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RE: Height - 3/16/2006 3:43:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: Sirandlittle1

I would not wish to know anyone that rejected a person because of their height! How shallow and superficial would that be?

Im personally 6 ft tall, and have many experiences in life of rejection because of my height. Im too tall to appear submissive. I stand like a amazonian woman next to most men.
For some males, its a issue. And like i say, a shallow one at that. But neither of us are losing because of their shallow assessment of me. I lost out on a prat of a dom, they lost out on a tall submissive. A win win situation really.

littleone < oh the irony!

I know what you're saying about the Amazon woman.. where I grew up.. I was one of the taller girls. Unfortunately, I also have my father's build. I grew up with the body of a linebacker. No matter how tone I got, I was still big. Actually weight lifting that we had to do for volleyball in HS, bulked me up to the point I was publically ridiculed by the other girls. I was and still am the one people hand the jars to that they can't open.

But I guess I'm on the superficial bandwagon as well. I've just never gotten into short guys. They always tend to irritate the crap out of me. Don't know if its height related or just the ones I've met.

I like my men taller than me. They don't have to be extremely taller than me but at least taller than me. sub men or Dominant men.. doesn't matter.. must be taller than me.

I'm also picky on other things.. like the way they dress, hygene habits, personality, what they enjoy, and even the color of their hair (do not like red haired men). Come to think of it.. I think I might have something for the color of their eyes too.. as I've never dated or been interested in anyone with green eyes. I'm also picky on feet. Its a thing with me.. ugly feet.. at least in the past has caused me to find someone repulsive. Oh and I also don't find certain skin colors sexually attractive. I require a certain level of physical fitness as well.

Hmm.. I'm sure there are more superficial things I look for.. but I think thats enough for now. People like what they like. There is a difference between not finding someone physically attractive, and downgrading them because of it.

V

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RE: Height - 3/16/2006 3:52:41 PM

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I might just have the ugliest feet this side of hell, so there is another opportunity shot.

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RE: Height - 3/16/2006 3:56:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful
And that's a BAD thing???

Did I SAY it was a bad thing.... well except when trying to spot her in a bar obviously

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Cin <~ who refrains from kicking ankles, but has OTHER ploys

She had other ploys too... if I handn't noticed the kick in the ankle I don't want to speculate as to where she would have sunk her teeth... but it would DEFINATLY have got my undivided attention I'm sure!

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RE: Height - 3/16/2006 4:08:30 PM

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I like men who are taller than me, I wouldnt put it as a prerequisite for partnership though.

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RE: Height - 3/16/2006 5:00:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: SimplyV

I know what you're saying about the Amazon woman.. where I grew up.. I was one of the taller girls. Unfortunately, I also have my father's build. I grew up with the body of a linebacker. No matter how tone I got, I was still big. Actually weight lifting that we had to do for volleyball in HS, bulked me up to the point I was publically ridiculed by the other girls. I was and still am the one people hand the jars to that they can't open.

But I guess I'm on the superficial bandwagon as well. I've just never gotten into short guys. They always tend to irritate the crap out of me. Don't know if its height related or just the ones I've met.

I like my men taller than me. They don't have to be extremely taller than me but at least taller than me. sub men or Dominant men.. doesn't matter.. must be taller than me.

I'm also picky on other things.. like the way they dress, hygene habits, personality, what they enjoy, and even the color of their hair (do not like red haired men). Come to think of it.. I think I might have something for the color of their eyes too.. as I've never dated or been interested in anyone with green eyes. I'm also picky on feet. Its a thing with me.. ugly feet.. at least in the past has caused me to find someone repulsive. Oh and I also don't find certain skin colors sexually attractive. I require a certain level of physical fitness as well.

Hmm.. I'm sure there are more superficial things I look for.. but I think thats enough for now. People like what they like. There is a difference between not finding someone physically attractive, and downgrading them because of it.

V

SimplyV from your description Master would think you are beautiful

He likes tall, strong women. The Commonwealth Games are on at the moment and He has been avidly watching the female swimmers and weightlifters and He can't wait for the basketball

I don't seem to have the "normal" female build. I have broad shoulders, narrow hips and I missed out in the boob and butt line

From the back I have been mistaken for a cross dresser!

