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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 7:30:20 AM

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 7:32:45 AM

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Is this the place for me to bark out, "Kneel, bitches!" and get instant genuflection from all da wimmins?

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As long as I stay here behind this computer screen, it works pretty damn well.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 7:34:18 AM

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KIWI ETC>>

he is saying

"I am amused at all of you in a big huff trying to run down what I said..

English is not his first language..

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 7:38:00 AM

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well the text was about impotence i only read the firts page... and you said you were 63 not 50... and at least in first was no agressive answers...

what happen sometimes is that doms want slave to behave as if they were everybody's property each not even in real ( crime ) slavery didn´t happen... i am a person above all things and i act as such and i see everybody else as my equals...

*wanders off to see if she can find the thread in question where all the bad slaves are*

i only read the first page, not that masochist to read them all...

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 7:39:40 AM

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A long while ago I put down here a little text and there were a little inexactitude about myself and I saw a flight of aggressive slaves(?) to destroy all my thought and all the interest of the subject...?
They don't hesit to break the general meaning...
I wonder what is the subtility of this behavior?
Very often I see that same behavior here with other topics.
I wonder why slave girls think that here it is "Gunfight at the O.K. Corral"?
I also wonder if they merit the name "slave"!
Sorry, I like subtle and tactful slaves…!

If you want everyone who is not your slave, to kiss your ass- that's just too damn bad, OP. How's that workin' for ya?

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 7:43:24 AM

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I was about to start a thread myself concerning the amount of extremely rude and aggressive slaves. Some even ordered me to leave this site after I responded to postings they or their friends made. I totally disagree with that users calling themselves slaves can say what they want as long as one does not own them. I read owners and slaves claiming the slave always has to keep in mind what the owner would think of their outings and the slave should not say things that would discredit the owner, yet I usually notice the opposite. It is rediculous that a slave would even think of publicly questioning the words of a dominant and I would not tolerate this behaviour. The same counts for subs/slaves discussing the sexual drive of her master and/or making fun of their master in these forums.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 7:44:22 AM

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A long while ago I put down here a little text and there were a little inexactitude about myself and I saw a flight of aggressive slaves(?) to destroy all my thought and all the interest of the subject...?
They don't hesit to break the general meaning...
I wonder what is the subtility of this behavior?

What's to wonder about, this is an online forum and once a question is asked the OP really has little control on who posts and the final outcome. Such is life in the online world.

Very often I see that same behavior here with other topics.
I wonder why slave girls think that here it is "Gunfight at the O.K. Corral"?

Yes, there are some fiesty chicks here...thank goodness for that!!!! You know the old saying, "If you can't take the heat, stay out of the kitchen"

I also wonder if they merit the name "slave"!

Not YOUR slave...simple as that. Nothing for you to worry about.

Sorry, I like subtle and tactful slaves…!

Then I would suggest you worry about finding such a slave and leave everyone else alone. Again...quite simple.

Grow up, man...just because you call yourself domanint doesn't mean anyone and everyone needs to cowtow to you. If you want to play online slave games, there are other places to do so. If you want real interaction, stay here. I would suggest losing your MasterDomlyDom attitude, though, as it will do little to win friends or influence people.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 7:46:37 AM

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I was about to start a thread myself concerning the amount of extremely rude and aggressive slaves. Some even ordered me to leave this site after I responded to postings they or their friends made. I totally disagree with that users calling themselves slaves can say what they want as long as one does not own them. I read owners and slaves claiming the slave always has to keep in mind what the owner would think of their outings and the slave should not say things that would discredit the owner, yet I usually notice the opposite. It is rediculous that a slave would even think of publicly questioning the words of a dominant and I would not tolerate this behaviour. The same counts for subs/slaves discussing the sexual drive of her master and/or making fun of their master in these forums.

Let us know when you get your balls back from the shop.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 7:53:59 AM

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I was about to start a thread myself concerning the amount of extremely rude and aggressive slaves. Some even ordered me to leave this site after I responded to postings they or their friends made. I totally disagree with that users calling themselves slaves can say what they want as long as one does not own them.

Well it's commonly considered rude to randomly call someone a fucking pile of donkey poo but since you don't own me, I don't face any d/s reprocussions if I call you that. Just that people will think I'm pretty god damned rude.

