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RE: why is money so important - 1/4/2010 10:46:32 AM   
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RE: why is money so important - 1/4/2010 10:48:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		"Why is money so important?"

and

"Why am I not scoring in the 'long-term relationship' department?"

are two distinct questions no matter how much thinking they aren't assuages concerns over future prospects.

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RE: why is money so important - 1/4/2010 10:49:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		OP, if you don't want a materialistic woman who is obsessed with spending money, you've got to make sure you rule these women out to begin with. Stop wasting your, and their- time.

But a woman who insists on financial viability and accountability, is a sensible woman. If she sees that you've not provided for a secure future for yourself (basic things like a decent retirement, good medical care, housing, transportation, low debt, good credit, etc.), why should she waste her time on you?

If you've not been able to see past your nose... to plan and make proper provisions for your future, then clearly you are not desireable marriage material.

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RE: why is money so important - 1/4/2010 11:39:13 AM   
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RE: why is money so important - 1/4/2010 12:20:38 PM   
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But a woman who insists on financial viability and accountability, is a sensible woman. If she sees that you've not provided for a secure future for yourself (basic things like a decent retirement, good medical care, housing, transportation, low debt, good credit, etc.), why should she waste her time on you?


This.

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RE: why is money so important - 1/4/2010 12:25:50 PM   
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Not all women care about money.

I've never cared about money in the partners I sought. In fact, all of the serious relationships were always guys who made significally less and couldn't support the lifestyle I grew up in. When Valyraen and I started dating, I was the only one with any income so I paid for all just about all of our dates. According to the "rules" he was mooching off me. Four years later though, he's got a good job and he's paying for all my bills.

OP, I'd say that the problem is probably something other than money.

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RE: why is money so important - 1/4/2010 12:28:46 PM   
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RE: why is money so important - 1/4/2010 12:40:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterCharles099

I have tried for years to get married. I tried getting to know women giving them gifts talking to them wanting to love them being a gentleman.
REVERSE this...
be a gentlemen
get to know them
take a gift
build love
get married
 
 frankly the only reason i can see not giving me the time of day is because i'm not wealthy why do these women only care about wealth.
 
nonsense...!! take a look at the women you are trying to get to know...
Is there a pattern FOR you  that attracts a certain type or do you gravitate to a certain type..??
WHO are THESE women..?? how many...?
What has worked? not worked? what is the common denominator in this?? YOU
Where do you seek?? Have you tired anything different?
Have you sought different types in different places??
Who is not giving you the time of day??
Women on Cm??  in hte mall?? at your work??
Something may be wrong with your communication then...
LOOK AT YOUR SELF FIRST..
 
your post is a post hoc ergo propter hoc....statement
 
ps I had a man ask me why money was so important to me..
However...... it was MY money and he had NONE and no job  and no retirement plan and I questioned his intentions....
........Just a  different slant on it




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RE: why is money so important - 1/4/2010 12:46:24 PM   
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RE: why is money so important - 1/4/2010 12:50:02 PM   
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RE: why is money so important - 1/4/2010 1:40:59 PM   
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RE: why is money so important - 1/4/2010 1:46:57 PM   
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RE: why is money so important - 1/4/2010 1:49:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterCharles099

I have tried for years to get married. I tried getting to know women giving them gifts talking to them wanting to love them being a gentleman. frankly the only reason i can see not giving me the time of day is because i'm not wealthy why do these women only care about wealth.


For some money/wealth is important, for others it's not.

Also depends on the dynamic... if one is seeking to be a 24/7 "house slave", so to speak, then yeah... you'd better have the income to be able to support them, as housing, food, utilities, cars, gas, clothes, insurance, etc. all costs money.  Granted, not all are seeking that type of dynamic, and are well prepared to support themselves... which in that case, there's likely something about you that's turning them off to whatever it is you're offering.

Additionally, your profile smacks of some BDSM-Harlequin-esque fantasy, but WORSE, your Journal (which states, "I feel sad tonight I wish I had my lover here with me :( " conveys self-pity and despertion.  To be blunt, I'd look at your profile and think you were a newbie trying to pretend you have a world of experience in the Power Dynamic, but in reality, you have none.



