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RE: "Online training" - 4/18/2010 11:09:42 AM

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You are from Texas. Nothing is perfect.

Heyheyhey!

Nothing wrong with Texas, posh.

It's absolutely full of Texans...

Well actually its full of Mexicans, but who am I to split hairs?

We had to get someone to cut the grass... but yeah, if you're allegeric to hispanics, Alaska might be a good spot for you.

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And posh, you seriously need to get over this "inexperienced" thing. Trust me on this. There isn't anything really to be experienced about. That's why I said that much of my "online training" was simply pointing out the obvious. In the end, it's just a relationship where you obey to some degree or another.

Well said!

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"lard bucket"

That's a term on endearment i have never used....hummm

"come to me my little lard bucket"

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RE: "Online training" - 4/18/2010 11:55:35 AM

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When I was in college I was a rather large proponent of the wake n bake....Now I prefer the wake n stain.

but to do both of those, in the same morning, is better than folgers in your cup!

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RE: "Online training" - 4/18/2010 11:56:14 AM

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What is a csoh or dare I ask?

I always forget that you noobs don't speak domiese.....csoh = current set of holes.

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RE: "Online training" - 4/18/2010 1:14:36 PM

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Gosh, thats a releif, I was worried it might be something unpleasant or unkind. I should have known better than not to beleive in you, I would trust you with my life, well perhaps a small houseplant at any rate.

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RE: "Online training" - 4/18/2010 3:43:50 PM

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I am seeking an opinion from the experienced really. As a newbie, I am subject to a whole variety of influences and opinions and I can never quite get away from the sense of paranoia that follows me round like a black cloud in all my dealings so far.

Is there ever any validity to online training or is it always a precursor to a free "fuck" as it were or at the very least an online thrill? I am involved in online training right now and have been for sometime ,whilst I will admit to learning a fair bit and he has never asked anything particularly sexual of me, am I deluding myself as to his intentions?

The reason I ask, is that of late , it has moved up a notch and become far more sexually orientated. He is local to me, claims to be in a monogomous M/s relationship and therefore unavailable. says he is disinterested in me sexually but does eventually want to train me in real time for my own benefit, although I am not "ready" yet. The added twist is I was "referred" out to him off CM by a cousin of his who found me on CM and I have never quite shaken off the feeling they are the same person.

When I write it down like this, it seems crazy but he is very smart and very convincing and I would never have considered myself easily manipulated or gullible as I have a fair amount of smarts myself. Am I more gullible than I thought perhaps?

Is all this effort he has put in , which has been plenty over a long period of time, really all for a freebie or even to claim me for himself, surely there are easier ways and frankly, I am hardly "all that" anyway.

If this is a familar senario to those more experienced amongst you, what on earth could be the motivation behind such an elaborate ruse if indeed it is a ruse?

Very interested in hearing what you think.

FR - havent read the other posts, so excuse me if im repeating something here - i ort to be in bed.

but, if he's here on CM surely he can click onto youre posting history and read this??????

on-line can be quite potent but it never worked for me particularly because im a hands on kinda gal - in terms of training online, whats it teaching you? that you can take orders and be relatively obedient, presumably you already knew that - if he's helping you to get to grips with youre nature and getting you to think about who you are and what you want should you ever get around to real life then it might be valid.

but training you in what he wants isnt necessarily going to prepare you for a real life Master who may have different ideas. with each and every man ive ever submitted to over the years its been different each and every time.

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RE: "Online training" - 4/18/2010 4:11:08 PM

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One of them is on here yes, the one who has most contact with me is not on CM. I told one of them I have been posting on here, but I knew he wouldnt even bother reading it. They think chatrooms and forums like this are beneath them. They are disinterested in the opinions of others.

Its not been the camming, getting naked , punishing myself kind of thing, its more discussion based with journaling and some obedience tasks.

The problem is just lately it has taken a rather sharp turn towards being more sexual with an eventual plan for him to teach me in person, which inevitably as he admitted could involve him banging me.

It has not been so much about him training me for him specifically but as he claims, its to remove some of my brattiness/pride before I attempt this kind of relationship for a better chance of success.

I am an ex-army officer and this guy is ex-army too, so there is a connection and I although I have always needed to be submissive at my core, am pretty heavily programmed not to be.

As to why all this has become an issue is in my OP so I wont repeat it.