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RE: Height - 3/16/2006 5:19:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: SimplyV

I know what you're saying about the Amazon woman.. where I grew up.. I was one of the taller girls. Unfortunately, I also have my father's build. I grew up with the body of a linebacker. No matter how tone I got, I was still big. Actually weight lifting that we had to do for volleyball in HS, bulked me up to the point I was publically ridiculed by the other girls. I was and still am the one people hand the jars to that they can't open.

SimplyV from your description Master would think you are beautiful He likes tall, strong women. The Commonwealth Games are on at the moment and He has been avidly watching the female swimmers and weightlifters and He can't wait for the basketball

I don't seem to have the "normal" female build. I have broad shoulders, narrow hips and I missed out in the boob and butt line From the back I have been mistaken for a cross dresser!

*laughs* Well your Master's tastes are sure unusual from my experiences with men (at least vanilla ones). I'm glad to hear there are men like him out there.

I'm just big all over.. Broad shoulders, big arms, big boobs, big thighs, huge calves, and a large butt. Sadly, I have not kept up the fitness I had when I was 18. My experiences in HS have made me quite afraid of gyms and working out. Its a daily battle, but I haven't given up.

When I was 25, my bf at the time talked me into working out with him. He didn't belive me that if I worked out and lifted weights with him that I would in fact bulk up instead of trim down. I did lose inches in my waist, but my arms and shoulders got broader. The relationship kinda went on the outs soon after this.. as one day we were screwing around and did one of those.. "I bet you can't pick me up" challenges. He of course.. struggled to lift me. I however lifted him like a sack of potatoes.

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RE: Height - 3/16/2006 5:25:13 PM

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Height is actually one of the main reasons why I stopped looking for a partner. Way too often I would be told I was too short, that she was looking for someone taller, and quite often this would come from women who were shorter than me. I would see ads that list height requirements, and almost always a 5'0" girl wants a guy 5'9" or taller. In the beginning, I thought it was just a weird glitch, but then I started noticing it ALL THE TIME. I'd get rejected before someone ever met me, spoke to me, or participated in an email exchange. It's very frustrating.

At least my stuffed animals like me for who I am. Well, all except for that stuffed penguin. Stupid penguin.

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RE: Height - 3/16/2006 5:44:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: IronBear
cin, when my son was but a toddler and into the terrible twos, he jsue to meed new males with head bowed in a very submissive manner and when he goy into head range he'd raise his head fast and catch the guy in the balls. He'd say sowwy and race off peeing with laughter.....

LOL, I have certianly learned better than to greet a man that way...Of course, 4'10 has its advantages, especially when dating a man over 6'. Well, no need to elaborate!

Besides, it just means I have more room to squirm in the cage...

Cin

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RE: Height - 3/16/2006 5:51:25 PM

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At least my stuffed animals like me for who I am. Well, all except for that stuffed penguin. Stupid penguin.

Fur Persons (to be politically correct), you have Fur Persons??

<<Watches as the stampede of over 100 Fur Persons head out to get onto the Fur Net and make contact and start dialig on the Fur Phones >>

We have Wombats, a platapus, several byunnies and their children, Possums (ringtail and brushtails) and their kids,, Tagers and Pantters, Dogs (small, large and very large) and of course Bears.. (Grizzlies and Polar Bears). Wonderful for those alone.. Have been toying with the idea of building a web poge for Fur Persons and a means for other collectors to share and just socialise.

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RE: Height - 3/16/2006 5:57:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: RavenMuse
Awwww CUTE! *Gives Cin a cookie*

Hot homemade peanut butter cookie, I hope. All is forgiven ::grin::

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She had other ploys too... if I handn't noticed the kick in the ankle I don't want to speculate as to where she would have sunk her teeth... but it would DEFINATLY have got my undivided attention I'm sure!

Now, is there any wonder we little ones turn into attention sluts?? After several decades of hearing "I didn't see you there..." we have to find some way to get noticed! LOL

Cin

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RE: Height - 3/16/2006 6:11:34 PM

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Fur Persons (to be politically correct), you have Fur Persons??

<<Watches as the stampede of over 100 Fur Persons head out to get onto the Fur Net and make contact and start dialig on the Fur Phones >>

We have Wombats, a platapus, several byunnies and their children, Possums (ringtail and brushtails) and their kids,, Tagers and Pantters, Dogs (small, large and very large) and of course Bears.. (Grizzlies and Polar Bears). Wonderful for those alone.. Have been toying with the idea of building a web poge for Fur Persons and a means for other collectors to share and just socialise.

