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I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 10:50:47 AM

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Hey everyone. I'm new to this world.

I need a slave to love. A woman that looks kinda like this... http://www.pattycakenude.info/images/pattycake_online_1.jpg ...or like this... http://www.rabbitsreviews.com/gals/models/missbunny/com-pics/01.jpg ...or like this... http://www.wrestlewithjimmy.net/Images/hbotd/michelle_marsh/waking_up_michelle_marsh/waking_up_michelle_marsh_36.jpg ...or some variation thereof.

While I'm aware that some people might think this unlikely to occur, I believe that dreams can come true and these women are merely examples of the female form that I consider to be ideal. I like curvy, healthy women. It's just how I'm wired. Of course, it's really a woman's personality that keeps me interested, but if I'm not sexually attracted to a woman, I simply can't be with them because they won't be able to fulfill my desires.

I don't mean to be so blunt about things, but beating around the bush hasn't gotten me anywhere and I'm kinda tired of having to sift through people just to find what I need. Any search like mine is bound to be arduous and mine definitely has been. As it is I'm already tired of the games people play and am only interested in serious inquiries.

I'm not looking for someone temporary. I'm looking for someone permanent. Potentially for a wife. Someone that can take care of me and love me. Someone that can fulfill my every desire and who's primary desire is to make me happy. I've spent my entire life making other people happy and for once, I'd like someone to make me happy.

The world is a cold, hard place, and I've been broken across the rocks many times by manipulative and selfish people. I've endured things no person should ever have to endure and lost more than anyone should ever have to lose. I need comfort, fidelity, and stability. I'd explain more on here, but my life until a few years ago was a horror story. It's kinda personal.

I guess you could say I'm on a quest to find my ideal mate or even an unselfish, self-sacrificing angel. I know there will be those that don't understand me or will want to judge me, but until you've lived my life, you'll never understand it fully.

RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 11:48:51 AM

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Fella, welcome. I hate to be critical, but you have little experience and make it darn clear that you want a woman with pornstar looks who either lives in ND or is willing to relocate there. And you have a pic from a video game.

Get some experience under your belt with submissives, then accept the extra responsibility of a slave. And lay off the video games and porn.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 12:05:09 PM

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I might not have much experience with this lifestyle, but I know exactly what I need and want. I also have a sort of guru to advise me on the lifestyle, so experience isn't really all that necessary. I appreciate the advice, but I don't really need any at the moment.

I also don't bother myself with porn. It doesn't really interest me. I am however quite familiar with who various models in the porn industry are since I frequent the internet. Afterall, you can't surf the net without learning something of what's on it.

Some of them happened to catch my eye simply because I thought they were beautiful. In my early 20's I spent about a year searching the web for what I considered to be the perfect female form.

In so doing I discovered many, many beautiful women, but none so lovely to me as women that greatly resembled the ones in the links I posted.

I don't expect the woman of my dreams to be flawless, but I do have a general idea of what I like and it's much easier to post examples than spend hours attempting to define the indefinable with words.

As for the pic. I don't post my real pic for reasons of privacy. I don't actually play video games that often and have never played any online games like World of Warcrack, but I liked the picture of the orc. It's an excellent work of art.

And about responsibility for a slave. I'm fully prepared to accept responsibility for a slave and am being coached in how to care for one by someone that has lived the lifestyle for years and years.

My coach knows me better than anyone and believes I'm ready for, and in need of, a permanent slave. Now if I can just find the right one...that's the real problem. There are so many different kinds of slaves.

At any rate, I appreciate the concern, but I'll be ok.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 12:08:09 PM

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OP, I understand you are new here and it seems to BDSM in general if I'm reading your post right. Coming here to the kinky world isn't going to give you your dream girl on a plate. I mean this in the kindest way...grow up. First let me point out some things here that will get in the way of you finding your dream woman.

You have no picture of yourself posted but want according to the examples you gave in your posting the extremely beautiful, shapely, youthful woman. Every other guy on here wants those women...what makes you special enough to get her?

The picture you do have posted is some kind of gamer/sci fi/airbrush beast art thing

You've had a hard life...well join the club. I could tell you things about my own life that were horrifically difficult and since I've been here at CM I've been priviledged to read things that others have written about things that they have dealt with that were far beyond anything I've ever done. There are people on here that I give the utmost respect to because of the devastating things they have survived gracefully and without saying that they are owed a beautiful loving partner because they had a rough time. Suck it up. I've never seen it happen that someone goes through something appalling and then gets an award for it.

You mention in your profile that you are antisocial and rarely go out. Miss Beautiful will have to be content with that I guess.

You love anime, cartoons, RPG's, paranormal, horror movies, video and arcade games, these are your pastimes. It screams 10 year old kid to me and is focused on things you can do alone. Miss Perfect will have to be content with her own company.

You state you want the last word in everything and it's been almost impossible to find the right woman.

The list of Dislikes, Hates, and Hard Limits in your profile is the longest most extensive list I have ever seen in these areas. For this alone I'd not ever consider you. Your list speaks of someone with excessively negative views on life and a closed mind. Miss Gorgeous will have to hear you whine about pretty much everything because the things you dislike and don't want to deal with are legion. And hey, I'm so far away from your perfect vision of loveliness it's comical,but I wouldn't even give you the time of day much less someone with a bazillion other guys running after her.

