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RE: female Supremecy - 12/30/2009 8:28:59 PM   
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RE: female Supremecy - 12/30/2009 9:26:56 PM   
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It is my opinion that many people who believe in female supremacy (female ascendance or female exaltation) in fact believe in dominant exaltation. They want to exalt their partner, or they wanted to be exalted by their partner. I identify with this idea.

I have no issue with female ascendance or exaltation within a dynamic, or even if one wishes to be subservient to or exalt women in general. I have partial draw to even this idea. The disagreement between XYisInferior and I is over female superiority--he believes the female sex is inherently superior and thinks it to be a fact of nature. I might come to see my dominant as an inherently superior person in some respects or overall due to her traits as an individual who happens to be a woman, but I do not agree with him that one sex is inherently superior to the other. I believe that greatest power lies in male-female synergy.

There are some who say they believe in female superiority for cerebral reasons. However, I have not seen a sound cerebral argument (one that is based on a balanced, thorough examination that leads to a conclusion, versus a search for data that supports a predetermined conclusion) and I have not yet spoken with one who came to this belief as a result of cerebral reasoning, versus one that began with the belief and then sought cerebral reasoning to justify this belief.

I can understand that some people might feel that the female sex is inherently superior. In my opinion, most of these people have this feeling rooted in emotional and psychosexual places, versus a place that is based on cerebral considerations. If one believes in female superiority for such a reason, fine.

When those who believe in female superiority extend this concept to the world at large and argue that their belief is a fact of nature, it is no longer simply their kink because they are now directing their idea at everyone else. When XYisInferior says men are inferior, he is projecting his sense of inferiority onto me, to which I object. Even if it was not directed at me, I would question him for sake of cerebral disagreement or disagreement in principle, as I have done for similar arguments made for male superiority or superiority of a race.

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RE: female Supremecy - 12/30/2009 9:41:10 PM   
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I don't believe... behind every man is a good woman.


You make a good point that there are single people of each gender who have achieved tremendous success.

Still, I think there might be some merit to the idea, which I think comes from the general idea that having a partner who is supportive can help give one an additional boost during difficult times, and having a confidant with good judgment can help one achieve better decisions. This confidant could be a significant other, a parent, a friend, or a cat ;-)

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RE: female Supremecy - 12/30/2009 9:44:40 PM   
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Of course... I am not saying we can't support and encourage and all that. But I don't believe that it is always the case. Many helped me along my path... I have helped many... But in general... I think there is a lot more to it all.

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RE: female Supremecy - 12/30/2009 9:52:25 PM   
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But I don't believe that it is always the case. Many helped me along my path


So you would want to say that behind every good Lockit there are many people?

;-)

And I suppose the comment I make overlooks the scenario when one has a partner like Peon, which is like having a handicap :p

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RE: female Supremecy - 12/30/2009 9:55:31 PM   
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Yup you could say that.. and some far more fun than others! lol

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RE: female Supremecy - 12/31/2009 12:30:02 AM   
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To the OP ... female supremacy is a lie although they do have real power over men as a result of social and sexual conditioning. From personal experience, after years of sexual addiction I began to look at the women who had real power over me as above me, but really it was always my choice. There are no women who are truly dominant, only men who submit. 99% of "dominant" women would be of average temperament if they were men. Women have no more virtue or ability than men, this is a fallacy. Man is the source of all energy and woman receives. Show me a submissive male and 9999/10000 I will show you a sex addict. I could be wrong but think about it.
I'd say that you're blowing smoke out your ass...
You have a way with words! 
I enjoyed the rest of your post, but I thought this was the most appropriate reply for giveit2me....    M

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RE: female Supremecy - 12/31/2009 10:41:44 AM   
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It is, can be right.  I know it is for me too.  Ditto to what you say in this post!  I feel exactly the same!
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Is it right that I want to give me, my soul to Female Supremecy? My friends know that this is what a big part of my life is and they say that I am mad, but I don't think I am it is something that I strongly beleive in. It is not just about sex to me but the fullfilment that I get from making life more easy for someone who is Female, I can't help it and I don't know where it has come from but I can always remember feeling this way and am not sure why but I go with it and I have found that it is something that I love to do and it drives me forward.


