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RE: Height - 3/19/2006 12:45:50 AM

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Oh yeah...not actually on height, but on their Napoleanesque attitude.

I have found that a man generally adds 2" to his actual height here. Why, I don't know.

Short man's syndrome seem rampant in bdsm. Perhaps controlling others makes them feel bigger.
A 5'2" man may have a 10' ego. That's what I can't deal with, not the height difference. Constantly stroking an ego makes me feel like someones mom, not their submissive.

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RE: Height - 3/19/2006 7:04:12 AM

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I am wondering did anyone ever turn down a Master/Dom on account of his height? I mean it really does not matter to me what height he is but i am very short to begin with.

Matt's littleone

I have turned down submissives that were too short, I am tall, in heels I am 5'10 and better---I prefer someone of the same heighth or taller----BUT had they also the other things I was seeking, it may have made a difference. But the boy is almost 6'5 and it's just hot to make him kneel--<smiles>

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RE: Height - 3/19/2006 7:45:35 AM

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Short man's syndrome seem rampant in bdsm

lol
I think it's everywhere, not just in bdsm
I am 5'9" and it takes a very tall guy to qualify as tall to me. A guy who is 6' is just on the cusp of being "tall enough".

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RE: Height - 3/19/2006 8:01:10 AM

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If she is that short I can always pick her up to kiss her

But Raven

what if

she's taller than you?

/raises an eyebrow and grins

He makes her kneel, silly---

<smiles>--I love it, when I'm standing--My head rests in the middle of the boy's chest, when he's kneeling, his rests in the middle of Mine--the perfect fit for Me.

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RE: Height - 3/19/2006 8:30:18 AM

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Being 5'11" barefooted. I do prefer a taller sub. Something about topping a tall masculine male just does it for me. But I haven't turned down someone because of their height. My last relationship was 5 years with a fella that was 5'8". It wasnt his height that broke it. It was his vanilla outlook on sex.

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RE: Height - 3/21/2006 12:58:11 AM

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I personally would not have turned down my One for any physical reason - it is what is inside, what drives Him, that I care about.

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RE: Height - 3/21/2006 5:21:09 AM

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When it comes to height, and many other things I like extremes either very short or very tall. But to be quite honest height never bothered me, not something I care about.

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RE: Height - 3/21/2006 6:11:07 AM

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ORIGINAL: littleone35

I am wondering did anyone ever turn down a Master/Dom on account of his height? I mean it really does not matter to me what height he is but i am very short to begin with.

Matt's littleone

Though i cannot imagine allowing height to cloud my feelings, it has never happened that i have met a Man that is shorter than me..well not yet anyway.

jenna

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RE: Height - 3/21/2006 11:54:38 AM

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My experience with shorter men is that they are, by and large, more aggressive, more short tempered, more sadistic. Basically they act as if they have a chip on their shoulder. Since I'm not into pain I didn't want that. I also don't like people who aren't laid back. So yes, I was much quicker to reject a shorter man. I know there must be short men who are self confident but I don't have any experience with them.

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RE: Height - 3/21/2006 12:04:18 PM

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Well, I am only 5'3. So I suppose their are a lot of people who are taller then me. I just sort of deal with it. Tall is intimidating. And intimidating is alluring.

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I'm a short girl, so usually height isn't an issue - 3/21/2006 12:09:53 PM

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Hi,

I've never turned someone down because of their height, but then again, I'm very short anyway (5'2) so it would be very unusual for a guy to be as short as I am and I don't mind if a girl dominating me is my height.   To be honest, if I'm being dominated by a girl and she's shorter, that's okey too.

To be honest, I do like my dominator to be taller than me by enough to make me feel like I'm just a toy, but I don't like too tall.   Like over 6'2 or so is just too much for me.   You know, within 1 foot of my height is good. That goes for girls or guys who dominate me.

I realize your question was about a guy who is short, but regarding being dominated by a girl who is short, since I'm a switch, I'm told first that I'm very good when I do dominate, but also, that some people get extra turned on by having this little asian 5'2, 95lb girl in control.   Especially when I'm in control of someone much bigger than I am which is almost always the case.   Obviously size has nothing to do with dom or sub, which is why it works so nicely.   I wonder though if there aren't people out there who would be extra turned on even by a short guy in control. I'm just not sure.

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RE: Height - 3/21/2006 12:18:44 PM

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I have now stated on my profile that I am seeking a Dom that is taller than 5'10" and I have had alot of bad reaction to it. Celeste43 is right, short men do have a massive attitude problem. I am only 4'11'' tall (or small) and it seems that all short men seem to beleive that because I am small like them then I must want them. It certainly is not the case and they become quite aggressive. Where are some men prefer blondes, red heads, slim ladys, large ladys then why should I be looked down on for saying i'm attracted to tall men??

Hope everyone is having a fun evening

Lise x x

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RE: Height - 3/21/2006 2:57:56 PM

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Lets forger height and age or even the lifestyle for a moment and look at male/female dynamics. Lise you are a pretty lil thing (not being offensive just the way I speak), from what I see of your pic. I can't see why any redblooded bloke would not want you. Stone the bloody crows even out side the life style I'd be proud to have you on my are and (VWEG) would be even prouder to have you out with me in a collar

Edited to add: Dont listen to the negatives, tell them to shove their heads in interesting places and do an internal self inspectation and you just go for it lass.

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RE: Height - 3/21/2006 3:57:37 PM

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Let's put it this way, I am 5'3 and my Master is 6'9. Hight means nothing too me.

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RE: Height - 3/25/2006 7:58:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: EdensDevil
Let's put it this way, I am 5'3 and my Master is 6'9. Hight means nothing too me.

Since the cultural bias is for shorter women with taller men, I find that statement close to nonsensical.

I'm 5'2" and have been frequently rejected for my height, though more often in the vanilla world than the bdsm (where I have had playmates quite a bit taller than I).

On the other hand, my looks and personality are nothing to write home about either.

Ironically, I am completely unattracted to women under 5'0". It makes me feel too conspicuous, or like I'm part of a wedding cake ornament!

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RE: Height - 3/25/2006 8:07:37 AM

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Height means little to me. I am confident enough in myself to not worry about wether a submissive is short, the same height or taller. Attitude is what I consider to be the most important factor. But even at 5'8" I have been put n the "Do not contact me" list.lol

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RE: Height - 3/25/2006 8:14:39 AM

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Then there are MANY subs and slaves you would not wish to know!!! I've been turned down and rejected many many times, due to the fact I am 5'5",.. by both taller and shorter women!!! It's really a drag, as I don't care aout their height, but I DO love long legs!!! Wish there were more like YOU!!!

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RE: Height - 3/25/2006 8:17:28 AM

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My first post on this site but this is something i'd like to comment on....i have nothing against tall men but myself (5'7) i prefer short men, always have done for some reason.....5'5-5'10 is my preference, winks!

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RE: Height - 3/25/2006 8:19:37 AM

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My earlier post here, was intended toward Sirandlittle.... But I must also add..... to all the women who mention a short guys attitude..... not ALL of us are like that (I HOPE!!) I was told by a female friend that I'm the only guy she's ever met that did NOT have a chip on his shoulder over his height.....( If I HAD... it would have crushed me ages ago!!!LOL!! ) So, although I am "vertically challenged"... don't stereotype me!!

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RE: Height - 3/25/2006 8:31:53 AM

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methinks i could possibly have a whole buncha little guys gravitating towards me now since i seem to be the only one so far that really has a thing for them, hee hee.....and has met some really nice little guys without a bad attitude......smiles sweetly!

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