So, you want the anatomically perfect ravishing (and kinky!) little honey who will take on damaged goods with tons of baggage to fulfill your every need while giving up any kind of a life that she may enjoy which may include the company of other people and activities that she may want to share with you while you control every aspect of her life.

What do you have to offer this angel? What makes you so special that she'll choose you? From the picture that your OP and profile give of you I can't see that you are going to get out of fantasy land on this one.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 12:18:02 PM

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Simply put, I'm an extremely opinionated person who's been through hell, and knows exactly what he wants out of life. I don't expect anything to be handed to me on a silver platter, I've simply posted my desires as honestly as possible.

I find your extremely judgmental negativity to be rather jarring, but I anticipated that there would be people that don't quite get me and would likely be as judgmentally negative as you've proven yourself to be.

As distasteful as you might find me to be, your attacks merely show that you're extremely close-minded. There is someone for everyone, even someone who desires what I desire.

I never asked for your approval and I don't really require it.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 12:24:54 PM

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well...... good luck with all that.. and I'd suggest you listen to some of what's been said here, but also if you're serious you not limit your search to collar me... and yes, I too have to add.. you might want to let go of the fantasy, unless that's what you want

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 12:37:31 PM

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While I understand that some of it was intended as advice. Much of it was just harsh and ill-mannered trolling. I am who I am and if others cannot accept that, then I see no reason to extend to them any sort of courtesies.

As for fantasy. This lifestyle is the very definition of fantasy made reality. It disturbs me to see so many elderly people acting as if they are the all-knowing masters of fantasy and reality. Every person has their own desires, fantasies, and realities.

It would certainly be preferable if people that post could remember that.

What I desire won't appeal to many people, but I never asked them to find it appealing. I've simply stated precisely what I want. If the angel I seek is out there and she sees this post, then my attempt has not been in vain.

Afterall, there are literally billions of women out there. I'm just looking for that one. The perfect one for me. The one I would live for, the one I would love, the one I would die for (though hopefully that won't be necessary).

Perhaps it is just a dream, but so was America once, so was flying, etc. All dreams, if remotely possible can come true. I fully intend for mine to come true.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 12:43:08 PM

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The "Lifestyle" is NOT the definition of fantasy made reality.

There is still work to be done, bills to be paid, there is shit that needs doing.

You may say you know what you want and will not compromise. Life is compromise. Do you have a job? Do you do things that you would rather not?

Get your rather larger head out of your rather tight ass and pay attention when people speak kindly to you.

You slammed another poster for his reaction to people here.

How are you any different?

Jeff

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 12:49:19 PM

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i've read this thread several times and looked at your profile a couple of times, as you know.

And i'm really, truly, trying to come up with some positive words, and i'm struggling...........because i just sense SO much negativity, both here, and in your profile. It's unattractive in a scary sort of way.

So all i can say that's helpful is you spelled "caucasian" wrong.

Welcome to the boards, blessings, and good luck.....

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 12:50:23 PM

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This difference is THAT guy merely had someone say hello before he became a dick. While here, I'm being insulted from the very beginning.

The lifestyle IS the very definition of fantasy made reality. You fantasize about something, you meet someone that shares you fantasy from the other end of the spectrum and *poof* magic happens. Of course that magic takes work and someone who shares your fantasy.

Work, it does not define your existence. It's merely a means to an end.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 12:52:38 PM

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At least UniqueRaven is nice.

I don't mean to come across as negative, it's just hard to sound positive when you're under attack from bitter grandparents that can't keep their rude opinions to themselves.

You seem nice though.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 12:52:56 PM

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Carry on Dude............... I wish you well

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 12:57:06 PM

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I think a succinct "good luck with that" will suffice - does anyone else think this is actually Bob's "inner demon" being unleashed? 6 posts in and he is telling people what the "lifestyle" is all about... wowsers!

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 12:58:32 PM

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I wonder if this happens on all the forums. Someone posts what they desire, and suddenly trolls appear. I find that if trolls appear it's best to humor them or ignore them depending on the circumstances. Some trolls are funny, but these ones are just...ignorant.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 12:59:05 PM

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You young whippersnappers think you have it rough?

Back in My day, we had to beat our women uphill............ in the snow......... with no shoes... both ways!

CurmudgeonDom

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:00:05 PM

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jefff i wish you had a mentor you sure could use one.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:00:13 PM

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Thank you.

And may i suggest you do remove some of that long list of "dislikes/hates/hard limits?" We don't need to know everything up front.

i mean - and this is a little tongue in cheek - as a slave, canes and crops, whips, fisting and ass play are a regular Saturday night for me. If i were going to move to North Dakota for an Owner, i'd like to know i'm going to have a little more fun other than cooking.

Edited to Add: Jeffff isn't a troll - he's sweet. He just speaks his mind. Hang around long enough and you'll see what i mean. People really aren't attacking you as much as you may be perceiving.

< Message edited by UniqueRaven -- 2/27/2010 1:01:53 PM >

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:00:20 PM

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Now THAT was funny.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:02:05 PM

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Good luck you will need it.

Prepare for a long wait....

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:02:38 PM

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Perhaps, but if I were to simply lie about what I like or dislike then I'd be dishonest and that could be very disappointing for my potential angel. I think it's best if I'm just completely honest about everything right away to avoid having people waste their time on me. I'd feel bad if someone got all excited about me only to get let down by the truth.

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