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RE: female Supremecy - 12/31/2009 10:50:06 AM   
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I Agree, definitly NOT ALL FEMALES!!!

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ORIGINAL: Arrogance
My self-esteem just isn't low enough for me to think that all women are superior to me.

I mean... I've seen Sarah Palin on the telly.



She's not a woman, she's a science experiment that went wrong when they tried to cross Rush Limbaugh with Tina Fey.


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RE: female Supremecy - 12/31/2009 11:44:30 AM   
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Female Supremacy comes down to yet another manner in which some males objectify all females. It's the excuse to not treat females as they wish to be treated ("I am here to serve all females...all of them are better than me." Fuck that some females are s-types, some are dykes, and some simply don't wish to have some guy making excuse to pretend to grovel no matter how uncomfortable such an act is for that female) and to objectify them under the thin vale of "worship".

Anyone ever notice that "worship" requests focus on the requesting individual's favorite part of the body? How is this "worship" "serving" the person being petitioned?

There's a reason very few Dommes are interested in hearing or doing anything involved with a male's idea of "Female Supremacy". 

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RE: female Supremecy - 12/31/2009 6:57:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: XYisInferior

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There's a reason very few Dommes are interested in hearing or doing anything involved with a male's idea of "Female Supremacy".


You may be surprised to hear this, but I agree. Many men do no doubt attempt to smuggle their self-centered fetishes in under the label of "Female Supremacy".

Is that where theory and practice of FS ends, however? For as absurd as you may think I am, I'd say it's pretty narrow minded and dismissive to think that's all there is behind the FS lifestyle. Of course, it's somewhat of a mea culpa when those claiming to know what all the men involved in it are all about when they openly admit that they don't believe in FS or do not practice it. In short, the knucklehead queries from Collarme and Fetlife should not be laid upon the doorstep of a philosophy or way of life.


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RE: female Supremecy - 1/1/2010 9:44:09 AM   
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What is your point? It seems you are using statistics for cerebral conclusions.


I've mentioned that I draw my beliefs several ways. Be that as it may, don't we usually start with experiences and studies to build a belief or support an argument?


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ORIGINAL: undergroundsea
If you are using them, what is your hypothesis?


I think it's fair to say I've sketched that out fairly enough by now.

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In that list of occupations is law enforcement, firefighters, military, more. Sure, these professions are not filled in equal numbers. However, that lack of parity is irrelevant with respect to the claim that men are put in harms way because women are deemed the superior sex. I see flawed reasoning in the source you cite...


Really? Please prove the flawed reasoning here. The purpose of the example was to show that protection of the Female is present on a social level—that keeping Women safe is an inherent biological trait, and that males are considered more expendable. Do you question the greater expendability of males?



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The dispute between Mary Queen of Scots and her cousin Elizabeth I was between two women who sought each other's death for sake of the throne and power.


On the surface, this seems like a valid thing to say until you study history a little deeper. Mary Stuart was very close to the strict Catholic orthodox, and consequently, King Phillip II of Spain, making her little more than an instrument of an old institution to regain influence over the English crown. You also forget that historians believe Elizabeth may have been tricked into signing Mary's beheading.

I think Empress Wu might be more the flavor you were looking for?


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Those who advocate racial superiority believe that whichever race they advocate is superior due to genetic traits. To back their claim, they, too, point to uncontrolled statistical data that has not been critically examined.


Could you provide data to support this comparison? I'd be curious to see how it compares with dialog about the differences between sexes, which are verifiable genetically and behaviorally.


