on the eyes 3. Outgoing .. and a big dick is a +

breatheasone -> RE: Your Must Have... (11/17/2009 10:39:41 AM)
quote: and a big dick is a + indeed!

Viridana -> RE: Your Must Have... (11/17/2009 11:34:17 AM)
A partner for me must have same or similar life views. If that isn't there then it's a no go....

Llyren -> RE: Your Must Have... (11/17/2009 1:03:08 PM)
Snarky. I can't believe I forgot snarky. A person without a sense of humour is worse than a vanilla person.

Nightbird02 -> RE: Your Must Have... (11/17/2009 2:26:48 PM)
[sm=agree.gif] Amen!

UniqueRaven -> RE: Your Must Have... (11/17/2009 3:57:34 PM)
Calm, quiet, thoughtful, focused, and methodical intensity. julie

breatheasone -> RE: Your Must Have... (11/17/2009 4:00:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UniqueRaven Calm, quiet, thoughtful, focused, and methodical intensity. julie Nice recipe![;)]

UniqueRaven -> RE: Your Must Have... (11/17/2009 4:08:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: breatheasone quote: ORIGINAL: UniqueRaven Calm, quiet, thoughtful, focused, and methodical intensity. julie Nice recipe![;)] Thanks! And of course add just a tiny smidgen (ok, an entire box) of loving sadism.....hee hee![:D] julie

CaringandReal -> RE: Your Must Have... (11/17/2009 5:30:48 PM)
It would certainly be nice if they wrote me. :/ Aside from that, I play it by ear. It's hard to nail down specific traits, except in fun and fantasy. I've done that before and then met people who demonstrated all the traits I think I like best and I've hated them on sight. Perhaps it's how the traits combine with other, unknow qualities to make the whole personality.

Aileen1968 -> RE: Your Must Have... (11/17/2009 6:30:52 PM)
A cock...

Rhodes85 -> RE: Your Must Have... (11/17/2009 6:36:36 PM)
'Christian with a yacht? By God! You just missed Noah... but he had all these weird fetishes.' Thats going to give me nightmares for awhile [:D]

Llyren -> RE: Your Must Have... (11/17/2009 6:43:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 A cock... Yes, but those are easily acquired at many fine online establishments. In fact, I even found a site that will show you how to dye a cheap jelly dildo in the colour design of your choice.

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