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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 5:33:57 AM

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Actually, that summoning device should be based on the Bat Signal, where Gotham shines a picture of a bat in the clouds. Perhaps a Cock Signal where he shines a pic of a cock in the heavens?

As a laser enthusiast, I wonder what a diffractive optic with that motif would cost.

Picture a green, insanely bright, glowing cock in the sky over city hall, pointing down.

Must... resist... temptation...

Health,
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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 6:25:10 AM

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"Well at least you're thinking. The rest of you: bang your heads against your desks until something useful comes out." - Movie: Thank You for Smoking

Don't know why I thought of that just now, but it seemed funny and appropriate.

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 6:57:36 AM

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I love nephandi!!!! Can I please come live with you and Aswad? (Only in the summer of course!)

Thank you. :) What you do not want to live in Norway when it is so cold that there are days the police tell us to stay in our homes for our own safety? I could build you a snow man. :P

I wish you well

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 7:00:54 AM

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I have no problem with his kink. I never said I did. My issue is solely with his approach and utter self-centeredness.

It may be because I have asperger and thinks a bit differently, but what is the problem with him being completely self centered as long as he do not force it on anyone?

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You see ridicule, I see tough love and joking around. If you think it's stupid...

Poor choice of words I am sorry. I am simply saying that it is easy to hurt pepole. Especially pepole who are completely new to the forum and fumbling. And that I think it is often best to err on the side of caution when it comes to that.

I wish you well

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 7:07:11 AM

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Hello all - missing my long lost oral sub...she moved and now I have no one who can take care of my oral needs.

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If you are in the NJ area I am interviewing for a replacement. Must be able to come and perform on a moments notice

Good luck with that one.

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 7:21:28 AM

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As a laser enthusiast, I wonder what a diffractive optic with that motif would cost.

Picture a green, insanely bright, glowing cock in the sky over city hall, pointing down.

Excuse me folks as I have to run and hide all Aswad's optic components and equipment for the best of man kind.

I wish you well

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 4:35:51 PM

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Aww... spoilsport... I think it would look brilliant.

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We do." -- Rorschack, Watchmen.

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 4:38:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: gentlemanlover

Hello all - missing my long lost oral sub...she moved and now I have no one who can take care of my oral needs. If you are in the NJ area I am interviewing for a replacement. Must be able to come and perform on a moments notice (real life c omes first), prefer marrired but will entertain select singles. All welcomed to apply but only one or if you like to play maybe 2 will be selected. I'm real, must love to give oral without question and when done you leave unless I want the pleasure of your company and finally do not expect the same in return although I am very good at handling the desires of my sub I decide when, if ever, you will feel the pleasure of me in any form.

Have a nice day.

Ah Ron, you at it again?

I am marrired, may I be interviewed? I floss teeth too!

I am a real life c ome!

I am kind of sad you are real though, there is nothing like unpleasurable company or of having my desires if ever handled to feel the pleasure of you in any form by non-real, butcha caint have everything. I dont expect same in return I really dont. Please pick me! Pick me!

How am I going to get this job? Can I be a select single?

All are welcomed, Jefff, wanna come interview with me?

OMG! Jefff you are right, I am sooooo sarcastic

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 4:53:48 PM

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Greetings

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I have no problem with his kink. I never said I did. My issue is solely with his approach and utter self-centeredness.

It may be because I have asperger and thinks a bit differently, but what is the problem with him being completely self centered as long as he do not force it on anyone?

To answer that, I need to define "problem". There isn't a problem with it in that anyone should try and stop him. However, if he posts where everyone can see and comment, he needs to accept and be able to handle that it's going to rub people the wrong way and people will point out that it's going to decrease his odds dramatically. That he is a seeking married women preferably but doesn't mention that openness and honesty is important is a bit of a red flag for me as well. I wonder if he will insist that the husband know what is going on or if he will be perfectly happy to deceive the man. However rude it might be on my part, I do judge that harshly.

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You see ridicule, I see tough love and joking around. If you think it's stupid...

Poor choice of words I am sorry. I am simply saying that it is easy to hurt pepole. Especially pepole who are completely new to the forum and fumbling. And that I think it is often best to err on the side of caution when it comes to that.