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That number comes from an old Kinsey study from around the 50s which actually put the number closer to 20% and with criteria that was so broad where even an interest in scratching was enough--the 25% represents a conservative estimate based on that source. A more recent study done across roughly 20,000 sexually active adults in Australia in this decade reported the number of people who had been active in BDSM (versus having an interest in it) to be less than 2%. While one can question how reliable each number is, one can also compare the number of people who frequent BDSM personals or porn with the number of people on mainstream personals or porn to get a sense for how large a segment of population do BDSMers constitute. BDSM is discussed as one of the paraphilias in human sexuality courses in college and is presented as a minority population. I have never encountered any information that would suggest otherwise. If you believe that BDSMers represent a larger portion of the population, what is your basis for thinking so?


BDSM has been declassified as an outright paraphilia in DSM last time I checked, so I'm not certain why college courses would be teaching such a thing so absolutely without pathological context. As for Kinsey, yes, the work is a little outdated. I've never seen in-depth data from Kinsey about sadomasochism. I do recall a figure close to 50% for both males and Females regarding erotic response to biting, however. Your other numbers from Kinsey seem close. As for the Australian study, I've never heard of it.

All that aside, what do sadomasochistic leanings and practices have to do with my belief in FS, anyway? The point has already been made that "Female is better" extends beyond Collarme and Fetlife forums, and their associated lifestyles.



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I believe the Mf numbers to exceed the Fm numbers.


Seeing as how this comment is based upon supposition, it's hard to seriously argue for either side, unless you can provide objective data to support your belief, above latter point withstanding, of course.


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Lastly, to have meaningful statistics, one does not need to speak with every individual on the planet as you suggested. With an appropriately chosen sample, one can find reliable statistics within a reasonable margin of error. Any statistics we have that show size of the BDSM population, or size of various religious followings have value even if not every single person on the planet was interviewed.


So at first you want to consider cultural influences and subtle nuanced contextual details regarding the statistics involving male violence, but here you'd like to sample and average your calculations without context to cultural influences, which is perfectly fine, so long as you admit you're doing nothing more than estimating.


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ORIGINAL: undergroundsea
To simply say that an X chromosome is larger than a Y chromosome does not make for an adequate argument for female superiority.


I think I've answered to that in post #77.


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ORIGINAL: undergroundsea
What benefit does the larger size of the X chromosome bring?


Roughly 80 functioning genes vs. over a thousand? Perhaps you tell me.


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I don't claim that men do not have a greater tendency for physical violence but do ask if you are oversimplifying the situation or exaggerating the meaningfulness of the statistic to favor your argument, and overlooking statistics that do not.


And yet you seem in agreement with me that overall, males are more violent, give or take cultural influences.


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ORIGINAL: undergroundsea
As you talk about differences between the sexes, I see no indication that you have taken a broader, balanced look and considered matters that go each way but I could be wrong. Have you?


As I've said before, I've formed my beliefs from experiential and informational sources. How balanced I am is impossible to express without writing a voluminous dissertation on the subject. Am I balanced? Are you really unbiased? Impossible to prove, but it appears we have our hunches about each other.


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ORIGINAL: undergroundsea
I continue to believe in the concept of synergy at an individual and collective level. That with men and women is greater than that with men only or women only, which is what I mean when I refer to synergy at a collective level.


Again, where is synergy absent in a Female-led relationship based upon Female Supremacy? It's not as if even in the most idealized FS environment males are absent from the world, unneeded or unused. I can say the same about male supremacy ideals as well, in fact. Synergy doesn't have simply one face, from the way I look at it.

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RE: female Supremecy - 1/1/2010 9:53:43 AM   
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Objective facts are so called precisely because they must be accepted by everyone.  It makes no sense at all to say that a given belief is 'objective fact' but also say that the rest of us are welcome to 'take it or leave it'. 


That's not quite right. Objective facts are not dependent upon validation of the mind to exist. They are not influenced by personal feelings, nor represent the approval of all.

Further, to claim belief was made a synonym for objective fact in this thread is pretty unsubstantiated.

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RE: female Supremecy - 1/1/2010 10:11:33 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
Clearly, a woman who brings about destruction and death to thousands and nearly bankrupts the country (not to mention killing off a sizeable chunk of its populace) is not an aggressive, mad old bat but a 'strong woman who will not be controlled by men' - per her superior, more gutsy and individualistic genes.


