MMagic
Posts: 183
Joined: 2/9/2009 Status: offline
|
quote:
ORIGINAL: lucylucy A few weeks ago, my 7-year old daughter gleefully told me about a boy on the bus putting her in handcuffs and how much fun it was. Today, I went into her room and she looked like she was hiding something behind her back and she had a sly grin on her face; when I made her turn around, I saw that she had made little handcuffs out of ribbon and had them around her wrists. I just smiled and left her alone. When I was her age, I was always coming up with games to play with my friends that would involve me being tied up. Did you exhibit what you now see as “submissive” behavior as a child? If you have kids, do you see them doing it? Do you see any danger in allowing kids to play like this? Yes I do notice my daughter doing this!!! And I've been scared to death to say it to anyone! Her father just looks at me and said is submissive behavior hereditary, if it is then you passed it to her. Mine loves to be spanked and says to me the other day to spank her because it feels good. I didn't know what to say or do. How do you handle this?!! LOL! Edited to add that this is one of my fetishes, the spanking and I like it for the reasons she said she likes it..hence my husband saying is this hereditary? I think the shock for all of us here is that we all associate BDSM , even though we're a part of it, as being different from the norm. This proves my theory that kink is just another norm, we are not special and unique snowflakes here. So we're taken aback when children exhibit these traits. I can't say I know what to do with my little one but I tried very hard to not react in either fashion good or bad, just tickled her and changed the subject. I figure I got about 2 more years before that tactic stops working. Hopefully by then I'll have learned a way to deal with this topic in reference to her. I think that children should be taught about sex at a young age but be given only the basics, the rest perhaps should be saved for times when they are older. So we have LESS folks thinking they have to hide in the closet for being into Kink, or gay or being in love with inanimate objects. Ah the future...can't wait to see.
< Message edited by MMagic -- 12/21/2009 4:05:15 PM >
_____________________________
Between two evils, I always pick the one I never tried before. -Mae West
|