leadership527
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who can say really posh? I'm in a [currently] monogamous M/s relationship and I've "trained" one or two "online slaves". But honestly, what that means in my case is that I have shown these people what submission is all about and allowed them to experience their submissive sides. Mostly, it was pointing out the obvious to them. It never went anywhere sexually, online or otherwise. So at least in my case, I was willing to invest significant effort in order to help another human who I thought was sincere. There was no hidden agenda or ulterior motive. All of the "agendas" were laid up up-front and quite clearly. In my opinion, the CM crowd is quick to assume negative motive... especially when it comes to male dominants. That isn't always the case. Only you can know enough of this particular situation to know whether the guy is playing you or not.
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~Jeff I didn't so much "enslave" Carol as I did "enlove" her. - Me I want a joyous, loving, respectful relationship where the male is in charge and deserves to be. - DavanKael
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