CarrieO
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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz I guess the majority of switches on here just don't want to admit it openly! Let me apoligize right now for the little rant I'm about to give. Well, I think this is part of it. I've noticed when you do admit to feeling either side, more D vs s or vice versa, you're reminded that switches are really only tops or bottoms...now be a good boy/girl and go play somewhere else. I think it's actually kind of funny. I started a thread recently on the Ask a Mistress forum about feminine wiles vs dominance and got an email from a red letter individual saying I should stick to this, Ask a Switch, forum because that's what I am...not domme or sub. I thought it was silly and more than a little sad that someone would take the time to even send such claptrap...to be so bothered as to take valuable time to write and tell a complete stranger they've been labeled and boxed based on words. I think there's a heck of a lot of switching going on...people just don't want to or aren't comfortable with talking about it as much as the other identifiers. They'll say things like "I'm a dom/me but I like to bottom, but I'm not a switch" or "I'll top because he/she tells me to, but I'm not a switch." It's easier for most people to understand identifying words like dom/me, sub, slave...they're clear and more to the point. I haven't started any threads in this section mainly because I can relate to topics in the other forums...ask a master/mistress/sub/general bdsm. In looking over some of the older threads here, though, there have been some really good discussions....maybe it's time to revive this switchy board and make it interesting again. *whips out the defibrillator and yells "clear"* BTW....I love the "African switch scammer/how many fake switches do we have here/you're not a twue switch" thread ideas. Just my ....fwiw.
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