RedMagic1 -> RE: Well, you all were right about him... (2/8/2010 1:06:41 PM)
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ORIGINAL: OnlineFunForYou Because one doesn't help the OP by suggesting that what happened to her, will happen over and over again to her. Rather, like most posters do here, she needs advice and encouragement to avoid this happening again to her. Actually, I think domiguy has a point. She'll allow a flaming asshole to torture her, because she enjoys the way he fucks with her mind, but she is too frightened to meet someone like me for lunch. She's not looking for friends, or support. She's looking for a controller and a user. Perhaps this post will annoy you, and you will mini-lecture me on how I could have phrased it in a more encouraging fashion. The reality, though, is this: the women I play with would have done their best to chew my balls off if I ignored a "Red" in a scene with them. There is one hell of a difference between being a sub and being a victim. The OP needs to stop being a victim, before she can even start thinking about being a sub.
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