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RE: Rule Suggestions - 12/29/2009 12:25:20 PM

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ORIGINAL: shahaba

Perfect advice tsatske,

The suggestions you gave are exactly the type of thing I was looking for when I started this thread. The example rules I posted (and ones I didn't) were mostly sexual in nature because so far my experience as Dom has been entirely sexual. These nonsexual suggestions is what I'm missing and exactly what I'm looking for, thanks.

Nonsexual rules here are to the point, not designed to cover everything because invariably a time will come where they don't work. Having to ask permission to go to the bathroom when he's on the phone may well cause me to have an accident. Post menopausal women are like that, so are menstruating women when they really need to change tampons or pads.

No breakfast for dinner. He thinks pancakes etc are for breakfast only not for dinner.
No peas in a mixed dish. A side dish of them that I eat is fine but no sticking them in soup, casseroles, salads etc.
No quiche.
His tea is to be in the kitchen at his seat. We tried the bringing it into the bedroom before waking him and he just smells it and goes back to sleep dreaming he's getting up. Being told it's ready for him while get him to stand up and stagger off in search of it.
Tell him what time of night it is and ask if he wants regular or decaf instead of just giving him regular.
Tell him when he's worked past a meal and needs to stop and eat or have water. Tell him when I'm getting overtired and hungry and need to stop for lunch and water.
Tell him when I have a problem and need his help even when he has a lot of other problems on his plate. This one I have the most difficulty with.

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RE: Rule Suggestions - 12/29/2009 7:50:53 PM

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We have a prime directive in our relationship and few rules that fall beneathe that....

The prime Directive is/ Rule 1 : It is my duty to bring to Masters attention immediatly anything that may cause me long term or permanant physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual damage. This does not mean that he will not choose to have me follow through, however it is my duty to be certain he is aware and has all the cards before making his decision.

Rule 2: Ask myself in any and all situations if my course of action will please Master. If the answer is no or I am uncertain do not take the action.

Rule 3: Do my best in All things that I do and remember always that I am a representation of him.

Rule 4: Be respectful of myself, my Master, my family, my home, and others.

Rule 5: Always acknowledge a command before moving to comply, if possible to do so.

Those few rules pretty much cover anything he feels is important.... keeping it simple

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