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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 4:40:34 PM   
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Jeffffffffffffff is washing tarns? *winces* That cannot possibly end well - especially if he tries to iron them

Oh christ, I MUST leave this thread before I pee myself laughing...

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 4:53:32 PM   
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quote:

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quote:

ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

Jeffffffffffffff is washing tarns? *winces* That cannot possibly end well - especially if he tries to iron them

Oh christ, I MUST leave this thread before I pee myself laughing...


Well just go pee and come back.

Hey anyone seen Jeffffffffffffffff, I'm worried


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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 4:55:47 PM   
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Are you worried he was overtaken by a tarn while trying to iron it? (whispers shhh don't worry, they don't exist.... but don't tell anyone)

edited to add: I'm pretty sure Jeffffffffffff doesn't iron either.....just saying

< Message edited by laurell3 -- 5/10/2010 4:59:03 PM >


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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 5:02:05 PM   
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*the mental image of Jeffff trying to hose down an unwilling fifteen-foot raptor bird is outstanding, thank you for sharing*

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 5:21:30 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: laurell3

Are you worried he was overtaken by a tarn while trying to iron it? (whispers shhh don't worry, they don't exist.... but don't tell anyone)

edited to add: I'm pretty sure Jeffffffffffff doesn't iron either.....just saying


No, trying to wash one would be enough to ensure his becoming a nice tarn snack. and they do exist, they're mentioned in the books......and he does so iron, he did your ironing didn't he?


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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 5:22:42 PM   
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*the mental image of Jeffff trying to hose down an unwilling fifteen-foot raptor bird is outstanding, thank you for sharing*


Oh sure laugh...he hasn't been seen since *starts to sob quietly*


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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 5:23:28 PM   
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Yeah sure bear...it's all real....everything you read here is real.....hey....you have any interest in being a worker "true" slave?

*backs away from the pc slowly*

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 5:27:03 PM   
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Ok here is what I want to know... will a tarn were a condom?


I have some thoughts about a certain lab coat wearing girl...........



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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 5:28:52 PM   
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but really really NOT a meat flavored one..........

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 5:30:05 PM   
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Lo, from the opening post!

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ORIGINAL: SexySea
I realize that everyone has a different idea about what a Dom is and what "play" is but I'm not sure how I can be more clear and better target a compatiable man (or men).  Your honest and kind advice is welcome.

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 5:40:06 PM   
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I don't qualify, I couldn't make it through the first paragraph without my eyes watering. Obviously I'm a fake *sighs deeply*

Resident Fake in fact


< Message edited by zephyroftheNorth -- 5/10/2010 5:46:12 PM >


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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 5:49:12 PM   
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Jefffffffffff you're alive!  I have no idea and I wouldn't try if I were you. *shudders*

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/11/2010 3:09:12 AM   
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Personally I think what defines a "Dom", like many other things in life, is relative on a wide range.

Someone can be sadistic...but how sadistic? What does that even mean to them? And how do they
carry it out?

That's just my view on it. My perspective on "good discipline" would vary from many other Doms in the scene.

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/16/2010 11:12:48 AM   
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First and foremost..and I KNOW you heard this beore...submission is not about sex...submission is a "gift"..given to his/her Master willingly and openly. A true Master/Dom is always respectful and protective. most of the subs I have know...have those dark secret places in their minds were they have always wanted to go and were affraid to. A Master wll allow encourge you to explore that side of you..while respecting and protecting at the same time. Of course there are game players..there always have been and always will be...always remember "Caution is a virtue". Seek out other subs and the ones they serve and ask and listen..don't jump..judge ask you have that right. Your willingness to submit is a priceless give..choose who you give it to carefully...a True Master will earn your "gift". You will come to want to serve Him..accept nothing less.

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/16/2010 11:15:48 AM   
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Submission is no more a gift than my dominance is a gift.

It is who we are. We get to choose who we share these traits with, but that's all.


It may not be about sex for you, but to make a statement like that is rather silly.

< Message edited by Jeffff -- 5/16/2010 11:19:56 AM >


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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/16/2010 11:25:03 AM   
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Jeffff: I don't say this to you very often, but I am very fond of you and I love your attitude to life.

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/16/2010 11:25:41 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterVernon

First and foremost..and I KNOW you heard this beore...submission is not about sex...submission is a "gift"..given to his/her Master willingly and openly. A true Master/Dom is always respectful and protective. most of the subs I have know...have those dark secret places in their minds were they have always wanted to go and were affraid to. A Master wll allow encourge you to explore that side of you..while respecting and protecting at the same time. Of course there are game players..there always have been and always will be...always remember "Caution is a virtue". Seek out other subs and the ones they serve and ask and listen..don't jump..judge ask you have that right. Your willingness to submit is a priceless give..choose who you give it to carefully...a True Master will earn your "gift". You will come to want to serve Him..accept nothing less.


A toaster is a gift...a bad one too....

Submission is who I am and he doesn't have to "earn it". My respect and trust, yes. But the problem with that cliche is it implies that there is something mystical about d/s that isn't true about other relationships. There isn't. D/s is not disneyland. As in any relationship, of course you have to be careful of whom you give your trust, respect and love to. The other thing you have to be very careful about is generalizations. Among other things, submission is VERY sexual to me and it may be ONLY sexual to many and there's nothing wrong with them being who they are and being able to be open and honest about it.

There is also no "true Master". There are people that are good for us and compatible and people that are not. It doesn't make them "fake or untrue."

< Message edited by laurell3 -- 5/16/2010 11:27:11 AM >


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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/16/2010 11:25:43 AM   
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And I like your shoulder!


To Laurell...... I am NOT making your fucking toast!

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/16/2010 11:27:50 AM   
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Good because I want crepes!

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/16/2010 11:29:28 AM   
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I will give you the gift of dominant crepes!

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