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RE: why is money so important - 1/4/2010 1:51:44 PM   
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RE: why is money so important - 1/4/2010 1:52:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think people said things in a way that could be understood. I also think you may be confused in life in general after reading your profile. If you hadn't claimed to be a dominant on your profile, at most, I would have thought you were more a switch from the things you enjoy. I realize I am going on a short profile and a couple of post's... but maybe if I am a bit confused about who you are, other's might be as well. Maybe sending mixed messages would be something that happens with you.

In the profile you give an example of the master sitting in a chair and is depressed or something and the slave just knows... and comes and puts her head on the master's lap. Now... sometimes that is something people can do and see in one another, but sometimes it is a bit difficult to understand what isn't said. It can be idealistic and ideal when it happens and romantic to think about... but not always realistic.

So what has you most confused in what people have said? Or... why do you say that you wrote three sentences and yet got three pages of response and are confused... as if we might have caused that?

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RE: why is money so important - 1/4/2010 1:53:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterCharles099

I have tried for years to get married. I tried getting to know women giving them gifts talking to them wanting to love them being a gentleman. frankly the only reason i can see not giving me the time of day is because i'm not wealthy why do these women only care about wealth.
Or..maybe they do not want to spend the rest of their lives with you?

I do not mean that as an insult...but you seem surprised that every woman you come in contact with does not want you, and the only reason you will entertain is your financial state.

If you won the lottery and found yourself rolling in green, you would either attract a woman who would marry you  for your money (and is that really the type of person you want?) or you would still strike out and have nothing to blame it on.


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RE: why is money so important - 1/4/2010 2:01:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterCharles099

I have tried for years to get married.

Why are you trying? 

I tried getting to know women giving them gifts talking to them wanting to love them being a gentleman.

Does being a gentleman mean you need to buy their love?

frankly the only reason i can see not giving me the time of day is because i'm not wealthy why do these women only care about wealth.

No clue why the women you mention only care about wealth as I don't know them.  Are you asking for a more personal opinion or is this just you questioning the universe? 



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ORIGINAL:  MasterCharles099
The most interesting fact about my post is that I only said three sentences. (as I define a sentence) and I got three pages of peoples suggestions and comments.  Now I might be more confused then ever

Then maybe you need to work on your communication skills so as to better pose your question.  I'm not even going to attempt to answer your question as is because I'm not quite sure what you're really asking and I have no desire to waste time posting something that isn't applicable.


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RE: why is money so important - 1/4/2010 2:33:40 PM   
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It is pretty far fetched to say that the only reason all of your relationships failed was because you don't have money. Unless of course you are searching for them on golddigger.com (I think that is a real site). The majority of women just aren't that interested in it. Sure, we want you to have an income, so you are self sufficient, and as a partner can contribute to the household, but that is different from financial wealth.

Also you are only 28 years old. You say you have tried for "years." Really? Did it ever occur to you that a lot of women nowadays aren't looking to jump into marriage in their early 20s? They want to finish their education and get started with their own career.

The time for self examination is now. No one wants someone who will always look to place the blame and responsibility for their problems somewhere else and never take responsibility themselves.


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RE: why is money so important - 1/4/2010 2:54:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'd listen to eyesopened - the fact is most women get married when they're thinking of have kids, and kids cost money - I don't think I've ever actually gone looking for somebody to marry, it sounds like a vanilla approach to me, I've always just hung out with women I liked, and who liked me.

At 28, yes, many women are beginning to think seriously about settling down, the biological clock starts ticking, and economic security is going to be a factor.

As it turned out, my ex was not motivated by money at all - or at least just enough money to stay sloshed - needless to say it became an issue eventually - I'm not the most ambitious guy in the world when it comes to keeping up with the Jonses's, but I've always try to maintain some modicum of economic viability.

If you're that desperate though, you can always join a Church - some of those Christians are into that "Taken by the Hand" stuff nowadays.

Otherwise, you'll have to do it the old fashioned way and knock some dumb bitch up, and your' kinda back to square one.

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RE: why is money so important - 1/4/2010 3:51:24 PM   
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wait....im not getting the twenty???


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