Laughing...I had gotten my ex several different ones over the years and some seemed to come to the forefront with their own personalities...there was a monkey who liked cartoons, a gorilla who was a sarcastic asshole, a frog into British comedies, a hippo who slipped between anarchy and nihilism...etc.
Yes, I do have an absurd, silly side, just don't tell anyone, ok?
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RE: Height - 3/16/2006 6:48:39 PM

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ORIGINAL: littleone35

I am wondering did anyone ever turn down a Master/Dom on account of his height? I mean it really does not matter to me what height he is but i am very short to begin with.

Matt's littleone

It has happened too many times but its their loss, not mine.

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RE: Height - 3/17/2006 7:45:12 AM

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Did I SAY it was a bad thing.... well except when trying to spot her in a bar obviously

Raven
Funny thing is, and maybe it's more energy related, but I'm usually the first person you spot in a bar! Then again maybe because I'm the bartender, lol.

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RE: Height - 3/17/2006 7:47:08 AM

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But I guess I'm on the superficial bandwagon as well. I've just never gotten into short guys. They always tend to irritate the crap out of me. Don't know if its height related or just the ones I've met.

SimplyV
I can agree w/what you're saying here, from experiences knowing some shorter men, they tend to have 'napolean syndrom'.

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RE: Height - 3/17/2006 9:38:06 AM

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Well I am 5'11" and my little one is 5'8", she deffinately likes taller men, I have always been partial to taller women myself, anything under 5"7" is on the short side for me. I would never say I wouldn't be involved with a vertically challenged female type person but the further they fall down the scale the more they really need to catch my attention.

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RE: Height - 3/17/2006 1:44:31 PM

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I really do prefer men who are taller than me. I like having them tower over me, but height isn't a deal breaker for me. Particularly since I'm 5'8" and it goes up from there with shoes. A Dom who likes me in 4" in heels is probably going to be towered over to some extent. However, I prefer women who are shorter than me, even if they're Domme to me. Again though, that's preference, if I find the perfect Dom for myself and he's 5'5", I'm not going to turn him down based solely on that.

Edited to say "woo hoo I'm finally curious!"

< Message edited by collegebeauty -- 3/17/2006 1:46:46 PM >

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RE: Height - 3/18/2006 5:28:43 PM

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I like the height thing. It can play with headspace nicely.
The switchy side of me, throughly enjoys the 'innappropriate' attn i get as a amazon. lol
I find a lot of subbie males swoon, which i enjoy thoroughly. And can flirt and tease in top space. Its cool.

As a submissive to a 1" taller dom, i find im often not verticle or stood up anyhow, so its doesnt matter.

interestingly, being a 'woman of the world' this partner, who is the only taller person ive ever slept with, we actually do not fit, in missionary position, who'd of thought? OR maybe thats coz we are both skinny, and the pubic bones get in the way of comfort lol

little one

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RE: Height - 3/18/2006 5:30:56 PM

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well i am short myself so truly a man over 5'7 is tall next to me but i prefer close to 6' or over. my previous Master was 6'6.....just something about a man towering over me

that i love.......

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RE: Height - 3/18/2006 5:34:00 PM

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a very tall man can do wonderful things with a short chick

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ORIGINAL: IronBear
cin, when my son was but a toddler and into the terrible twos, he jsue to meed new males with head bowed in a very submissive manner and when he goy into head range he'd raise his head fast and catch the guy in the balls. He'd say sowwy and race off peeing with laughter.....

LOL, I have certianly learned better than to greet a man that way...Of course, 4'10 has its advantages, especially when dating a man over 6'. Well, no need to elaborate!

Besides, it just means I have more room to squirm in the cage...

Cin

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RE: Height - 3/18/2006 8:18:11 PM

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I was out downtown one afternoon and stopped by the pub where My friends and I socialize. No one was at the door and I needed to use the facilities. Well, I started across the floor at a brisk pace, and the door man magically re-appeared and ran after Me demanding that I show him My ID card. (sigh) He was rather confused, and exclaimed, "But you look like a little kid!"

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ORIGINAL: RavenMuse

Did I SAY it was a bad thing.... well except when trying to spot her in a bar obviously

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