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I read owners and slaves claiming the slave always has to keep in mind what the owner would think of their outings and the slave should not say things that would discredit the owner, yet I usually notice the opposite. It is rediculous that a slave would even think of publicly questioning the words of a dominant and I would not tolerate this behaviour. The same counts for subs/slaves discussing the sexual drive of her master and/or making fun of their master in these forums.

It would discredit my owner if I were so naive or stupid that I simply believed any drivel on on the internet just because some person who claims they are dominant said it.

It would discredit my owner if I were so ashamed of him and our sexual issues that I was afraid to bring them up.

It would discredit my owner if I bowed to peer pressure and behaved differently than the woman he fell in love with for fear of some other owner might disapprove.

Valyraen and I are very open. We have our private issues and what we deem private, I do not discuss. You, however, are not at liberty to decide what my owner and I feel is private and therefore your judgements are out of place.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 8:02:07 AM

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I was about to start a thread myself concerning the amount of extremely rude and aggressive slaves. Some even ordered me to leave this site after I responded to postings they or their friends made. I totally disagree with that users calling themselves slaves can say what they want as long as one does not own them. I read owners and slaves claiming the slave always has to keep in mind what the owner would think of their outings and the slave should not say things that would discredit the owner, yet I usually notice the opposite. It is rediculous that a slave would even think of publicly questioning the words of a dominant and I would not tolerate this behaviour. The same counts for subs/slaves discussing the sexual drive of her master and/or making fun of their master in these forums.

Let us know when you get your balls back from the shop.

Your reaction goes against what you put in your profile concerning the matter.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 8:02:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: moutas

A long while ago I put down here a little text and there were a little inexactitude about myself and I saw a flight of aggressive slaves(?) to destroy all my thought and all the interest of the subject...?
They don't hesit to break the general meaning...
I wonder what is the subtility of this behavior?
Very often I see that same behavior here with other topics.
I wonder why slave girls think that here it is "Gunfight at the O.K. Corral"?
I also wonder if they merit the name "slave"!
Sorry, I like subtle and tactful slaves…!

Don't you know why we are often aggressive? It's because.....drum roll please....

WE MUST NOT REALLY BE SUBMISSIVES/SLAVES

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 8:03:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

I was about to start a thread myself concerning the amount of extremely rude and aggressive slaves. Some even ordered me to leave this site after I responded to postings they or their friends made. I totally disagree with that users calling themselves slaves can say what they want as long as one does not own them. I read owners and slaves claiming the slave always has to keep in mind what the owner would think of their outings and the slave should not say things that would discredit the owner, yet I usually notice the opposite. It is rediculous that a slave would even think of publicly questioning the words of a dominant and I would not tolerate this behaviour. The same counts for subs/slaves discussing the sexual drive of her master and/or making fun of their master in these forums.

my Owner knows what my opinions are, know that i will show them, and knows that He is the only One that i obey.
i treat everybody the same, because we are all people... i do not offend anyone... my Owner knows that i am an intelligent person and trusts my opinions, (if i was not intelligent i would not be with Him) ...

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 8:04:54 AM

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It is rediculous that a slave would even think of publicly questioning the words of a dominant

Explain to me again what makes you a dominant, other than you have given yourself that title?

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and the slave should not say things that would discredit the owner,

Have you ever considered that what a submissive/slave may write on the forum might be a perfect reflection of their dominant/master's views and does not discredit them?

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 8:12:20 AM

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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

I was about to start a thread myself concerning the amount of extremely rude and aggressive slaves. Some even ordered me to leave this site after I responded to postings they or their friends made. I totally disagree with that users calling themselves slaves can say what they want as long as one does not own them. I read owners and slaves claiming the slave always has to keep in mind what the owner would think of their outings and the slave should not say things that would discredit the owner, yet I usually notice the opposite. It is rediculous that a slave would even think of publicly questioning the words of a dominant and I would not tolerate this behaviour. The same counts for subs/slaves discussing the sexual drive of her master and/or making fun of their master in these forums.

Let us know when you get your balls back from the shop.

Your reaction goes against what you put in your profile concerning the matter.

I will use small words to sum up what everyone is saying to both you and the OP here, ok?