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RE: "Online training" - 4/18/2010 4:34:50 PM

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did I forget to mention that I am ex-army?

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RE: "Online training" - 4/18/2010 4:36:38 PM

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It has not been so much about him training me for him specifically but as he claims, its to remove some of my brattiness/pride before I attempt this kind of relationship for a better chance of success.

Ahem. If I may:

Find a bloke (or a lady, if you ever want to come to the fun side of the orientation divide...) that wants you for who you are. Not some watered-down version of you that some bloke on the internet has decided is necessary.

If a D is the one for you they will be able to turn that pride into something positive (if it isn't already positive-some of the s-types on here are extremely proud of their submission, which is *hot as fucking hell*), and get a handle on that brattiness.

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RE: "Online training" - 4/18/2010 4:52:10 PM

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did I forget to mention that I am ex-army?

Domi,

Stop taunting me! I am trying to be all deep and shit and my army background is very relevant to how I tick and made me what I am, bad and good. I also got laid a lot as well.

Changing the subject, bloody hell, the plumber just turned up to price a job for me and it turns out I was his baby daughters nurse in hospital last year, just copped myself a 50% discount! Usually the world being small is a bad thing, like laughing loudly at an ugly child playing and realising you are stood next to their Mother. But in this instance it was a good thing.

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RE: "Online training" - 4/18/2010 5:10:13 PM

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It has not been so much about him training me for him specifically but as he claims, its to remove some of my brattiness/pride before I attempt this kind of relationship for a better chance of success.

Ahem. If I may:

Find a bloke (or a lady, if you ever want to come to the fun side of the orientation divide...) that wants you for who you are. Not some watered-down version of you that some bloke on the internet has decided is necessary.

If a D is the one for you they will be able to turn that pride into something positive (if it isn't already positive-some of the s-types on here are extremely proud of their submission, which is *hot as fucking hell*), and get a handle on that brattiness.

VC , I am sure you are right. I suspect I will learn just like everyone else does by trial, error and kissing/blowing a few frogs before Mr PerfectPants turns up.

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RE: "Online training" - 4/18/2010 5:11:53 PM

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You are mean.

Gosh I like you!

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RE: "Online training" - 4/18/2010 5:13:23 PM

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ooooh look, I have 2 roundy things by my name with wavy lines on them and I have graduated from vanilla.

*claps hands like a moron.

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RE: "Online training" - 4/18/2010 5:22:56 PM

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You are mean.

Gosh I like you!

Thanks Jeffff, thats one of the nicest things anyone has ever said to me apart from " If I find you I will kill you, you curly headed ginger fuck" that was a particularly special moment.

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RE: "Online training" - 4/18/2010 5:24:57 PM

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Nothing is to sweet for you. my little lard bucket!

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RE: "Online training" - 4/18/2010 5:30:43 PM

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...my little lard bucket!

Best. Endearment. Ever.

Posh, can we please refer to you as MLLB now? Seeing as how Mr Floofy the anteaterman over there has given you such a wonderful nickname, it seems a shame not to use it...

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RE: "Online training" - 4/18/2010 5:39:49 PM

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I am glad to hear about the Walmart haute coutre collection, I tried the collar from the Petco haute coutre collection and I broke out in a rash.

I believe that would be a placebo effect, affect? mehh never was that good at english ...
anyway point being, they are the one and the same, just different tag on them!

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RE: "Online training" - 4/18/2010 5:44:35 PM

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* Blushes and immediately assumes a slave position.

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RE: "Online training" - 4/18/2010 5:52:30 PM

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...my little lard bucket!

Best. Endearment. Ever.

Posh, can we please refer to you as MLLB now? Seeing as how Mr Floofy the anteaterman over there has given you such a wonderful nickname, it seems a shame not to use it...

Sure thing VC, no protest from me, sure beats the hell out of cumdumpsterwhorepigbigbuttfuckwit which was my army nickname. The naughty scamps, I took it as affectionately given though.

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RE: "Online training" - 4/18/2010 5:54:12 PM

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...cumdumpsterwhorepigbigbuttfuckwit...

Not quite as catchy. Clearly they were not poets of the soul like Mr Floofy here.

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RE: "Online training" - 4/18/2010 6:18:00 PM

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VC , I am sure you are right. I suspect I will learn just like everyone else does by trial, error and kissing/blowing a few frogs before Mr PerfectPants turns up.

Ribbit.

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