It's true that it is easy to hurt people and, overall, I agree with you. However, I tend to go with what response I think will work best. Sometimes I feel a "tougher" response is best, other times I'm more inclined to pull back on the reigns. Why is hard to say, it just depends on the feel on the post. Perhaps in this one it's a matter of he doesn't strike me as being concerned for the potential's feelings so I expect him to be able to handle his own emotions when not coddled.

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Excuse me folks as I have to run and hide all Aswad's optic components and equipment for the best of man kind.

Lemme know if you need help with that...

< Message edited by AquaticSub -- 1/6/2010 4:54:46 PM >

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 5:56:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: nephandi

Excuse me folks as I have to run and hide all Aswad's optic components and equipment for the best of man kind.

Lemme know if you need help with that...

Wimmins afraid of cock? And you have the nerve to call yourselves submissives.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 6:23:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: nephandi

Excuse me folks as I have to run and hide all Aswad's optic components and equipment for the best of man kind.

Lemme know if you need help with that...

Wimmins afraid of cock? And you have the nerve to call yourselves submissives.

Afraid? No. But that would be like sending an entire city an unwanted cock shot! Something must be done!

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 6:33:58 PM

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This is a joke, right?
Right?
Ashton?....

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 7:03:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: nephandi

Excuse me folks as I have to run and hide all Aswad's optic components and equipment for the best of man kind.

Lemme know if you need help with that...

Wimmins afraid of cock? And you have the nerve to call yourselves submissives.

Afraid? No. But that would be like sending an entire city an unwanted cock shot! Something must be done!

All right... sheesh... Aswad, it looks like the submissives here want you to make your forty foot tall green glowing cock safe. So put a condom on it.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 10:51:16 PM

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To answer that, I need to define "problem". There isn't a problem with it in that anyone should try and stop him. However, if he posts where everyone can see and comment, he needs to accept and be able to handle that it's going to rub people the wrong way and people will point out that it's going to decrease his odds dramatically. That he is a seeking married women preferably but doesn't mention that openness and honesty is important is a bit of a red flag for me as well. I wonder if he will insist that the husband know what is going on or if he will be perfectly happy to deceive the man. However rude it might be on my part, I do judge that harshly.

What I do not understand is how one person's preference can rub pepole the wrong way? It is not like he is forcing anyone, or saying everyone should do this, he is just stating his preferences, how can that be insulting. I am not trying to argue here, I am just trying to understand. To me that is a bit like if someone say I would like to talk with pepole who like my favorite movie Dracula the 1992 version and someone get insulted as they think the 1933 version is better. How can one be insulted over a preference?

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It's true that it is easy to hurt people and, overall, I agree with you. However, I tend to go with what response I think will work best. Sometimes I feel a "tougher" response is best, other times I'm more inclined to pull back on the reigns. Why is hard to say, it just depends on the feel on the post. Perhaps in this one it's a matter of he doesn't strike me as being concerned for the potential's feelings so I expect him to be able to handle his own emotions when not coddled.

I understand what you are saying. But personally I like to err on the side of caution. Sometimes very clumsy ways of expressing one self is a sign of uncertainty, or perhaps the unfeeling for the candidate is part of the kink. When I was Aswad's slave we often talked about getting into contact with someone who could just come in, use me for sexual pleasure and treat it with as much feeling as if they had borrowed a CD or a kitchen appliance from Aswad. The objectification and the no feelings involved would be a big part of the kink, and what was attractive about it. I agree that the original poster do sound like a jerk, but I always like to give pepole the benefit of the doubt.

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Lemme know if you need help with that...

I can distract him while you run away with the components. P

I wish you well

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Futon torpedoes, make love not war!--Aswad

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/6/2010 11:12:48 PM

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What I do not understand is how one person's preference can rub pepole the wrong way? It is not like he is forcing anyone, or saying everyone should do this, he is just stating his preferences, how can that be insulting. I am not trying to argue here, I am just trying to understand. To me that is a bit like if someone say I would like to talk with pepole who like my favorite movie Dracula the 1992 version and someone get insulted as they think the 1933 version is better. How can one be insulted over a preference?