Elizabeth's foreign policy was for the most part defensive, from my understanding, and overall raised England's status in the world during very troubled times. She was remarkably tolerant of different religions, and was not quick to sign death warrants. When she took the throne, England was an impoverished country troubled by foreign interests and religious conflict. When she died in 1603, England was one of the most powerful and prosperous countries in the world.

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RE: female Supremecy - 1/1/2010 10:28:34 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MzMia
Dear Lord you get it.
It is between you and your Mistress, that is all that is necessary.
Why are there so many bone heads that don't understand that for many, this belief
is ONLY between the people involved??
Thanks XY


Thanks Mia. I think Female Supremacy is often a hot button for many, even more so than the concept of male supremacy. It's not that I disagree with all those hot button arguments, either. The twenty-something self-styled "Female Supremacists" sticking up their middle fingers and hustling cash on cam or the fetishcentric men who prostitute the "superior Woman" for their own sexual gratification and nothing more are annoying. Believe me, I can relate to those arguments. Where I diverge is saying Female Supremacy is nothing more than that or that the way I've formed my beliefs are invalid.

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RE: female Supremecy - 1/1/2010 2:10:30 PM   
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don't we usually start with experiences and studies to build a belief or support an argument?


What I am questioning is whether experiences and studies have been used correctly to build a belief or support an argument.

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I think it's fair to say I've sketched that out fairly enough by now.


You cite some statistics, and have comments about using statistics alongside a general belief in female superiority. You said cerebral data can draw upon statistics and asked whether this idea was valid with no context of which statistic you mean. To answer and to assess whether your observation logically follows from the statistics, and whether you have applied critical thinking while evaluating data, I asked for the specific statistic and hypothesis. Your current response does not provide useful information.

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Really? Please prove the flawed reasoning here. The purpose of the example was to show that protection of the Female is present on a social level—that keeping Women safe is an inherent biological trait, and that males are considered more expendable. Do you question the greater expendability of males?


Protection of society is present on a social level. It is why elderly and children are also protected. I will spend more time discussing the flawed reasoning after you explain why children and elderly are protected by men, and why with time more women have moved into roles, law enforcement for example, where they protect society, a point I raised when you first raised this matter.

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On the surface, this seems like a valid thing to say until you study history a little deeper. Mary Stuart was very close to the strict Catholic orthodox, and consequently, King Phillip II of Spain, making her little more than an instrument of an old institution to regain influence over the English crown. You also forget that historians believe Elizabeth may have been tricked into signing Mary's beheading.


Regardless of how Mary's ascendance to the throne might have helped others, she also wanted the throne. Regardless of whether others exaggerated the threat posed by Mary to Elizabeth, when Elizabeth felt a threat to her power she sought violence to neutralize it. Before signing the execution warrant, Elizabeth asked two men if they would kill Mary so as to eliminate Mary without any political fallout that signing the execution warrant might have caused. It was indeed politics and power at work, and is a counterexample to your claim.

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Could you provide data to support this comparison? I'd be curious to see how it compares with dialog about the differences between sexes, which are verifiable genetically and behaviorally.


I am uninterested to find and reproduce the arguments of racist groups here and suggest you find them yourself.

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BDSM has been declassified as an outright paraphilia in DSM last time I checked, so I'm not certain why college courses would be teaching such a thing so absolutely without pathological context.


Consult Masters and Johnson textbook titled Our Sexuality.

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As for the Australian study, I've never heard of it.


For details see this site: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18331257

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All that aside, what do sadomasochistic leanings and practices have to do with my belief in FS, anyway? The point has already been made that "Female is better" extends beyond Collarme and Fetlife forums, and their associated lifestyles.


You argued that because some believe in female superiority, it must be a fact of nature and there must be a force of nature causing this belief. I challenged this argument by saying there are larger populations who hold a different belief, and said that those who believe in FS within BDSM represent a small portion of the population, as do those who believe in FS outside of BDSM. SM leanings and practices have to do with your belief in FS because of the argument you made to justify FS.