If - she - is - not - YOUR - slave/ sub-miss-ive - it - is - not - YOUR - business.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 8:20:21 AM

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I was about to start a thread myself concerning the amount of extremely rude and aggressive slaves. Some even ordered me to leave this site after I responded to postings they or their friends made. I totally disagree with that users calling themselves slaves can say what they want as long as one does not own them.

Well it's commonly considered rude to randomly call someone a fucking pile of donkey poo but since you don't own me, I don't face any d/s reprocussions if I call you that. Just that people will think I'm pretty god damned rude.

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I read owners and slaves claiming the slave always has to keep in mind what the owner would think of their outings and the slave should not say things that would discredit the owner, yet I usually notice the opposite. It is rediculous that a slave would even think of publicly questioning the words of a dominant and I would not tolerate this behaviour. The same counts for subs/slaves discussing the sexual drive of her master and/or making fun of their master in these forums.

It would discredit my owner if I were so naive or stupid that I simply believed any drivel on on the internet just because some person who claims they are dominant said it.

It would discredit my owner if I were so ashamed of him and our sexual issues that I was afraid to bring them up.

It would discredit my owner if I bowed to peer pressure and behaved differently than the woman he fell in love with for fear of some other owner might disapprove.

Valyraen and I are very open. We have our private issues and what we deem private, I do not discuss. You, however, are not at liberty to decide what my owner and I feel is private and therefore your judgements are out of place.

What I mean is that the same slaves claiming they have to always wonder if their master approves of their public words tell people in these forums to leave this site and send rude messages after giving one's opinion here. This is ridiculous. Besides this I wonder why a sub craving to juggle with shit throws it at other masters instead of her own.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 8:23:26 AM

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What I mean is that the same slaves claiming they have to always wonder if her master approves of their public words tell people in these forums to leave this site and send rude messages after giving once opinion here.

So you dealt with a couple of assholes. I've had dominants message me telling me I'm too fat for the site and I need to leave or that I need to leave my owner and heel to their side. Does this reflect all dominants?

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This is ridiculous. Besides this I wonder why a sub craving to juggle with shit throws it at other masters instead of her own.

Quite frankly, I've read both this thread and the OP's other thread. I don't see any shit juggling going on. Seems like you got insulted and you are taking it out on everyone else who happens to also belong to the group that insulted you.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 8:24:34 AM

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I read a couple pages of the thread in question. The op got some really respectful and helpful responses from slaves. I think a lot of posters here, of all persuasions, post questions in the forum not because they want another opinion, but because they want validation that they are right. If you already have your answer, don't post your question here.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 8:26:13 AM

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I am mostly assertive and not aggressive. It doesn't matter if a person is a Dom or a s-type, I will not put them down. I do see this a lot on the message boards, but I do not feel it is all that important to bring it into a topic/subject. There are many rude people in the world, and always have been. I do not submit to others, but I do act with integrity, because I choose too. I also been known to slam duck someone in a very polite way if they feel it is necessary to attack me, yet with that though I seldom do. I do not waste a lot of my energy in responding to people putting others down. It is not something I can change in them.

My view is this, yes there are a lot of aggressive people, and people who find it necessary to slam a whole group of people in these message boards. Do i care? No, they are not representing me, nor are a connection to me. I must be responsible for myself. I will not start a topic like this, because to me it just feeds that aggressive energy, and usually tells the posters the OP is aggressive in itself. There is a difference in a Dom who is assertive verses aggressive imho. I prefer the assertive types, and those who do not make blanket judgments.

Though i appear new, I am not. I have been here for over a year, maybe two..i don't recall, with many variations of 'oceanwynds'. I have found these boards and the majority of people that post to be caring and genuine. Why, maybe because I treat them with respect. Not everyone will see things how I do, and I find that fantastic. Sorry but I dont want carbon copies of me running around.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 8:27:09 AM

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I was referring to your remark about shit juggling.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 8:27:59 AM

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In the risk of opening a can of worms, not many submissive types who call themselves slave, really are - legal/moral/historical definitions aside, most of 'em are either yer regular kinksters grabbing a cool label, or subs who are used to actually dictating the terms of their submission and gets pissed when someone tries to actually dominate 'em.

Wanna know the stupid thing? If I didn't put some kind of disclaimer here, saying "dear reader, if the above definitions don't sound like you then I wasn't talking about you", every sub/slave/bottom who read it would take offense.

Some days I mourn the death of literary comprehension and common sense...

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