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RE: eating pussy - 1/11/2010 8:01:59 PM

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OP, people here just take your words ane chew them up and spit them back at you.

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RE: eating pussy - 1/11/2010 8:19:17 PM

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Mmm, I love that new pic. What kind of car is it?

Could you post any more?

Like, maybe one of the car with its rear end lifted up, showing the undercarriage- yeah, maybe letting us see that perky little tailpipe nestled between the wheelwells....

Those globular fenders arching up proud and smooth - yeah, that baby got back alright.....

mmmmmm, God thats hawt.

I gotta go take care of something...

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RE: eating pussy - 1/11/2010 8:21:00 PM

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Men.... show 'em a little tailpipe, and they'll follow you anywhere

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RE: eating pussy - 1/11/2010 9:00:09 PM

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Quick response....didn't read through all the answers but...

One of the very first discussions I had with my Master was likes/dislikes of everything from vanilla to lifestyle/kink. And oral was covered.
I did let him know that was a big like on my list....ok more than like.
Almost a year later I have never received oral from him. I've never asked for it, nor am I likely to. I don't feel the need to. He builds me up in a way that I really don't feel like I have to have it to help my self esteem (as was an issues in past realationships).
While I'm not discrediting your "needs" you may want to consider why it's so connected to your self esteem, there could be other issues at hand that you might want to look into.

Just my 2 cents...

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RE: eating pussy - 1/11/2010 9:13:02 PM

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Quick response....didn't read through all the answers but...

One of the very first discussions I had with my Master was likes/dislikes of everything from vanilla to lifestyle/kink. And oral was covered.
I did let him know that was a big like on my list....ok more than like.
Almost a year later I have never received oral from him. I've never asked for it, nor am I likely to. I don't feel the need to. He builds me up in a way that I really don't feel like I have to have it to help my self esteem (as was an issues in past realationships).
While I'm not discrediting your "needs" you may want to consider why it's so connected to your self esteem, there could be other issues at hand that you might want to look into.

Just my 2 cents...

Or...she could just love getting her pussy eaten, as most women do, irrelevant of self esteem issues. You know, it feels awesome, orgasms happen, that kinda thing.

How nice that you judged her "needs" similar to yours since you justified your lack of getting oral by stating your self esteem does not require it.

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RE: eating pussy - 1/11/2010 9:24:21 PM

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Quick response....didn't read through all the answers but...

One of the very first discussions I had with my Master was likes/dislikes of everything from vanilla to lifestyle/kink. And oral was covered.
I did let him know that was a big like on my list....ok more than like.
Almost a year later I have never received oral from him. I've never asked for it, nor am I likely to. I don't feel the need to. He builds me up in a way that I really don't feel like I have to have it to help my self esteem (as was an issues in past realationships).
While I'm not discrediting your "needs" you may want to consider why it's so connected to your self esteem, there could be other issues at hand that you might want to look into.

Just my 2 cents...

And when you talked about "everything" and mentioned oral, did he say "yea, well that won't be part of the dynamic between us, but I will be doing that with other women that I see, just not you?" Did he tell you that "on occassion if you are a very very good girl, I might reward you with a lick or two?"

Why is that that some many subs/slaves seem to think that so many things other subs/slaves want to have in their life must be some self esteem issue that they need to work out?

Have you ever considered that perhaps your self esteem is too low that you are more than happy to take whatever someone else wants to give you without any thought to what you might like, want or need?

Not such a nice thought when it is turned around is it?

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RE: eating pussy - 1/11/2010 9:55:55 PM

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quote:

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ORIGINAL: hereandthere

Quick response....didn't read through all the answers but...

One of the very first discussions I had with my Master was likes/dislikes of everything from vanilla to lifestyle/kink. And oral was covered.
I did let him know that was a big like on my list....ok more than like.
Almost a year later I have never received oral from him. I've never asked for it, nor am I likely to. I don't feel the need to. He builds me up in a way that I really don't feel like I have to have it to help my self esteem (as was an issues in past realationships).
While I'm not discrediting your "needs" you may want to consider why it's so connected to your self esteem, there could be other issues at hand that you might want to look into.

