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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 8:28:16 AM

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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

I was about to start a thread myself concerning the amount of extremely rude and aggressive slaves. Some even ordered me to leave this site after I responded to postings they or their friends made. I totally disagree with that users calling themselves slaves can say what they want as long as one does not own them. I read owners and slaves claiming the slave always has to keep in mind what the owner would think of their outings and the slave should not say things that would discredit the owner, yet I usually notice the opposite. It is rediculous that a slave would even think of publicly questioning the words of a dominant and I would not tolerate this behaviour. The same counts for subs/slaves discussing the sexual drive of her master and/or making fun of their master in these forums.

Damn...this is a classic.

Listen dude...i am submissive to ONE. I wear his wedding ring and his collar.

I am subservient and passive to NONE. I was born with and developed a certain level of intelligence and have no issue giving my opinion. I do not give respect to you or any dolt that slaps a dominant title on his ass. Respect is earned.

The fact that you and the OP feel any slave should kiss your ass is highly laughable and could be constituted as insulting if i took either of you two seriously. It definitely leads me to ask the question...just who do you think you are?

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 8:31:22 AM

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I wonder why a sub craving to juggle with shit throws it at other masters instead of her own.

again i reiterate....your self imposed title means jack shit.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 8:31:41 AM

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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

I was about to start a thread myself concerning the amount of extremely rude and aggressive slaves. Some even ordered me to leave this site after I responded to postings they or their friends made. I totally disagree with that users calling themselves slaves can say what they want as long as one does not own them. I read owners and slaves claiming the slave always has to keep in mind what the owner would think of their outings and the slave should not say things that would discredit the owner, yet I usually notice the opposite. It is rediculous that a slave would even think of publicly questioning the words of a dominant and I would not tolerate this behaviour. The same counts for subs/slaves discussing the sexual drive of her master and/or making fun of their master in these forums.

Damn...this is a classic.

Listen dude...i am submissive to ONE. I wear his wedding ring and his collar.

I am subservient and passive to NONE. I was born with and developed a certain level of intelligence and have no issue giving my opinion. I do not give respect to you or any dolt that slaps a dominant title on his ass. Respect is earned.

The fact that you and the OP feel any slave should kiss your ass is highly laughable and could be constituted as insulting if i took either of you two seriously. It definitely leads me to ask the question...just who do you think you are?

Oh, holly...now come on...its the holidays...i bow down to him....where is he?....Oh yeah, there he is in his mothers basement, typing madly away surrounded by a weeks worth of laundry and is that a Star Trek poster there behind him? .....i am overwhelmed with his presence...and now i must kneel before it....
Be a dear and help me back up will ya?

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 8:33:24 AM

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Perse....you are a gem!!!!

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 8:36:42 AM

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saying that someone is a dominat its very easy every one can say it... do it and be it its much much more difficult...

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 8:38:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: Hierodule

I read a couple pages of the thread in question. The op got some really respectful and helpful responses from slaves. I think a lot of posters here, of all persuasions, post questions in the forum not because they want another opinion, but because they want validation that they are right. If you already have your answer, don't post your question here.

Totally right.

I am seeing more and more of these 'validation' posts -

-Is my new profile ok?/I'm not getting responses. (how so called dominants can lack confidence to ask this is beyond me, but I digress)

-Should I hand over my password/keys/bank account/balls to somebody I met online?

-Does my bum look big in this?

Yes, some questioning is valid and more knowledge is (usually) a good thing, but a lot is attention whoring.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 8:43:41 AM

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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

I was referring to your remark about shit juggling.

You misread. I never said anything about shit juggling. I said:

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Well it's commonly considered rude to randomly call someone a fucking pile of donkey poo but since you don't own me, I don't face any d/s reprocussions if I call you that. Just that people will think I'm pretty god damned rude.

My point being that anyone can act however they want. You don't own me so, other than it would be rude, you have no power to say that I shouldn't do or say X, Y, and Z.

Now you can look at me and go "Hey that was rude, why are you doing that?" but you can't say "Hey, don't do that cause I'm a dom and you are a sub" and expect me to obey you.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 8:58:57 AM

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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar
It is rediculous that a slave would even think of publicly questioning the words of a dominant and I would not tolerate this behaviour.

Just as a matter of (mild) interest, exactly what would you do to me if i questioned your words? Since we have never met, and likely to never meet, and you don't run cm- really, what could you do to me?

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 9:00:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar
What I mean is that the same slaves claiming they have to always wonder if their master approves of their public words tell people in these forums to leave this site and send rude messages after giving one's opinion here.

