CallaFirestormBW
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You know, in the end, this all boils down to ignoring the situations that don't fit us, and aligning with the ones that do. My preference is to keep one kind of house, and not everyone is going to be interested in being part of that -- but my choice in keeping my household doesn't make me a 'fake' or a 'poser' or anything else except -myself-. Neither does the fact that someone isn't interested in what I want make -them- a 'loser', 'fake', etc.. Finding companions with whom to shape an authority-exchange relationship is just like finding any other relationship... 'You have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince(ess)'. That's just the way it is. It makes no sense to rail at the wind for blowing -- nor does it make sense to rail at people for posting their desires, and for trying to find others who do (or maybe could) share them. If something doesn't suit, then just delete... or, if ambitious with extra time on one's hands, offer up a polite "no thanks" in response. *shrugs* For myself, I want someone who can put in a day's work -- I'm not much into a servant who'll be chained to the wall or locked in a box all the time, as nothing but an ornament... frankly, I'm not much into dusting kitsch and ornaments. *chuckles* That being said, for me, the desire to serve is more vital than how much someone is earning. As many folks here know, my life is in the midst of a MAJOR change as well, including a cross-country move to re-align with my life-purpose, so right now, I'm not really looking to add anyone. I -still- get messages from people who want me to chain them up, or dress them in diapers, or who want me to pick them as mine right this very minute, despite what I've said, ever so clearly, on my profile page... and in response, I just shake my head and move on. Dame Calla
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*** Said to me recently: "Look, I know you're the "voice of reason"... but dammit, I LIKE being unreasonable!!!!" "Your mind is more interested in the challenge of becoming than the challenge of doing." Jon Benson, Bodybuilder/Trainer
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