Just my 2 cents...

And when you talked about "everything" and mentioned oral, did he say "yea, well that won't be part of the dynamic between us, but I will be doing that with other women that I see, just not you?" Did he tell you that "on occassion if you are a very very good girl, I might reward you with a lick or two?"

Why is that that some many subs/slaves seem to think that so many things other subs/slaves want to have in their life must be some self esteem issue that they need to work out?

Have you ever considered that perhaps your self esteem is too low that you are more than happy to take whatever someone else wants to give you without any thought to what you might like, want or need?

Not such a nice thought when it is turned around is it?

Some will settle, and then turn right around, and attack those that dare speak up for what they want, instead of settling.

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RE: eating pussy - 1/11/2010 9:56:47 PM

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Ok...

As I said before I didn't read through all the responses, it was just a quick reply to the original post.
I used to be unhappy yes that's true...as of now I'm very happy.
No he didn't say he would or he wouldn't. There was no promises given nor was it turned down.
Don't see what has been turned around.

Wasn't justifying anything, I saw in her original post that she connected having her pussy eaten with self esteem. At one time I connected such actions with self esteem. I didn't actually mean that she had poor self esteem, I saw simularities and thought I'd share. My fault it came out wrong.
My appologies for not getting all the facts... and for not properly wording what I meant in the first time around.

Going back to just lurking in the forums.

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RE: eating pussy - 1/11/2010 9:59:20 PM

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Ok...

As I said before I didn't read through all the responses, it was just a quick reply to the original post.
I used to be unhappy yes that's true...as of now I'm very happy.
No he didn't say he would or he wouldn't. There was no promises given nor was it turned down.
Don't see what has been turned around.

Wasn't justifying anything, I saw in her original post that she connected having her pussy eaten with self esteem. At one time I connected such actions with self esteem. I didn't actually mean that she had poor self esteem, I saw simularities and thought I'd share. My fault it came out wrong.
My appologies for not getting all the facts... and for not properly wording what I meant in the first time around.

Going back to just lurking in the forums.

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RE: eating pussy - 1/11/2010 10:18:20 PM

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quote:

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Ok...

As I said before I didn't read through all the responses, it was just a quick reply to the original post.
I used to be unhappy yes that's true...as of now I'm very happy.
No he didn't say he would or he wouldn't. There was no promises given nor was it turned down.
Don't see what has been turned around.

Wasn't justifying anything, I saw in her original post that she connected having her pussy eaten with self esteem. At one time I connected such actions with self esteem. I didn't actually mean that she had poor self esteem, I saw simularities and thought I'd share. My fault it came out wrong.
My appologies for not getting all the facts... and for not properly wording what I meant in the first time around.

Going back to just lurking in the forums.

No need to just lurk. But you can see what happens when you don't read the full post. There are times that I don't want to read all 10 pages either, but I will flip through the pages looking for more posts from the person who started the thread. In this case, you would have found a lot more information as the story unfolded.

Also in this case, because this guy is going down on other girls, just not here, it would be understandable if it DID have an adverse affect on her self esteem.

But please, don't let it make you stop posting. If you can manage to stick it out, you will find it ain't so bad.

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RE: eating pussy - 1/11/2010 10:45:03 PM

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It's not about who is dominant. It's all about "are my basic needs being met?" In any relationship, everybody has a minimum set of needs that MUST be met or they will not be happy. It's a dominant's job to make sure that the sub's basic needs are met -- it's stupid to break your toys, and I don't just mean physically.

And yet again I have to agree with you! D/s is not about BDSM....it's about a relationship. Plain and simple. And if you don't see it that way, then you have a warped understanding of what D/s is. In every relationship you have to ask if you needs are being met...if they are not, you have to speak with your partner, yes even if your partner is your DOM(ME)...you find a way to respectfully bring that up, or let them know that this is a need.

