AAkasha
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Would other flirtatious "demands" for submission bother you? What if she ordered you to jerk off. What if she sent you her wet panties and told you to worship them. What if she described a sexual fantasy of hers in email and asked you to respond in kind - are those considered too soon also, or is it just the denial of orgasm? The reality? If you have never talked to her on the phone and just met it's probably a guy - sorry. But asking for orgasm denial early on? I have done that. I started doing things like that in college with guys I was just barely starting to date. Why? Because it's exciting. "Don't cum until I tell you to, ok?" is flirtation to me. It sets an interesting tone. Do I consider it a viable way to start courting a guy? No, not really. It goes back to the other thread (great thread) about bending vs. breaking. I don't like to set up rules that are unenforceable or rigid so early on that the ultimate end result is a failure of some kind. Either the guy will lie, or he won't be able to comply, or he will have to say, "I failed you" early on -- no good outcome in any of those cases. However, *discussing* the control of the boy's orgasm, flirting with the idea, giving "Smaller tests" is a method of seduction. Making him 'earn' the next orgasm. Doing everything in my power to ensure that the next time he orgasms, his thoughts will be on me - either through denial and making him earn it, or making him do it on his knees, or even making him cum while I listen or watch or participate remotely -- those are methods to start seducing his surrender to me by taking control of his cock. I just prefer to use a method that is more subtle than, "Hi joe, you don't know me yet, but I control your cock and orgasms now, got it?" Akasha
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