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Giving up - 3/6/2010 8:38:38 AM

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I'm giving up on the search.

After 10 years of seeking and not finding, I have come to the conclusion that what I seek does not exist.

The fact that mere "friendship" is not possible with these people further solidifies my decision. I get so tired of mens' profiles saying 'I'm looking for friends' but still they can't be bothered to respond to my messages. I guess a woman has to be fuckable in order to be friendship material.

How sad.

RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 8:47:24 AM

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Generally I find that "friend" for men does mean a potential fuck. Finding a true friend in a guy is rare. Almost always they are looking to get in your pants. You are only ever... they pussy they had or the pussy they didn't get yet.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 8:50:15 AM

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Actually she has to be totally unfuckable or has already been fucked or made it clear that I will never,ever be tapping her fine ass, for her to be considered "friendship" material.

This is your sixth post. If you actually come out on this side of CM and make contributions and show people what warmwomen29 is all about you will make friends out here whichposssibly might even lead to something much deeper and even more rewarding.

the profiles suck balls. So you should stay out here and work your way around this site, meet the cast of characters that mingkle about out here and you shall do fine.

As the Earthly Ambassador to Gor and CollarMe it might be wise to forward a tit or a slit shot or two to make your decent down into these parts a tad bit easier. I know lots of people round these here parts...You grease my palm and I will tell you where CM keeps all of the good stuff...And by good stuff, I actually mean men. Men that will be willing to be your friend and will not care about your tremendous "fuckability" or lack there of....Of course all of these types of guys are homos. Just in case you were wondering.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 8:54:35 AM

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Generally I find that "friend" for men does mean a potential fuck. Finding a true friend in a guy is rare. Almost always they are looking to get in your pants. You are only ever... they pussy they had or the pussy they didn't get yet.

there are quite a few men who see females other that "pussy"....

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 8:56:26 AM

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Yes! That's what I've always believed but men lie to me all the time and tell me that I'm wrong! I feel some validation!

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:00:37 AM

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To domiguy... I prefer one on one conversation as opposed to wading through endless banter between established friends. I feel that people, men in particular, drop their guard in one on one conversation and are more apt to reveal their true selves. When they post in a public forum, a lot of them posture for effect...

I still don't understand how a friendly hello and a smile can be heartlessly ignored. But you know what? Men do that to me in the real world so I shouldn't be surprised they do it here, where it is so much easier to hide and lie.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:01:49 AM

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sirsholly ... I wish I could find ONE man who doesn't view women as potential pussy.Oh right . . .they're all taken!!

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:02:29 AM

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Generally I find that "friend" for men does mean a potential fuck. Finding a true friend in a guy is rare. Almost always they are looking to get in your pants. You are only ever... they pussy they had or the pussy they didn't get yet.

there are quite a few men who see females other that "pussy"....

And they are all gay.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:04:38 AM

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A woman should never really trust a man who doesn't want to bang her.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:06:51 AM

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I'm giving up on the search.

After 10 years of seeking and not finding, I have come to the conclusion that what I seek does not exist.

The fact that mere "friendship" is not possible with these people further solidifies my decision. I get so tired of mens' profiles saying 'I'm looking for friends' but still they can't be bothered to respond to my messages. I guess a woman has to be fuckable in order to be friendship material.

How sad.

I'm sorry your so discouraged and hurt. It does take a long time to find a good match. In our lifestyle it can take even longer to find a good, strong relationship because there are fewer of us then the vanilla people. Please don't give up. You really do have to kiss a lot of toads to fnd your prince :-)

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:06:55 AM

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Good idea, if you can't catch a fish in the ocean, put your bait into a desert. Yeah - that 'll work.

Or, I hear bob's available - After you've developed love over an extended courtship, lived off the land for a winter in remote Saskatchewan, cleaned up after 9 wild dogs and 6 feral cats; how do you feel about collaring ceremony that includes nails through your tits?

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:07:52 AM

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Mercnbeth.... not sure what you just said... cheer!

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:08:36 AM

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To domiguy... I prefer one on one conversation as opposed to wading through endless banter between established friends. I feel that people, men in particular, drop their guard in one on one conversation and are more apt to reveal their true selves. When they post in a public forum, a lot of them posture for effect...

I still don't understand how a friend hello and a smile can be heartlessly ignored. But you know what? Men do that to me in the real world so I shouldn't be surprised they do it here, where it is so much easier to hide and lie.

You are horribly mistaken. It is easy to deceive one on one...It is rather difficult to come out here and engage in meaningful conversations on countless subjects and try to keep up some sort of a facade over that long of a period.

However, you are obviously mistaken because in ten years it seems that you have not been able to find this guy that has dropped his guard and revealed his true self. Unless their true selves were men that were cocks and were not overy attracted to you.

So obviously you have a problem in choosing an appropriate partner. Why not take my advice? Are you looking for a buddy or a buddy with a flogger and a huge cock?

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:12:52 AM

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domiguy ... I'm looking for love with kink on the side. As for being able to deceive less online? Ha .. people can fake where they live, what their name is, even their marital status. What bubble have you been living in?

Jeffff ... That comment ... is slightly scary to consider. Probably why I was afraid of men while growing up because I thought they all wanted to rape me.

GraciousLady .... I'm no spring chicken and I've talked with more men than I can enumerate, have met even fewer than that. The bottom line is, these Dom types want young slim women. I fit neither bill.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:13:31 AM

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sirsholly ... I wish I could find ONE man who doesn't view women as potential pussy.Oh right . . .they're all taken!!

If you seek friendship, then why do you care if they're taken or not?

I have friendships here with many women. A lot of them, like sirsholly, are spoken for. Some are lesbians, some are Dommes, and almost all live other states. They all are women I enjoy chatting with.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:13:55 AM

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And to domiguy again...you still do not address WHY men ignore friendly greetings. They don't even take the time to get to know me to know if I'm fuckable or not! *LOL*

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:14:28 AM

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To domiguy... I prefer one on one conversation as opposed to wading through endless banter between established friends. I feel that people, men in particular, drop their guard in one on one conversation and are more apt to reveal their true selves. When they post in a public forum, a lot of them posture for effect...

Frankly, warmwoman, you aren't in a position to say you "feel" jacksquat about other people. You're admitting dejection and failure over a long-term goal. Domiguy's advice was superb. I've attended a wedding of two people who met on the forums, and have recently celebrated their first anniversary. I could give you plenty of other examples, including women I have met as friends, and have dated, because we liked each other's posts.

Face it. Your common sense about other people -- especially men -- sucks. You can play the violin for a while. God knows I have. But sooner or later, you need to deal with the fact that your understanding of people is way off, and needs to be fixed.

Best of luck.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:14:30 AM

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Well, you being so upbeat and cheerful, I just don't understand the reaction you get.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:15:34 AM

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Dark Steven ... because I guess I'm under the delusion that friendship precedes love and relationship. I'd like to think that friendship is the foundation for such. But the truth is, no one wants to be "just friends" on this site. Even the ones who say they want friendship begin conversation with me by asking what my tits look like and if I shave or not. Nice friend!

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:16:30 AM

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Generally I find that "friend" for men does mean a potential fuck. Finding a true friend in a guy is rare. Almost always they are looking to get in your pants. You are only ever... they pussy they had or the pussy they didn't get yet.

I never been much of a cross dresser.

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