Honestly, if this weren't going to be a give and take relationship then why are you in it? Aren't there sex dolls for silent sex? By virtue of the fact that you two have entered this relationship it means, One person will take care of their partners particular needs so long as their own needs are met. It is give and take, it is a balance....why do you think the symbol of BDSM so closely represents Yin and Yang? You are the puzzle piece to your Dom and he is yours. You are to be the expression of him, and he gives you that molding hand.....if he is molding you into something that you don't truly want in your core, no amount of forcefulness will make you into who he wants you to be....you will ultimately rebel and the relationship will fail. You will learn from it, and for that reason it is never a waste of time.

Never.

I am always grateful to each submissive, Dominant encounter I have had...it lets me learn so much about myself. Even if it's a bad thing. As a switch you learn that the best submissive is a pleasing one, and a pleasing submissive is one that is happily within a dominant structure which speaks to them. You have to nurture them, owning someone is a very huge undertaking, and just like any other piece of property you want to keep it up, make it valuable. Lol. Who wants a slumlord? If you over work soil, nothing will grow.....if you neglect a house, it will fall apart. Same when it comes to owning a person.

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RE: eating pussy - 1/11/2010 10:52:24 PM

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Mmm, I love that new pic. What kind of car is it?

Could you post any more?

Like, maybe one of the car with its rear end lifted up, showing the undercarriage- yeah, maybe letting us see that perky little tailpipe nestled between the wheelwells....

Those globular fenders arching up proud and smooth - yeah, that baby got back alright.....

mmmmmm, God thats hawt.

I gotta go take care of something...

*LMAO*

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RE: eating pussy - 1/11/2010 11:04:47 PM

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I dont see this as any different than any relationship requirement one might have. I have ended relationships because having someone be able to emotionally connect and love me is important to me. Cunnilingis is just as important to many of us. I dont understand why some dont see this as a basic need. Just as wanting love is a basic need. It may not be everyones basic need, but if it is important to someone, then ending the relationship would be the only alternative. That is what is done when one doesnt want to settle for" less".

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RE: eating pussy - 1/12/2010 4:39:31 AM

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the hard part is i lived on expectations of something that by the time I realized was never going to occur I had invested feelings for my Dom. I've developed an attachment. It blows it's come to this. I just feel led on...perhaps the is the worst of it.

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RE: eating pussy - 1/12/2010 5:40:05 AM

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(CNJDom says:) You have invested in this relationship...now if this is an issue that bothers you, and it don't feel right; then think about that. Gut feelings sometimes are telling you something. Bring it up to him, you can always re-negotiate your dynamic which should be changing subtly every moment. But it will come at one point where you will have to decide something for yourself if you can live with this or is this something that will eat at you until you're not happy. Is this just it, or just the tip of other issues that will come up?

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RE: eating pussy - 1/12/2010 5:44:51 AM

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I agree sounds like there is something more. I mean whats the big deal? If you are in a commited relation with this so called Dom. I'm sure you both discuss your wants and needs. Mention you how much you love to orgasm while being licked. I would hate to be in a relationship where I never got my pussy munched on.

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RE: eating pussy - 1/12/2010 5:55:26 AM

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At least guise this act as a reward or treat for goodness sakes! I get enjoyment from not only doing this, but from the sounds I get...not to mention all the other senses getting something out of it all. But this isn't the issue if he likes to go down on others...this is some priority or categorizing that just doesn't sound healthy mentally.

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RE: eating pussy - 1/12/2010 5:59:13 AM

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At least guise this act as a reward or treat for goodness sakes! I get enjoyment from not only doing this, but from the sounds I get...not to mention all the other senses getting something out of it all. But this isn't the issue if he likes to go down on others...this is some priority or categorizing that just doesn't sound healthy mentally.

I agree. I've been lucky most of the men I know love to do it.

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RE: eating pussy - 1/12/2010 6:06:57 AM

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Too bad this person couldn't see all the attention his lack of a waggin' tongue has generated...perhaps a new thread on something like "Dominant pussy-eating techniques" might pop up. Or "how going down after tying her down can be fun and rewarding..." sort of thing.

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RE: eating pussy - 1/12/2010 6:27:44 AM

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She sees it she has another thread going on. They won't make it to Valentine's Day . .

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