Oh it's very easy to be rubbed the wrong way by a preference but that is different than being insulted by it.

I don't feel insulted by the guy but the impression he gave just... rubs me the wrong way. I can't really explain it better than that.

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When I was Aswad's slave we often talked about getting into contact with someone who could just come in, use me for sexual pleasure and treat it with as much feeling as if they had borrowed a CD or a kitchen appliance from Aswad.

To me, that somehow strikes me as different than wanting to drop what you are doing and go over there and perhaps not caring of Aswad even knew what was going on.

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I can distract him while you run away with the components. P

Deal! *laughs evily*

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/7/2010 10:31:52 AM

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To me, that somehow strikes me as different than wanting to drop what you are doing and go over there and perhaps not caring of Aswad even knew what was going on.

I understand that. But if I was one of those applying to the OP's request, would it not be my responsibility to tell Aswad what was going on? Not that I am saying that it is positive not to care. And I am annoyed at the amount of infidelity I often see in the BDSM community. When looking for playmates I often find pepole who are married and when i say well then I want to meet your partner first so I am sure they know about it and they ask me to keep it discreet. To witch I politely tell them I am not interested. And once when I met one of the Dom's in a restaurant he was surprised that Aswad accompanied me there. Aswad wanting to meet any man he would let me pay with face to face. It is a shame with all the infidelity. But is it not the lady's responsibility to to tell her husband what she is doing?

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Deal! *laughs evily*

Excelent, the world may yet be saved from Aswad's giant, green penis in the sky. :P

I wish you well

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/7/2010 3:56:46 PM

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I understand that. But if I was one of those applying to the OP's request, would it not be my responsibility to tell Aswad what was going on? Not that I am saying that it is positive not to care. And I am annoyed at the amount of infidelity I often see in the BDSM community. When looking for playmates I often find pepole who are married and when i say well then I want to meet your partner first so I am sure they know about it and they ask me to keep it discreet. To witch I politely tell them I am not interested. And once when I met one of the Dom's in a restaurant he was surprised that Aswad accompanied me there. Aswad wanting to meet any man he would let me pay with face to face. It is a shame with all the infidelity. But is it not the lady's responsibility to to tell her husband what she is doing?

That's a matter of opinion honestly. It's her responsibility to tell her husband but it takes two to tango as they say. When a person knows, or doesn't bother to find out or just doesn't care, if they are helping another person cheat I tend to regard them as equally at fault.

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Deal! *laughs evily*

Excelent, the world may yet be saved from Aswad's giant, green penis in the sky. :P

I wish you well

ARGH!! We were doing so well with our discussion till you said that!!! Do you know what is going through my head now?

"Penis in the sky with diamonds... "

*headdeask* I may not be able to forgive this...

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/7/2010 5:48:18 PM

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That's a matter of opinion honestly. It's her responsibility to tell her husband but it takes two to tango as they say. When a person knows, or doesn't bother to find out or just doesn't care, if they are helping another person cheat I tend to regard them as equally at fault.

Here I disagree, while I definitely do not see it as positive to not make sure the person you are playing withs partner or husband know, they are not the ones who made a commitment or vow to the husband or lover in question. They might be assholes, but the cheating is all done by the person who break a commitment.

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ARGH!! We were doing so well with our discussion till you said that!!! Do you know what is going through my head now?

"Penis in the sky with diamonds... "

*headdeask* I may not be able to forgive this...

Oh you be fine as long as you do not go to a karaoke bar. Though I can imagine it might be a bit...awkward to stand on a stage before a crowd and sing. "Penis in the sky with diamonds." :D

I wish you well

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/8/2010 10:38:23 AM

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Sunshinemiss,
If you ever make your way to Norway (goregous in Summer, splendid in Winter) you have to come through Northern Germany...You can go with a big ferry from the city where verity lives and you can get a big basket of german goodies to boot.

*very evil grin*

verity

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RE: Looking for oral sub - 1/8/2010 10:41:25 AM

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it's where Im gonna go when I die;
when I die and they lay me to rest;
gonna go to the schlong that's the best............

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