This isn't a D/s thing. It's a rude people thing. I remember the exchange. People were rude to you. I have no doubt they sent you rude messages privately. But you got very defensive-to-offensive in your responses and basically got put on supervised posting because you couldn't calm down and let it go. Please, calm down and let it go. It was months ago. It was not typical of the exchanges on this board, or illustrative of some breach of a (non-existent) communal D/s dynamic. Relax and enjoy the boards for what they have to offer (hint... there is no formal hierarchy among posters. I'd say there is a vague and informal hierarchy that one is free to ignore as it is not enforced by the mods. Just as every slave on this board hasn't consented to respect your dominance, you are under no obligation to consent to the asserted dominance of others)

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 9:04:00 AM

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Lucienne- go back and read the thread. He asked for opinions, and got them, and when (shockhorror) their opinions didn't say what he wanted them to say - he got snarky, and (even bigger shockhorror) people got snarky back.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 9:04:35 AM

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I've had dominants message me telling me I'm too fat for the site and I need to leave

Ok, off topic and you obviously don't require validation on this point, but really... what world are those men living in? Never mind that they would rudely share the thought, why would they even think it?

/off topic

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 9:07:12 AM

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Eigenaar's thread or the OP's? The thread I'm thinking of with Eigenaar, I don't believe was started by him, he tried to make a point and then some people who disagreed with him jumped on him, basically calling him stupid and attacking his language skills. I don't think Eigenaar is capable of being snarky. He's pretty earnest.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 9:11:19 AM

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ORIGINAL: Lucienne

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub
I've had dominants message me telling me I'm too fat for the site and I need to leave

Ok, off topic and you obviously don't require validation on this point, but really... what world are those men living in? Never mind that they would rudely share the thought, why would they even think it?

/off topic

To be fair, it was before I lost weight and I was 200 pounds. Still... it's pretty rude and I hadn't contacted them. It was just out of the blue.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 9:14:49 AM

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Hmmm... Do you think if I put the self imposed title of Weathy Heiress that I can get a 500,000 buck loan from the bank? If that doesn't work do you think it would help if I also added that I am a master?

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 9:19:22 AM

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ORIGINAL: moutas

A long while ago I put down here a little text and /
there were a little inexactitude about myself and I saw/
a flight of aggressive slaves(?)
to destroy all my thought and all the interest of the subject...?
They don't hesit to break the general meaning...
I wonder what is the subtility of this behavior?
Very often I see that same behavior here with other topics/
I wonder why slave girls think that here it is "Gunfight at the O.K. Corral"?
I also wonder if they merit the name "slave"!

Sorry, I like subtle and tactful slaves…!

God I love this...pure free verse poetry, like some lines out of a David Lynch movie...

This would go so much better with a couple of bowls of 420, dimmed lights and improv jazz background while Christopher Walken reads this aloud.

Dig. It.

More Cowbell!

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 9:21:10 AM

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More Cowbell!

*snort*

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 9:21:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: Lucienne

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub
I've had dominants message me telling me I'm too fat for the site and I need to leave

Ok, off topic and you obviously don't require validation on this point, but really... what world are those men living in? Never mind that they would rudely share the thought, why would they even think it?

/off topic

To be fair, it was before I lost weight and I was 200 pounds. Still... it's pretty rude and I hadn't contacted them. It was just out of the blue.

I don't think your weight at the time matters. It's the idea that sexual intimacy is the exclusive province of skinny people that bothers me.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 9:22:50 AM

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I think it'd work better with the Shatner treatment.

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 9:24:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

Hmmm... Do you think if I put the self imposed title of Weathy Heiress that I can get a 500,000 buck loan from the bank? If that doesn't work do you think it would help if I also added that I am a master?

No, but if you get the loan, can I come live with you?
I'll call myself submissive if that helps...

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RE: WHY SLAVES ARE OFTEN AGGRESSIVES? - 11/26/2009 9:32:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: Lucienne

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ORIGINAL: Eigenaar
What I mean is that the same slaves claiming they have to always wonder if their master approves of their public words tell people in these forums to leave this site and send rude messages after giving one's opinion here.

This isn't a D/s thing. It's a rude people thing. I remember the exchange. People were rude to you. I have no doubt they sent you rude messages privately. But you got very defensive-to-offensive in your responses and basically got put on supervised posting because you couldn't calm down and let it go. Please, calm down and let it go. It was months ago. It was not typical of the exchanges on this board, or illustrative of some breach of a (non-existent) communal D/s dynamic. Relax and enjoy the boards for what they have to offer (hint... there is no formal hierarchy among posters. I'd say there is a vague and informal hierarchy that one is free to ignore as it is not enforced by the mods. Just as every slave on this board hasn't consented to respect your dominance, you are under no obligation to consent to the asserted dominance of others)

What I mean, once again, is that users claiming they in their relationship as master and slave have the rule the slave makes no remarks in these threads that could make the master look like a fool, yet the owned slaves in these same relations tell users to leave this site and send idiotic messages. I was not only referring to my own experiences, this happens all the time. It is why a lot of users do not post in these threads and what keeps me from posting more than I do. I do not recall being more defensive-to-offensive in my responses than others. Finding users who actually read what one says resembles looking for a needle in a hay-stack, I am afraid. A lot of people think coming with statistics means one agrees with the outcome.

< Message edited by Eigenaar -- 11/26/2009 9:36:06 AM >

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