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RE: Male bashing - 6/24/2010 9:35:43 PM

marshalp

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ORIGINAL: Lockit
Now if someone is complaining about it, feels slighted and presents it as a bunch of hen's cackling and isn't willing to walk away... I would see that as someone not too harmed by it all and maybe one light in a dark and dim mess of women cackling might get a notice. lol And maybe a do me because it's the only action in town.

LOL... maybe all three, actually i do have a thick skin & am not too much affected by it, & i am sending covert messages to the group about whats happening there... & yes, it's a small town & that's the only action, so please, "do me"

, i have my needs too, right?

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ORIGINAL: MarcEsadrian
How are the males being "picked on"? More detail would be good to have.

Like "You're a guy, you're always wrong", "You'll surely take his side", Actually no matter what they say, it'll be taken as an offense, for e.g. there was this guy who just added his agreement to one girl complementing another, they jumped on him for 'shallow flattery'... & so on.... there are many other things which will take a lot to explain here.

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ORIGINAL: Lockit
Let me ask this. How many have gone to suggest some changes or with a complaint on how things are looking in a group and gotten eaten alive? Messengers often get slayed.

I was the only one who vouched this topic... got a bad response, "you should be understanding"... & the statements made above... Well I've spoken to one other sub male & he's started to distance himself from the group, Doms, just interact with their sub only... there is no community for the males.
Wow, this is becoming a sob story... to be honest it's not as bad as i am making it sound... just that's the feeling i get.

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RE: Male bashing - 6/24/2010 10:44:36 PM

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woman1: ... and then this guy sent me an IM. OMG!! Don't these idiots know we all realize he has a penis. I mean, I don't need to see a close up of it.

woman2: Totally!! I had the exact same BS from some other guy last week and another this week. The worst part is that they get offended if you tell them how stupid it is to send dick shots. What a bunch of morons. Sometimes I swear there is something defective about that entire side of the species.

YOU: I totally know what you mean. I was talking to a good friend the other day and all she had to say was negative, crappy things. ... and ya know, now that I think about it, she's always negative. ... is always putting her friends down and talking trash about them. It's amazing anyone wants to talk to her at all. In fact I think I'm just not going to put up with it anymore. If a friend of mine starts talking trash about me ... well, I'm just going to get up from my seat and move to the other end of the table. *poignant star at both women and then get up and move to the other end of the table*

Just a thought on how the OP might handle the situation.

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RE: Male bashing - 6/25/2010 3:27:41 AM

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But in my observations over the years, I think men are assholes

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I feel the same way about a large group of girls in a Bar. The more you put together the more total bitch like they all become.

Don't you think this is behaving like 7 year olds "boys are assholes & girls are bitches"... Are people that different with respect to their gender when it comes to behavior or meanness??? I would doubt so.

There really is such a thing as mob mentality. It's been documented.

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RE: Male bashing - 6/25/2010 4:26:33 AM

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Wow! I was going to take this seriously until I realized that it was from online discussions that the poster is criticizing. *shakes head* What a waste of time to dwell on. Now if it was real life, I would smile at the group and then go out back and remove all the air out of at least one of their tires on all their vehicles. See how fast they male bash then when it comes to getting their vehicles up and moving so they can go home!

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RE: Male bashing - 6/25/2010 5:22:12 AM

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Heck, I didn't see that. Read the full thread nexttime, idiot! *sigh*

oh well... hmmmm... does mob mentality still work online? hmmmm interesting idea.
(because I don't have *enough* stuff to research)

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RE: Male bashing - 6/25/2010 6:23:13 AM

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Wow! I was going to take this seriously until I realized that it was from online discussions that the poster is criticizing. *shakes head* What a waste of time to dwell on. Now if it was real life, I would smile at the group and then go out back and remove all the air out of at least one of their tires on all their vehicles. See how fast they male bash then when it comes to getting their vehicles up and moving so they can go home!

Yeah. There's a good way of handling conflicts. Resort to some juvenile behavior. You assume that a Dominant woman has no ability to change a tire or call Triple A.

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RE: Male bashing - 6/25/2010 7:05:50 AM

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LP I did not read it that way, nor did the poster imply that in my position.

Walking out to find you have a flat tire is an annoyance no matter your gender, I think that poster figured it would be a good way at getting back at nasty comments, I think it is a good way to be a Prat, personally I try not to resort to Prat like behavior.

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RE: Male bashing - 6/25/2010 7:10:00 AM

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Oh, I didn't think you would AQSM. Though it does bring a question to mind........

Just how long would a woman have to wait by the side of the road while wearing a corset, leather skirt, and boots?

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RE: Male bashing - 6/25/2010 7:13:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Oh, I didn't think you would AQSM. Though it does bring a question to mind........

Just how long would a woman have to wait by the side of the road while wearing a corset, leather skirt, and boots?

Depends on how busy the cops are that night, I'd have thought . . .

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RE: Male bashing - 6/25/2010 7:15:31 AM

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Well if that is how you want to handle the flat tire... I usually just drive it to the nearest gas station and put air back in the tire.

