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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 1:46:56 AM   
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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 2:17:25 AM   
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I keep forgetting that...

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 2:32:43 AM   
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Greetings

Ok first off all, the content of your post should go on your profile, not on the forum. It is what you are looking for, that go on the profile information. Now your interest is rather specific, and I see nothing wrong with it, however as it is rather unusual for a woman to want a relationship with a man which consists of just dropping all she is doing and come suck him off and leave then I would suggest you update your profile. You are looking for rare fish here, you need to show something to attract that fish to you.

Also if all you are interested in is oral, then there are whole websites with forums just for oral sex. You might have more luck there in finding someone who would find such an arrangement exiting there. There are those who would find unpersonal oral like you are looking for desirable. But those are fewer than those who want something more out of the relationship.

Good luck in finding what you want. And I mean that.

Now to the rest of the tread. I do not really see how this is any worse or more silly than a female Dom who want a man for no strings housework. There are those who have relationships with a Dom which consists of coming to them now and then and cleaning, why not a relationship which consists of coming to them and sucking them off? We all have different kinks here.

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 2:46:00 AM   
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"PREFERS MARRIED???????" now I've heard it all!

OMG ROFL!!! I choking on my damn breakfast!

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 2:52:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: nephandi
Now to the rest of the tread. I do not really see how this is any worse or more silly than a female Dom who want a man for no strings housework. There are those who have relationships with a Dom which consists of coming to them now and then and cleaning, why not a relationship which consists of coming to them and sucking them off? We all have different kinks here.



To me..

The difference is that when I see people looking for those relationships they are usually looking for someone who enjoys and takes a genuine pleasure in the cleaning and they are willing to make some adjustments to make it more enjoyable for the person doing the cleaning. In this post, I see nothing that implies he wants someone who will enjoy it, in fact it almost seems like he is looking for someone who won't enjoy the act itself as he seems to want to bestow pleasure and enjoyment when he so desires.

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 3:44:10 AM   
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The difference is that when I see people looking for those relationships they are usually looking for someone who enjoys and takes a genuine pleasure in the cleaning and they are willing to make some adjustments to make it more enjoyable for the person doing the cleaning. In this post, I see nothing that implies he wants someone who will enjoy it, in fact it almost seems like he is looking for someone who won't enjoy the act itself as he seems to want to bestow pleasure and enjoyment when he so desires.


A. If he do not want the other person to enjoy it. What is wrong with that? It is not like he is forcing anyone. Many pepole have kinks involving completely cold service kind of things. I might not enjoy that, you might not enjoy that, but many find that hot, so what is wrong with it as long as it is between two consenting adults?

B. If someone came to this man and wanted to enter into this kind of relationship, do you not think that would be because they found some enjoyment in it?

I wish you well


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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 3:55:52 AM   
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ORIGINAL: nephandi

Greetings

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The difference is that when I see people looking for those relationships they are usually looking for someone who enjoys and takes a genuine pleasure in the cleaning and they are willing to make some adjustments to make it more enjoyable for the person doing the cleaning. In this post, I see nothing that implies he wants someone who will enjoy it, in fact it almost seems like he is looking for someone who won't enjoy the act itself as he seems to want to bestow pleasure and enjoyment when he so desires.


A. If he do not want the other person to enjoy it. What is wrong with that? It is not like he is forcing anyone. Many pepole have kinks involving completely cold service kind of things. I might not enjoy that, you might not enjoy that, but many find that hot, so what is wrong with it as long as it is between two consenting adults?

Wrong with it? There's nothing illegal or immoral about it. Nor is there in our judgement that it's bloody unlikely that he's going to find it and his attempt to get it comes across badly. Please show me where I used the term wrong.
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B. If someone came to this man and wanted to enter into this kind of relationship, do you not think that would be because they found some enjoyment in it?

I wish you well


People enter into relationships for many different reasons. They probably would and if they did... whatever.

You asked what the difference was. I gave an answer. The utter selfishness that comes across in the OP's post rubs people the wrong way. There are people who are into that and there are people who aren't. The trouble is that this isn't a forum solely reserved for one type of person and therefore we are allowed to give our opinions - just as others are allowed to disagree with us.

