RedMagic1
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Joined: 5/10/2007 Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: agirl I thought it was rather odd that she dismissed your invite, after commenting HERSELF that you were so close with a *hehe*. Her reasons "why not "were a bit dismissive too. agirl Yeah. She's viewed my profile; I've never viewed hers. I don't list a city on my profile, though I do list a city on another site, and even so, she knows we only live 40 miles from each other. She sees my photo every time she logs in. And yet, no. This strikes me as fundamentally unbalanced. I didn't follow her last thread at all, and I know almost nothing about her, but I'm happy to meet her anyway. Why? Because it's just lunch, and reality is more important than online any day. Meanwhile, she's done far more work to find out about me than I have to find out about her, but she's unwilling to meet me in real. These are hallmarks of someone who is more comfortable with online than reality. Her defense of ForeverOwned, who everyone knows makes shit up and is the postergirl for online fantasy BDSM, is further indication of this. She feels comfortable reading content-free posts, because they are more comforting to her than reality. Seriously, TapedCookie, I strongly recommend you start meeting as many people (nonsexually) as possible in real life. There are munches in Des Moines, Ames, and several other places throughout the state. There's nothing like reality to help ground all this stuff. Don't put too much stock in anybody's posts on the internet.
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Not with envy, not with a twisted heart, shall you feel superior, or go about boasting. Rather in goodness by action make true your song and your word. Thus you shall be highly regarded, and able to live in peace with all others. - 15th century Aztec
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