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Seeing as how this comment is based upon supposition, it's hard to seriously argue for either side, unless you can provide objective data to support your belief, above latter point withstanding, of course.


I can easily provide data. First, I want to get a sense for how much we are living in the same world. Do you believe that Fm numbers are greater than Mf numbers based on what you see on BDSM sites, and in BDSM communities?

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So at first you want to consider cultural influences and subtle nuanced contextual details regarding the statistics involving male violence, but here you'd like to sample and average your calculations without context to cultural influences, which is perfectly fine, so long as you admit you're doing nothing more than estimating.


So for something like violence you ignore cultural influences and put faith in statistics, but when I speak of statistics about those into FS, you speak of cultural influences and unreliability of statistical data?

I have given my reasoning for what puts to question your interpretation of statistics and which factors you overlook. You are welcome to give reasoning for why you think my proposed use of statistics is flawed.

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Roughly 80 functioning genes vs. over a thousand? Perhaps you tell me.


Perhaps instead I should tell you this is the type of vague response I see when I ask someone who makes hand waving arguments to explain more specifically. I do not know specifically what the effect is of the smaller number of genes in this case. If you don't know the answer fair enough. But if you do not know, then do not present this point as an argument.

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And yet you seem in agreement with me that overall, males are more violent, give or take cultural influences.


I am in agreement that statistics show that males are more likely to commit physical aggression. Where I disagree is what all leads to this difference. The matter goes beyond cultural differences. And I direct various points at you that put to question your interpretation and assessment of the data, including a question about why the source you cite says men are more likely to commit physical aggression and women are more likely to commit psychological aggression.

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Again, where is synergy absent in a Female-led relationship based upon Female Supremacy? It's not as if even in the most idealized FS environment males are absent from the world, unneeded or unused. I can say the same about male supremacy ideals as well, in fact. Synergy doesn't have simply one face, from the way I look at it.


Leadership roles in society by one sex only, or leadership defined by one's sex versus one's merits does not have the synergy that one would see in leadership roles in society by both sexes, and leadership based on one's individual traits.

I have explained why an egalitarian relationship is more conducive for synergy, which you acknowledge in your post 88. What you present as characteristics of FS are not specifically characteristic of FS but of any good relationship, which can exist across any type of dynamic. The type of synergy from a good relationship you describe can also exist in MS relationships. Thus, your suggestion that these characteristics or synergy are a direct or necessary result of FS in invalid. Furthermore, some FS interpretations that consider men good for labor only specifically go against that that creates this synergy.

That is where the synergy is absent.

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RE: female Supremecy - 1/1/2010 3:03:31 PM   
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Objective facts are so called precisely because they must be accepted by everyone.  It makes no sense at all to say that a given belief is 'objective fact' but also say that the rest of us are welcome to 'take it or leave it'. 



That's not quite right. Objective facts are not dependent upon validation of the mind to exist. They are not influenced by personal feelings, nor represent the approval of all.


That characterisation only works on paper and in theory.  In practice, 'objective facts' are meaningless without human minds to know that they exist.  It was human minds that invented the concept of 'objective facts' in the first place and humans have always been involved in identifying (or even creating - if you believe the postmodernists) such 'objective facts'. Many (if not most, or even all) of these purported facts are very much influenced by personal feelings. 

For instance: the the idea and possibility of objectivity in science was once the almost exclusive preserve of men.  Male scientists observed that men's heads were bigger than women's and this explained why men must be more intelligent.  Nowadays, we can see that their minds and their feelings simply made them seek out the 'evidence' that they wanted to find.   As far as I can see, anyone who, for example, holds that women are superior to men because they have a more complex genetic make-up is making the flip-side of exactly the same mistake. 

A judgement that a thing (like the head or the genetic make-up) of person A is bigger than that of person B might be made without it involving the feelings much.  On the other hand, a judgement that A is superior to B unavoidably involves the feelings, because the ideas of superiority and inferiority are inherently value-laden. 





