allthatjaz
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Joined: 8/20/2008 Status: offline
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Some people are 50/50, some are 90/10 and some are even 99/1 I class myself as a dominant that submits to the moment. I enjoy cooking, keeping house, making his life easy. I enjoy spoiling him, treating him and generally doing the things that make him happy. That btw doesn't make me submissive, it makes me the right partner for him. I also enjoy my partner being in control (of his own life that is) I get huge satisfaction from being with a guy that has a strong and determined mind, who knows what he wants, when he wants it and doesn't compromise his likes and dislikes but none of that makes me submissive, it just makes things fit. To me submission feels like a game because its not naturally in me. I do all those things for him because I want to, no other reason. If I want to spend the day in bed tomorrow I will do, its my choice. I couldn't be a submissive in a relationship because if my own choices were taken away from me tomorrow I would just tell him to stop being ridiculous. I was born into a free world and thats where I intend to stay. And so, I submit to the moment. He puts me there and when he's finished I brush myself off, smile and say 'Hmm that was pretty hot' before getting on with the cooking in an unsubmissive way! Now my dominant gene is much stronger. I feel the need to dominate. My partner is pretty much like me and not really into being dominated. He will accept and enjoy a certain amount of sexual domination but thats about it. For this reason both of us share mj, our fem sub. With mj we can unleash the stronger influence that torrents through both our veins.
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