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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 6:49:42 AM

Musicmystery

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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Okie Dokie. Thanks for the semantics lesson.

It's not really semantics. Let's paraphrase:

You said: This man did this thing in a story.

Then you said: I agree that it wasn't dominant.

Red said: I am tired of people saying this thing isn't dominant.

You said: I didn't say this thing wasn't dominant, I was just telling a story.

Red said: You aren't standing behind your original statement that this thing wasn't dominant.

Somewhere in there people got laid. But I don't see that it's a semantic thing...

OK, thanks. It's nice to have so many wonderful and thorough teachers. I'm learning a lot!

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 6:50:32 AM

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Get my point?

Yes I do. But if people are going to say 'x,y,z isn't dominant' then they could at least be consistent about it-that's what's bothering me here.

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 6:51:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

Okie Dokie. Thanks for the semantics lesson.

It's not really semantics. Let's paraphrase:

You said: This man did this thing in a story.

Then you said: I agree that it wasn't dominant.

Red said: I am tired of people saying this thing isn't dominant.

You said: I didn't say this thing wasn't dominant, I was just telling a story.

Red said: You aren't standing behind your original statement that this thing wasn't dominant.

Somewhere in there people got laid. But I don't see that it's a semantic thing...

OK, thanks. It's nice to have so many wonderful and thorough teachers. I'm learning a lot!

You know, you keep being sarcastic at me, but you haven't actually pointed out any errors in what I've said.

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 6:51:55 AM

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On topic......Sea, from reading your profile I would move on also. What I read from it is, emotionally high maintenance with very little interest in submitting or serving but more concerned about your stuff. It's almost all about you and what you want, and nothing about what you have to offer.

From that I would assume that the guys that do show interest are only looking for a little kinky sex and a "seeya!".

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 6:53:26 AM

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You know, you keep being sarcastic at me, but you haven't actually pointed out any errors in what I've said.

I keep saying you're right....and that bugs you too.

Let's review.....

But if you want a point---lighten up. You're taking this far too seriously.

If lighter posts are offensive, hit the hide button.

*Makes note: "real doms don't joke...they nit pick."

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 7:35:16 AM

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No, I am not a real Dom, but I do play one on TV.

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 7:39:25 AM

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told a story about one guy, nice enough, who, at four a.m., couldn't sleep, so got up to make breakfast and iron her lab coat.

Gotta agree with her. Very nice gesture. But not a dominant move on a first sleep over.

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 7:41:06 AM

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Either way...she passed on him.

Can't say. Never met the guy.

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 7:44:09 AM

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but.. no matter what the action.. If He LIKES doing it.. gets enjoyment... who is to say if it is a "Domly" thing to do or not? its all about finding Joy and Happiness ......if i am asked. i am a round peg that wont fit in a square hole.... most are i think....

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 7:48:08 AM

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Agreed.

Perhaps he's making some ironing impaired sub happy at this very moment, as they waltz into their blissful D/s day.

I have an iron. I used it to take the old wax off my skis once.

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 7:50:52 AM

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lol i never have to iron.. i get the clothes out of the dryer right asway and hang them up.. alot easier.. but i am sort of a nut about laundry... anyway... lol ...YES!! some girl is very well pressed! ( and stunned and impressed i am sure tho not much different than a Dom wishing and enjoying making dinner or any other thing really) lol

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 7:51:06 AM

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Not to derail.....................

But try the Downey Wrinkle Releaser.

it fucking ROCKS!

Of course, spraying in on Laurell's ass will be anti-climactic..... but ya can't have it all

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 7:53:10 AM

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lol i never have to iron.. i get the clothes out of the dryer right asway and hang them up.. alot easier.

Dryer???? Pshaw. City folk.

Hang them up in the breeze and the sun--wrinkle free and country fresh.

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 7:53:29 AM

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I wish my iron wouldn't feel as neglected here as it does...though not quite sure right now where it is...must have quite some dust on it by now after 3 years waiting of being used...any volunteers to do my ironing

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 7:55:02 AM

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Three years is a long time to wait to be used....

Maybe CM can set up a new board for those interested in the Ironing Lifestyle?

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 11:54:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Ok I have to go finish Laurell"s laundry.....next thing ya know I'll be wearing flip flops.......

You missed those jeans......over there......

There is no consistency because we're all different, we all define submission and dominance differently, clearly the OP seems to believe anyone that's not a sadist isn't a dominant....MM and Red obviously have different views as well......there is no RIGHT, only what's right for you...now give it rest people I'm trying to enjoy my domestic anteater in flip flops!

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 12:00:57 PM

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Those jeans had crusty cum all over them.

When you get home tonight, we need to talk.

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 12:02:05 PM

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Those jeans had crusty cum all over them.

When you get home tonight, we need to talk.

That's how long it's been since anyone's done my laundry....have fun with that!

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 12:08:35 PM

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MM and Red obviously have different views as well......there is no RIGHT, only what's right for you.

Well, I at least take it far less seriously.

A good thing in my view, but as you say, mileage varies.

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RE: Are you an Actual Dom or a Wannabe she asked? - 5/10/2010 12:33:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

Three years is a long time to wait to be used....

Maybe CM can set up a new board for those interested in the Ironing Lifestyle?

Oh yay! Laundry play!

*builds a fort out of sheets and towels and pillows*

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