MistressOfGa
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A D/s relationship, is just like a regular vanilla relationship. It will have its ups and downs, but if you can find the will to apologize to the other, and the heart to forgive, you'll overcome great obsticles in life. Things like that, build trust over time. I don't agree. In a vanilla relationship, I do not have the power to take anything away from my "spouse" or "boyfriend". All we could do was argue about this, as he has not given me that power. That is what makes it a vaniila relationship. In a D/s relationship, he gives me the power to make decisions based on his well being and the health of our dynamic. If my sub goes off and disobeys a direct order, knowing the consequences of his disobedience, then yes, he will get exactly what he gave me the power to do. Take his things away from him. Or punish him the way I see fit. quote:
A good Domme would tell him, to return the game to the store, offer to help coach him through the next dental visit, and go with him. Once he soldiers through it, give him a present: the game he wanted. Now WHY, would the Domme buy a present for the sub? Even after all this crap? Think on it for a while. =) No, this sounds like something a good wife might do. But a "Good Domme" would do exactly as she said she would do if he disobeyed her again. An even better Domina would release him. He obviously does not want to be in a D/s or M/s dynamic, if he can not seem to obey his Mistress or Owner. quote:
When i returned i told Her that i felt She had made an already bad day a lot worse, and that i was under the impression that today wasn't going to be an SM day anyway because i was having a medical procedure What does the bold part mean? SM day? Please explain. In any case, my response to this, is that I would most certainly release you. I don't want to be in a dynamic where I am fighting against my boy. It shouldnt have to be this difficult to get your own boy to do what you have asked or ordered him to do, or not do. There are too many out there, who would be willing to take his place in my life. MoGa
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