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Will I try it again? - 12/12/2009 2:54:25 AM

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First of all, thanks much for the replies to my last post: "Define an Appropriate Master". It set me to thinking about the direction my life is taking, and whether it is the right one or not.

I recently had a sub who had introduced herself online to me, and we made a psychic connection. I had to see her, so I went there, and found her to be very much to my liking. Her body type was truly what I wanted, and we were already soulmates. We met for dinner at a restaurant one evening. A few weeks later, I took her to live with me and she was the most equisite, seductive beauty imaginable. Lying on the couch all day and playing with her phone and her computer. She was supposedly searching for a job, but I knew better, and I didn't mind at all. I don't want my women to work at anything other than their selves. I have a "couch potato" fetish, and I like them lazy.

I bought her numerous things, Princess things. Clothing, cigarettes, booze, lovely dark fingernails, candy bars, a rather large tat (which looks beautiful on her arm), vibes and KY. I would have gotten her the moon, if I could have. She had earned it, just sitting on that couch every day, waiting for me to come home and to caress her and give her things, to take her as men do. I tickled, I sucked her face and other places, many other places, and I f*cked her on several occasions in the short weeks beyond. I had numerous plans, and she was game for them. I could have turned more of my fantasies into reality if I could have a few weeks more with her.
Now, sadly, and because of circumstances beyond either of our control, she is gone. It came as a surprise to both of us. It was neither her choice nor mine, but the experience has left me with dreams and visions of who I am, and exactly what direction my life has taken. She chats with me and texts me on the phone daily still, and I am responsive; my love for her spans the 75 miles between us. and she tries to meet my needs, but sometimes fails. Sometimes, she is missing, doesn't answer the phone when she's high with friends, and I understand. I would be there if I could and get high with her.

She expresses a need to leave her current situation and come back to me, and I want her back. She doesn't like this situation that she's in, but she also feels a need to be there; she has a husband and a family. She stayed five weeks, and she wants to come back after the holidays.

My question is: Should I take her in, or not? Is she simply scamming me? Or does she have the deep love for me that she claims to have? What do you think?

RE: Will I try it again? - 12/12/2009 3:26:52 AM

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What do you think?

I think that you are either a troll or a male submissive. You have mentioned how you loved serving her, and not a thing about what she did for you. A tribute kind of relationship. You also sound like you might have a cuckold fantasy.

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RE: Will I try it again? - 12/12/2009 3:31:59 AM

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She expresses a need to leave her current situation and come back to me, and I want her back. She doesn't like this situation that she's in, but she also feels a need to be there; she has a husband and a family. She stayed five weeks, and she wants to come back after the holidays.

My question is: Should I take her in, or not? Is she simply scamming me? Or does she have the deep love for me that she claims to have? What do you think?

assuming you are not a troll......the two of you deserve each other.

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RE: Will I try it again? - 12/12/2009 3:32:00 AM

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Well, she certainly runs the relationship, such as it is, in the midst of her drug-induced laziness.

Sounds dreadfully boring.

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RE: Will I try it again? - 12/12/2009 3:34:58 AM

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She doesn't like this situation that she's in, but she also feels a need to be there; she has a husband and a family.

i have to ask...how old are the kids?

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RE: Will I try it again? - 12/12/2009 3:39:18 AM

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She expresses a need to leave her current situation and come back to me, and I want her back. She doesn't like this situation that she's in, but she also feels a need to be there; she has a husband and a family. She stayed five weeks, and she wants to come back after the holidays.

My question is: Should I take her in, or not? Is she simply scamming me? Or does she have the deep love for me that she claims to have? What do you think?
assuming you are not a troll......the two of you deserve each other.

OMG. I tuned out before I got to this part.

OP, a Dom is responsible for himself and his submissive(s). The role is not suitable for someone who has no clue or care what impacts his actions may have on others.

You're in your fifties and are acting like a hormonal teenager on his first crush. Do you have any clue how this tryst will affect her life? Are you prepared for the scene where her husband tracks her down to your place and gets into a screaming argument with her in front of your neighbors? Does he have a gun?

At this point, your best bet would be to connect with a Domme willing to take you under her wing and show you behavior to emulate. And maybe beat the hell out of you when you deserve it.

< Message edited by DarkSteven -- 12/12/2009 3:44:32 AM >

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RE: Will I try it again? - 12/12/2009 3:47:48 AM

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OP, a Dom is responsible for himself and his submissive(s). The role is not suitable for someone who has no clue or care what impacts his actions may have on others.

wow.....does this bear repeating!!!!

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RE: Will I try it again? - 12/12/2009 3:49:12 AM

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First of all, thanks much for the replies to my last post: "Define an Appropriate Master". It set me to thinking about the direction my life is taking, and whether it is the right one or not.

I recently had a sub who had introduced herself online to me, and we made a psychic connection. I had to see her, so I went there, and found her to be very much to my liking. Her body type was truly what I wanted, and we were already soulmates. We met for dinner at a restaurant one evening. A few weeks later, I took her to live with me and she was the most equisite, seductive beauty imaginable. Lying on the couch all day and playing with her phone and her computer. She was supposedly searching for a job, but I knew better, and I didn't mind at all. I don't want my women to work at anything other than their selves. I have a "couch potato" fetish, and I like them lazy.

