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ORIGINAL: GlamourDomme

Of course, I am the perfect "Domme".  Notice how I initial-capped the word "Domme".

It seems that you are approaching your quest from the wrong direction!  From your initial post, you show that you are not really submissive by presenting your requests as demands and you completely lack proper D/s etiquette.  How can you possibly find the type of relationship you claim you are looking for if you put yourself out into the Community as just the opposite of what you seek?  That just makes what is already difficult nearly impossible!  In whatever you do, you have to always remember what your goal is and act in ways that support you achieving it. 

Here is something that will be useful to you: How To Approach A Mistress .  A good start is for a sub to learn how to present her/himself in a way worthy of  receiving attention from Dommes.  you really will get more with honey than with vinegar.

As for your original post, Personally I do not offer to "take care of your needs".  It is a submissive's job to take care of Mine.  What the sub receives from Me is specific to the particular submissive and something that is discovered through proper service to Me and after the sub has proven her/his worth.  This works for ME and Mine; it may not be what works for anyone else.

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ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

One of the many things that I have to offer that perfect sub I want to collar is:

...the wisdom not to take too seriously the occasional flippant, sarcastic post. 

You know, like this one.

TexasMaam

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ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion

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ORIGINAL: Real0ne

Based on this paragraph alone it would seem that you harbor a great deal of bitterness from poor choices that YOU made. Your choice to involve yourself with manipulative gold-digger types has tainted your view to the point that you are unable to conceive that many people can & have blissful existence within their D/s, M/s or BDSM relationships.  

I AGREE WITH YOU!!!

(in reply to MstrssPassion)

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ORIGINAL: FLsubmalecd

To your thread question realone.
I can only tell you that the perfect Domme is the one that is perfect for me. She wil not be perfect for you or anyone else. We are all so different that it makes this thing you ask about impossiible to answer. So ask yourself, "what is the perfect Domme for me"? It won't be the one that is perfect for me, just perfect for you.
For me, it all starts with love. Without love I can not and will not give my total submision. They say that submision is a gift to give to your Domme. I agree! But her domination of me is also a gift she gives back. Like it has already been said here. It's a two way street. I have to love her and respect her first. She has to love and respect me second. Without those two ingredients,, there is no relationship. As far as the house, the car and the cost of living goes, I would surely let her control that. She will have my money to help us live in the way she sees fit. But I was not born yesterday, she will not have everything in her name to leave me out in the cold when and if the relationship fails. That part of the relationship is no different then any vanilla relationship. Only a fool would let a Domme or anyone for that matter have that much control as to cause you to have nothing in the end.
Be wise enough to know the heart and soul of that Domme before you give her that much control. Beyond that, it comes down to trust. Trust but with eyes wide open.
I know for me, it may take forever to find my perfect Domme. I will not setle for less. But before and above all, she has to earn my submission by first showing me that she has a heart and soul and is human. She has to want and need love along with the D/s or she is not perfect for me.