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RE: female Supremecy - 1/1/2010 5:26:09 PM   
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You cite some statistics, and have comments about using statistics alongside a general belief in female superiority. You said cerebral data can draw upon statistics and asked whether this idea was valid with no context of which statistic you mean.


I've presented the basis for my viewpoints in conjunction with statistics or other available data, as you have requested. I'm not sure about what else I can add for your understanding.



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ORIGINAL: undergroundsea
I will spend more time discussing the flawed reasoning after you explain why children and elderly are protected by men, and why with time more women have moved into roles, law enforcement for example, where they protect society, a point I raised when you first raised this matter.


Actually, children are protected and nurtured by Women foremost, and men protect Women and their children foremost. Both Women and men protect the elderly. Who protects the men? The point is, from a biological perspective, men are more expendable. Again I ask you to disprove this hypothesis. Cerebrally or philosophically. Your choice.



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Regardless of how Mary's ascendance to the throne might have helped others, she also wanted the throne.


The want of power is not in itself an evil, though one must have questioned her designs for the English throne, considering her associations. Though I can't summon Mary and ask what her personal reasons for wanting the throne were, the Babington Plot certainly lends credence to the notion Mary was not alone in her actions.

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ORIGINAL: undergroundsea
Before signing the execution warrant, Elizabeth asked two men if they would kill Mary so as to eliminate Mary without any political fallout that signing the execution warrant might have caused. It was indeed politics and power at work, and is a counterexample to your claim.


While this splinter argument is in reality neither here nor there, that is entirely speculative, historically, as is admittedly the idea Elizabeth was tricked into signing the death warrant. Nonetheless, it is well accepted that Elizabeth did not want to kill Mary. If she did, it would have been fairly easy to assassinate her outright when she initially fled to England.


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I am uninterested to find and reproduce the arguments of racist groups here and suggest you find them yourself.

I've more than indulged your need for facts and metrics from the average reader's perspective, I imagine. I hoped you would reciprocate.

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Consult Masters and Johnson textbook titled Our Sexuality.


That book doesn't appear to list "paraphilia" in a pejorative sense. Point of semantics: if you intended to use "paraphilia" according to its greek roots, no issue, though most use the term as synonymous with "disorder", which is no longer tenable overall from DSM standards, unless certain criteria are met.



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ORIGINAL: undergroundsea
SM leanings and practices have to do with your belief in FS because of the argument you made to justify FS.

Sadomasochism? I would think you'd choose D/s as a more tidy acronym to describe the origin of my Female Superiority beliefs—beliefs of which are beyond D/s, if you care to read my arguments fully.



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Do you believe that Fm numbers are greater than Mf numbers based on what you see on BDSM sites, and in BDSM communities?

First I'd need to define what amount of F/m and M/f relationships really are in existence today. That is impossible to deduce accurately, even if we all can agree on what constitutes a legitimate M/s relationship. Dip into any "what is the difference between a slave and submissive" thread and one quickly realizes even those who practice this way of life can't agree. Good luck with the metrics, there.



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ORIGINAL: undergroundsea
So for something like violence you ignore cultural influences and put faith in statistics, but when I speak of statistics about those into FS, you speak of cultural influences and unreliability of statistical data?


I just don't think the sources you cite are very accurate. Kinsey, even if his work was up to date (which it isn't) didn't focus on D/s much at all. You mention an Australian study, and that's well and good, though Australia is far from representative of the entire world population, don't you think? Did you also notice that a representative sample of people in this study were interviewed by telephone, and the results were determined via a formula of logistic regression (AKA parsimonious sampling)?

That aside, I'm not certain why you keep insisting we look only at the BDSM sphere in a discussion about Female Superiority, which this discussion has turned into. Nonetheless, I asked for you to cite statistics to back up a rhetorical global estimate you made, of which you have none (you can only use a sample system based on very limited data).



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ORIGINAL: undergroundsea
Perhaps instead I should tell you this is the type of vague response I see when I ask someone who makes hand waving arguments to explain more specifically. I do not know specifically what the effect is of the smaller number of genes in this case. If you don't know the answer fair enough. But if you do not know, then do not present this point as an argument.