I bought her numerous things, Princess things. Clothing, cigarettes, booze, lovely dark fingernails, candy bars, a rather large tat (which looks beautiful on her arm), vibes and KY. I would have gotten her the moon, if I could have. She had earned it, just sitting on that couch every day, waiting for me to come home and to caress her and give her things, to take her as men do. I tickled, I sucked her face and other places, many other places, and I f*cked her on several occasions in the short weeks beyond. I had numerous plans, and she was game for them. I could have turned more of my fantasies into reality if I could have a few weeks more with her.
Now, sadly, and because of circumstances beyond either of our control, she is gone. It came as a surprise to both of us. It was neither her choice nor mine, but the experience has left me with dreams and visions of who I am, and exactly what direction my life has taken. She chats with me and texts me on the phone daily still, and I am responsive; my love for her spans the 75 miles between us. and she tries to meet my needs, but sometimes fails. Sometimes, she is missing, doesn't answer the phone when she's high with friends, and I understand. I would be there if I could and get high with her.

She expresses a need to leave her current situation and come back to me, and I want her back. She doesn't like this situation that she's in, but she also feels a need to be there; she has a husband and a family. She stayed five weeks, and she wants to come back after the holidays.

My question is: Should I take her in, or not? Is she simply scamming me? Or does she have the deep love for me that she claims to have? What do you think?

This is such a load of bullshit....

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RE: Will I try it again? - 12/12/2009 4:01:13 AM

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This is such a load of bullshit....

*chomps on a Bob-Bon*
Damn Aileen...ya think?

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RE: Will I try it again? - 12/12/2009 4:05:01 AM

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/Hastens to replenish holly's suppy of bon-bons/

Anything else i can do for You, Holly? May i serve as Your footrest? Get You a J. Peterman catalog?

BTW... Jim doesn't have a gun, does he? Not that I give a holy damn about him and the LO because i am a twue Dom.

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RE: Will I try it again? - 12/12/2009 4:09:02 AM

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This is such a load of bullshit....
*chomps on a Bob-Bon*
Damn Aileen...ya think?

Yeeeaah. Moving slow today. Haven't had my coffee. I think if you're gonna put wanker material up it should be much more exciting than that boring scenario.

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RE: Will I try it again? - 12/12/2009 4:14:32 AM

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/Hastens to replenish holly's suppy of bon-bons/

Anything else i can do for You, Holly? May i serve as Your footrest? Get You a J. Peterman catalog?

BTW... Jim doesn't have a gun, does he? Not that I give a holy damn about him and the LO because i am a twue Dom.

ahem Steven.....sweetie darling.... did you not read my mail, I am the one that wants a twue dom damnit, not Holl

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RE: Will I try it again? - 12/12/2009 4:23:25 AM

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Anything else i can do for You, Holly? May i serve as Your footrest?

Please ensure to send me a picture of that...right?

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RE: Will I try it again? - 12/12/2009 4:26:12 AM

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I think if you're gonna put wanker material up it should be much more exciting than that boring scenario.

Well, hell, do I feel stupid. I didn't even get that this was wanker material. I just thought some girl went pro and didn't bother telling him about it. D-oh

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RE: Will I try it again? - 12/12/2009 4:56:04 AM

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Cigarettes, booze, and KY are princess gifts? Oh my...

. That's some kind of fariy tale.

Sunshine !!!!! I'll buy you a princess gift. A bit more "princessy" than the OP's eclectic list. Well, except the vibe/KY variety pack, that one doesn't suck.

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RE: Will I try it again? - 12/12/2009 4:56:05 AM

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/Hastens to replenish holly's suppy of bon-bons/

Anything else i can do for You, Holly? May i serve as Your footrest? Get You a J. Peterman catalog?

BTW... Jim doesn't have a gun, does he? Not that I give a holy damn about him and the LO because i am a twue Dom.

prepare thy sofa!!!!! And don't even THINK about hogging the remote.....hand it over!

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RE: Will I try it again? - 12/12/2009 5:52:21 AM

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LOL Aynne, I had the same thought KY is a princess gift? So glad I am not a princess.

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RE: Will I try it again? - 12/12/2009 6:59:17 AM

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I can't take this seriously. This thread is the biggest....(search for mild word)...'story'....I have read in weeks.

I noticed in your profile picture you are wearing a wedding ring. How did your wife feel about having a lazy woman in residence on her sofa? Did your wife help you pick out the many wonderful Princess gifts? Or perhaps you are too busy hiding from said wife while you wank off furiously in the bathroom to this fantasy. Don't get any jizz on the towels though, it's a dead giveaway and she'll be onto your naughty little games. Or maybe that's the plan...?

As to your 'question' at the end of the OP, by all means take in this fictional character to live with you. Of course she loves you, they all do when they're reaching for your wallet. While you're at it I love you too so throw money at me will ya? It's Christmas and I need to go shopping today.

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RE: Will I try it again? - 12/12/2009 7:24:55 AM

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My take on the OP...

No, really, I can't take any of this serious.

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RE: Will I try it again? - 12/12/2009 7:30:31 AM

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I think we should ALL buy each other "Princess" gifts. Especially Steven, he might need him a new tube of that Kentucky jelly..

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