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 4:13:40 AM   
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Wrong with it? There's nothing illegal or immoral about it. Nor is there in our judgement that it's bloody unlikely that he's going to find it and his attempt to get it comes across badly. Please show me where I used the term wrong.


You have not used the term wrong however your posts sounds rather non approving. I to think the chances that the original poster will find what he is looking for to be rather slim, but I do not see that he deserves scowl or ridicule for being a bit over optimistic.

quote:

You asked what the difference was. I gave an answer. The utter selfishness that comes across in the OP's post rubs people the wrong way. There are people who are into that and there are people who aren't. The trouble is that this isn't a forum solely reserved for one type of person and therefore we are allowed to give our opinions - just as others are allowed to disagree with us.


There are many on this forum who have kinks I do not agree with or do not like. I however do not feel the need to disapprove of them, or ridicule pepole who have other kinks. If I think it is completely stupid. I will just ignore them. Now I agree the original poster expressed himself rather clumsy. But many pepole are into that kind of cold objectification. And I think that is quite ok.

I wish you well


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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 4:16:47 AM   
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You have not used the term wrong however your posts sounds rather non approving. I to think the chances that the original poster will find what he is looking for to be rather slim, but I do not see that he deserves scowl or ridicule for being a bit over optimistic.

....

There are many on this forum who have kinks I do not agree with or do not like. I however do not feel the need to disapprove of them, or ridicule pepole who have other kinks. If I think it is completely stupid. I will just ignore them. Now I agree the original poster expressed himself rather clumsy. But many pepole are into that kind of cold objectification. And I think that is quite ok.

I wish you well



I have no problem with his kink. I never said I did. My issue is solely with his approach and utter self-centeredness.

You see ridicule, I see tough love and joking around. If you think it's stupid...

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 4:26:52 AM   
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You're in luck!  Every single female sub here is very oral.

Oh, you didn't use the term to mean that they talk a lot?

Steven....you forget that i am the quiet one......


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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 4:29:07 AM   
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I love nephandi!!!!  Can I please come live with you and Aswad?  (Only in the summer of course!)

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 4:29:17 AM   
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But you put meatloaf in your mouth so it's oral!!!


(I think I just rolled a fail there. It was my first meatloaf joke... )

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 4:50:24 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyCimarron

"PREFERS MARRIED???????" now I've heard it all!

OMG ROFL!!! I choking on my damn breakfast!


If that's the case, why doesn't he ask his wife?

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 5:01:59 AM   
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She's too busy talking on the phone.... with her divorce lawyer.

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 5:06:59 AM   
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Between the OP's tacky post and his hairy pic, I get the idea he's applying for a position on  Jersey Shore.

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 5:12:27 AM   
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I love nephandi!!!!  Can I please come live with you and Aswad?  (Only in the summer of course!)


Aww, don't want to help keep the blankies warm in the winter?

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 5:21:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyCimarron

"PREFERS MARRIED???????" now I've heard it all!



But since he wants someone who can be available on a moment's notice (when his wife leaves to do the grocery shopping), he's looking for a woman who's in one helluva bad marriage.  Can you imagine a marriage where she's able to leave her husband 24/7 to go suck some guy's cock whenever she gets the phone summons?

Actually, that summoning device should be based on the Bat Signal, where Gotham shines a picture of a bat in the clouds.  Perhaps a Cock Signal where he shines a pic of a cock in the heavens?


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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 5:27:58 AM   
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Actually, that summoning device should be based on the Bat Signal, where Gotham shines a picture of a bat in the clouds.  Perhaps a Cock Signal where he shines a pic of a cock in the heavens?



Damn it don't say things like that when I'm finishing up Arkham Aslym while screwing around on the forums!

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 5:28:50 AM   
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She just shows up, blows you and leaves like a hooker you had a freebie coupon for.


Damn, Aqua, you manage to actually make this sound like a hot scene.

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 5:33:32 AM   
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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

She just shows up, blows you and leaves like a hooker you had a freebie coupon for.


Damn, Aqua, you manage to actually make this sound like a hot scene.

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