You would know if you took the time to read the links I provided, especially reading Barbara Migeon's work on X inactivation and immunity benefits of the X chromosome. Admittedly heady, but fascinating read.


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ORIGINAL: undergroundsea

Leadership roles in society by one sex only, or leadership defined by one's sex versus one's merits does not have the synergy that one would see in leadership roles in society by both sexes, and leadership based on one's individual traits.



So it's a certain form of synergy you are looking for. In short, you are a champion of equality and egalitarianism. Well and good, and no great surprise.

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RE: female Supremecy - 1/1/2010 5:34:33 PM   
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That characterisation only works on paper and in theory.  In practice, 'objective facts' are meaningless without human minds to know that they exist.  It was human minds that invented the concept of 'objective facts' in the first place and humans have always been involved in identifying (or even creating - if you believe the postmodernists) such 'objective facts'. Many (if not most, or even all) of these purported facts are very much influenced by personal feelings. 


So in other words, there are no objective facts? 


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For instance: the the idea and possibility of objectivity in science was once the almost exclusive preserve of men.  Male scientists observed that men's heads were bigger than women's and this explained why men must be more intelligent.  Nowadays, we can see that their minds and their feelings simply made them seek out the 'evidence' that they wanted to find.


Quite true. And of course, today, with the very same quality of research methods used to explore genetics and the intricacies of the male/Female brain itself, we can deduce that the male brain is on average larger than the Female brain due to the extra neurons needed for control of larger muscle tissue. By that same system, we can also compare male and Female brain structure.

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RE: female Supremecy - 1/1/2010 6:27:04 PM   
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I've presented the basis for my viewpoints in conjunction with statistics or other available data, as you have requested. I'm not sure about what else I can add for your understanding.


Not quite. Here is the path this portion of the conversation has taken:

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Sea: I mean to describe an approach that is based on reasoning versus on what one wants emotionally.


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ORIGINAL: XYisInferior
Analytical / left-brained thought processes can digest FBI crime statistics well enough, can't they? Better yet, they may arrive upon hypothesis based upon those statistics.


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Sea: Sure, cerebral reasoning can draw upon statistical data. However, a reference to statistical data does not by itself make for sound cerebral reasoning. The question remains about whether the reasoning presented follows logically from the statistical data, and whether adequate critical thinking has been applied in evaluating the statistical data.

Is there a specific statistic and corresponding cerebral reasoning you have in mind?


This portion of the conversation has occurred before any specific reference to statistics. I explicitly ask you if you have any statistic in mind. Here is your answer:

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XY:
Which is why I said a cerebral process may arrive upon a hypothesis based upon those statistics.


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Sea: What is your point? It seems you are using statistics for cerebral conclusions. Are you using them or is it that you may be using them? If you are using them, what is your hypothesis? Does it logically follow from the statistics, and have you given critical thought to what variables are uncontrolled as you examine these statistics?


Then you cited crime statistics, for which I questioned whether you have given these statistics critical thought and examined uncontrolled variables. There are several points I asked you as part of questioning your review of these statistics which you have not addressed. Here is the remainder of conversation which should show to you why you have not really responded to the question posed to you through this portion of the conversation.

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XY: I've mentioned that I draw my beliefs several ways. Be that as it may, don't we usually start with experiences and studies to build a belief or support an argument?


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ORIGINAL: undergroundsea
What I am questioning is whether experiences and studies have been used correctly to build a belief or support an argument.

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XY: I think it's fair to say I've sketched that out fairly enough by now.


You cite some statistics, and have comments about using statistics alongside a general belief in female superiority. You said cerebral data can draw upon statistics and asked whether this idea was valid with no context of which statistic you mean. To answer and to assess whether your observation logically follows from the statistics, and whether you have applied critical thinking while evaluating data, I asked for the specific statistic and hypothesis. Your current response does not provide useful information.


Cheers,

Sea

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