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ORIGINAL: Kana

This is the net, dude. If you write it down, assume at some point it will be used against you.

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ORIGINAL: Kana

Yeah, but at some point you have to start asking what you want to be known for.

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance


I fail to see how you are actually reaching your intended target, by misrepresenting yourself, simply to garner sympathy.  The only word I could think of, for someone who participates in this deceptive approach is predator.

Your thoughts on this?

WinD

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ORIGINAL: osf

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ORIGINAL: Kana

This is the net, dude. If you write it down, assume at some point it will be used against you.

it's not all that bad for me actually, the drama drives people to perv me

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ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally

I reckon Osf that your time would be better spent nurturing your budding relationship rather than wasting time trying to get more people looking at your profile, if you have found someone who fits your very specific criteria then what the hell are you doing here man

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ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally
...... if you have found someone who fits your very specific criteria then what the hell are you doing here man

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ORIGINAL: osf

first of all i never set myself up to be attacked or the victim , that is a result of some here not tolerating other than their orthodoxy, so be it, i'll use it to my advantage

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ORIGINAL: osf
and as to my posts yes they are my views, as i suspect are those of others with views and if they attract women to me with similar views so much the better

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ORIGINAL: osf

and i'm glad you shower and i hope you enjoy yourself

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ORIGINAL: osf

ya know if i wasn't attacked 90% of the drama would disappear

which is ok i'd still get my ideas across

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ORIGINAL: osf
and if the boards are for the free exchange of ideas then that's what i'm doing, so for the life of me i don't understand it, seems like book burning to me

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ORIGINAL: osf
ps. you look cute in the tub

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

I wouldn't so much see that has being a dupe... but a person that exercises a trait of compassion and kindness. I would also say that such a person... very much like my Alandra.... is person that attempts to look beyond the obvious apparent weakness and see some sort of silver lining of the person in question. Something that somehow can come out of the rough and shine so to speak... if only given a chance. People in general don't tend to give an individual of apparent weakness much of a chance and often will over look that silver lining. I kinda think that people like yourself and my Alandra are kinda of nice to have... and even necessary for the good of us all.

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists
It's not an uncommon from what I have seen.

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists
I am not so sure that this is a conscious approach of a predator as you label the behaviors observed... or the emotional behavioral downward spiral of a broke person.

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ORIGINAL: JBGolden

I suppose there's a first for everything. I've come to find myself agreeing with osf about something. 

...

You really do look cute sitting in that tub!

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance


I fail to see how you are actually reaching your intended target, by misrepresenting yourself, simply to garner sympathy.  The only word I could think of, for someone who participates in this deceptive approach is predator.

Your thoughts on this?

WinD

Really? The terms that come to my mind are: whiny, laughable and unable to dominate his way out of a paper bag.

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ORIGINAL: osf

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ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally

I reckon Osf that your time would be better spent nurturing your budding relationship rather than wasting time trying to get more people looking at your profile, if you have found someone who fits your very specific criteria then what the hell are you doing here man

very good question but i'm not answering it

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

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ORIGINAL: osf

first of all i never set myself up to be attacked or the victim , that is a result of some here not tolerating other than their orthodoxy, so be it, i'll use it to my advantage

It appeared you were content to present the impression that you had orchestrated just that, and played all of us unknowing dupes. This is where my disconnect formed. As for intolerance, I don't see those who have disagreed with you as being intolerant. I would see them (me) as simply debating an opposed perspective.



( no I could show you some rather vile attacks on me and one that went beyond any bounds of decency , and usually by the same crew and hangers on )

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ORIGINAL: osf
and as to my posts yes they are my views, as i suspect are those of others with views and if they attract women to me with similar views so much the better

Are they really your views though? You back pedal a great deal, and you seem to take great pains to misrepresent yourself, for reasons I can't quite fathom.

For example:
You are a self proclaimed creative misogynist who later states that he loves women.
You want a shut up and be seen not heard slave, but later say you love talking to women and getting to know them on an intimate level.
You stated that you felt remorse and self-loathing for hurting women, then state in your journal that you sleep peacefully after doing so.

I could go on, the discrepencies of who you present yourself as on these boards is documented, but I'm not trying to attack you, or put you on the defensive. There are just too many incongruities, and I can't help but feel compelled to put them in order!

( the sig you don’t see as humor?

And you don’t recognize metaphors?

And where did the remorse come from?)

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ORIGINAL: osf

and i'm glad you shower and i hope you enjoy yourself

Indeed.

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ORIGINAL: osf

ya know if i wasn't attacked 90% of the drama would disappear

which is ok i'd still get my ideas across

Do you really view everyone who disagrees with you as attacking you?
Do you really get YOUR ideas across? Because after a month of following your posts quite closely, I am no closer to really knowing what your honest, transparent views are - other than you like to hurt women.


( to those I want, yes my ideas get across)

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ORIGINAL: osf
and if the boards are for the free exchange of ideas then that's what i'm doing, so for the life of me i don't understand it, seems like book burning to me

I read this as "when I say it, it is a free exchange of ideas, when anyone disagrees with me, it is a book burning."
Am I misinterpreting this?


( absolutely I never dish an honest disagreement positively stated, it’s the negativity I dislike, I may be wrong but I don’t remember ever insulting you and we disagree but you don’t state your disagreements in purely personaly negative terms)

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ORIGINAL: osf
ps. you look cute in the tub

Thank you

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance
I was trying to find another word for what he appears to be doing and couldn't find one, but predator kept insinuating itself into my thoughts.  I dont' really believe Osf is a predator, but there are some times when I really wonder about him.  I think he's doing himself a diservice by inadvertently misrepresenting himself - otherwise he's deliberately misleading those very submissives that come to his defense.

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He might be doing himself a diservice... but I really don't think he cares others there would be an obvious attempt/effort to change his approach. He has his way and he will stick to it till his goose is cooked!

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ORIGINAL: osf

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He might be doing himself a diservice... but I really don't think he cares others there would be an obvious attempt/effort to change his approach. He has his way and he will stick to it till his goose is cooked!

and it works for me, or i'd change it lol

and spelling out what you want is in no way being a predator

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

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ORIGINAL: osf

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He might be doing himself a diservice... but I really don't think he cares others there would be an obvious attempt/effort to change his approach. He has his way and he will stick to it till his goose is cooked!

and it works for me, or i'd change it lol

and spelling out what you want is in no way being a predator

The person I see presented here on the boards, very often seems disconnected from the person in your profile, but you seem happy with your approach and results, so ok yep, I guess it is about a 'nuff said moment. 


WinD

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance
I was trying to find another word for what he appears to be doing and couldn't find one, but predator kept insinuating itself into my thoughts.  I dont' really believe Osf is a predator, but there are some times when I really wonder about him.  I think he's doing himself a diservice by inadvertently misrepresenting himself - otherwise he's deliberately misleading those very submissives that come to his defense.

well... I can't see that I have seen a flock of submissives flock to his goose and defend on the forums. Though I have seen a person or two try to give him the benefit of the doubt. As far as the apparent emails of support he gets.... well lets just say that Santa Clause is real too.

He might be doing himself a diservice... but I really don't think he cares otherwise there would be an obvious attempt/effort to change his approach. He has his way and he will stick to it till his goose is cooked!