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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/2/2009 11:19:32 AM   
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Now this I understand. You would not know how many times we get somone wandering into the Gorean section, state they are Gorean, and they do nothing but talk about the slavery and protocol. They usually get hit pretty fast with a clue by four that slavery is something Norman used to sell the books, and it is the philosophy and morality that most use to identify being Gorean. Then we also get the "all men are superior" types that we have to clue by four as well. Understandable why so many have misconceptions, when they are exposed to so many internet Goreans.

Personally I want strong willed slave, that is pleasing, obedient and beautiful in all things. She is to act a certain way, but I have exceptions built in so that when she runs into specific scearios, such as some male I have not approved that says "kneel bitch" , she refers them to me. If the persist, offline of course, she is to do what is necessary to protect my property. She is an adult dancer, so this has included and elbow to the face for a couple of males. Shit if I wanted a stupid, doormat, I would go to Wal-Mart and buy one. Grrrrrr.

Anyway, that clears it up a bit more, thanks.


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Frankly, Orion, for those not versed in the careful distinctions & technicalities, the 'men-innately-superior' thing & some of the 'slave protocol-ish' stuff can sound Gorean, so I can understand why the less-schooled could misunderstand the differences . . .. .


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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/2/2009 11:23:38 AM   
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Shit if I wanted a stupid, doormat, I would go to Wal-Mart and buy one. Grrrrrr.



This is why I love your posts.

And sorry I wasn't clearer when I made my first post. I was driving at the idea that DemonKia laid out in more detail.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/2/2009 11:35:01 AM   
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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/2/2009 12:01:02 PM   
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19 pages of why we're aggressive...  i'm just wondering if anyone's found the ultimate answer to this yet?  i think it's cause we're under-sexed



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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/2/2009 12:31:30 PM   
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You know... I can support that answer!

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/2/2009 12:32:59 PM   
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HEY!!!!!!!

Fuckin' SPARE ME KILLER!!!!! Don't get all pissed off about it!!!!

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/2/2009 12:35:33 PM   
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*snickers* That needs to be a username.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/2/2009 1:03:36 PM   
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*snort*

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/2/2009 1:31:07 PM   
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But he did, and this is what confuses me. I think Aqua's explanation may be closer, though GotSteel may clarify.

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I have no problem with goreans having their lifestyle and interacting in that dynamic with other goreans. But when that dynamic is applied to other people non-consensually, that isn't OK and one shouldn't be terribly surprised when they aren't OK with it.

edited to add: my post isn't in response to anything Orion said, sorry if the fast reply makes it seem that way.



So he did.  Sorry Orion, that's what I get for skimming posts when my coffee hasn't started working yet.  I don't understand it either, this (and the other posts they say such things in) have nothing to do with Gor. I guess some people can't resist taking a shot at Goreans.


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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/2/2009 2:03:18 PM   
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I suppose that would explain why my girl is not very aggressive then. Maybe I should help these guys that are having problems with aggressive slaves.

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19 pages of why we're aggressive...  i'm just wondering if anyone's found the ultimate answer to this yet?  i think it's cause we're under-sexed




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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/2/2009 5:28:59 PM   
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I don't know where those two got there opinions on how to interact with others, I asked but never actually got a response. I was trying to respond to the topic of why slaves are less than friendly to certain dominants in a general sense and follow with the common example I've come across. I suspect I'm referring to the same group Orion is calling "internet Goreans".

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/2/2009 5:31:59 PM   
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Doesn't anyone think it's time to move on to another thread yet? The highjacking of the topic, regardless of it's credibility or quality, is still highjacking of a topic. Let it die. There are plenty of interesting topics to discuss here.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/2/2009 9:23:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf

I suppose that would explain why my girl is not very aggressive then. Maybe I should help these guys that are having problems with aggressive slaves.

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19 pages of why we're aggressive...  i'm just wondering if anyone's found the ultimate answer to this yet?  i think it's cause we're under-sexed





*stands in line* 

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/3/2009 3:21:02 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sophiesback

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ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf

I suppose that would explain why my girl is not very aggressive then. Maybe I should help these guys that are having problems with aggressive slaves.

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ORIGINAL: sophiesback

19 pages of why we're aggressive...  i'm just wondering if anyone's found the ultimate answer to this yet?  i think it's cause we're under-sexed





*stands in line* 


Grabs Sophie by the hair and pulls her back so that I'm first in line* No I don't think subs/slaves are aggressive, OP, why do you ask?


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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/3/2009 3:49:55 AM   
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Personally I like to asociate with submissives who have their own mind, like a god debate, and who arent afraid to state their opinion.

Of course if that isn't your *thing* you can ignore the non twoo subs and just read the replies written by those of a doormatty persuasion

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/3/2009 4:12:24 AM   
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quote:

Grabs Sophie by the hair and pulls her back so that I'm first in line* No I don't think subs/slaves are aggressive, OP, why do you ask?


i was in line first, zeph.   Now, OP, do you see why we might be a wee bit aggressive?????



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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/3/2009 4:30:40 AM   
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Grabs Sophie by the hair and pulls her back so that I'm first in line* No I don't think subs/slaves are aggressive, OP, why do you ask?


i was in line first, zeph.   Now, OP, do you see why we might be a wee bit aggressive?????




That's right Soph "was" first in line and now you aren't Suck it up and deal with it. I wouldn't have to be aggressive if Sophie would just accept that I am first and will always be first.


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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/3/2009 6:35:53 AM   
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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/3/2009 3:13:26 PM   
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Well okay it sounded good before it left my head. In retrospect, maybe I should have left it there


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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 12/3/2009 3:18:56 PM   
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Quite possible, zeph. However, i think we've given a fair example of the aggression of slaves. we DID contribute to this thread! we did! we did!

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