But I get your point... not all Domiant Females have the same charm you do though LP.

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RE: Male bashing - 6/25/2010 7:15:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Oh, I didn't think you would AQSM. Though it does bring a question to mind........

Just how long would a woman have to wait by the side of the road while wearing a corset, leather skirt, and boots?

& thanks for that lovely image...

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RE: Male bashing - 6/25/2010 7:19:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: AQuietSimpleMan

Well if that is how you want to handle the flat tire... I usually just drive it to the nearest gas station and put air back in the tire.

But I get your point... not all Domiant Females have the same charm you do though LP.

QSM

I never get a flat within easy driving distance of a gas station! Always in the ice, on the side of the highway, or some damn thing. Always change the tire, too, and have to get the bad one repaired. Amazing, the things that get into tires.

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There IS a mob mentality that takes over even the smart and well behaved.

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RE: Male bashing - 6/25/2010 7:38:12 AM

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I have stupid kids in the neighborhood who like to clip the Tire Stems so they slow leak and eventually break off without you realizing it has been done till a few days later.

Thank you for recognizing Mob Mentality, I notice it a lot and try really hard not to judge, I dislike it personally but like you said sometimes people need to vent, sadly when they vent, it often is presented in such a way that tends to paint some as being petty and judgemental rather than pointing out specific things that pother them about specific people.

I try to be a Lone Wolf myself, without a pack I am free of much of the Pack Mentality that can easily become singular thinking.

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RE: Male bashing - 6/25/2010 9:01:42 AM

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ORIGINAL: marshalp

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ORIGINAL: MarcEsadrian
How are the males being "picked on"? More detail would be good to have.

Like "You're a guy, you're always wrong", "You'll surely take his side", Actually no matter what they say, it'll be taken as an offense, for e.g. there was this guy who just added his agreement to one girl complementing another, they jumped on him for 'shallow flattery'... & so on.... there are many other things which will take a lot to explain here.

Sounds like a network worth leaving. Then again, excessively picking on the boys might be "a thing" among the females. It reminds me somewhat of De Sade's "ever at his elbow, who is always wrong, always at fault" excerpt, only with a misandrous twist.

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RE: Male bashing - 6/25/2010 2:28:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: diamonddiego

Wow! I was going to take this seriously until I realized that it was from online discussions that the poster is criticizing. *shakes head* What a waste of time to dwell on. Now if it was real life, I would smile at the group and then go out back and remove all the air out of at least one of their tires on all their vehicles. See how fast they male bash then when it comes to getting their vehicles up and moving so they can go home!

Yeah. There's a good way of handling conflicts. Resort to some juvenile behavior. You assume that a Dominant woman has no ability to change a tire or call Triple A.

And your assuming that I am assuming that a dominant woman has no ability to change a tire or call triple A. Thats a lot of assumption going on there. And btw, I used to work for AAA and I can tell you that the vast majority of roadside service assistants are male. So do you think this same group of 'dominant' (hah) women are going to verbally bash the most likely male, roadside service assistant when he gets there? Hell no! They will be very grateful for him! As for women changing flats, yes I have seen them do it before. Will all women? Hell no! The vast bulk of them will be on the phone to their most likely male friend or friends husband or even AAA to come lend them a hand and help them out.

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RE: Male bashing - 6/25/2010 2:43:32 PM

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Someone who creates a need so that he can supply it, to prove a point or anything else, won't be treated well by me.

Before I was allowed to drive I had to learn basic car repair, tire changing and rotation, emergency tricks to get it moving on a dark lonely road and know how to use a tire iron and I don't mean on the car. I worked on all my cars from the first one until the last couple of years and even rewired one.

One man decided to touch my car. To this day he remembers what I did to him, he laughs but he wasn't laughing at the time. My mom just stood with her mouth open not believing how I kicked his ass.

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RE: Male bashing - 6/25/2010 2:46:15 PM

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And this, exactly, has what to do with the original?

It seems to Me that the issue would be related to the women of a particular BDSM group having things to say about Dominant and/or submissive males that they encounter. It wouldn't effect the situation a bit if they had a spouse, friend, or Triple A change the tire. That's not who they are complaining about. It's like saying the folks at the bank suck, so let's lump in the baker, too.

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RE: Male bashing - 6/25/2010 9:42:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: marshalp

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ORIGINAL: LadyCimarron
You need to speak with the host or hostess of the group

Actually this observation is in online discussions (on fetlife & collarme), but yes the effect is spilled over in real meetings too.
BTW thanks for the advice, i think i shall soon speak to the hostess.

Could you turn your computer off maybe?

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RE: Male bashing - 6/26/2010 4:57:19 AM

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ORIGINAL: wandersalone

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ORIGINAL: marshalp

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ORIGINAL: LadyCimarron
You need to speak with the host or hostess of the group

Actually this observation is in online discussions (on fetlife & collarme), but yes the effect is spilled over in real meetings too.
BTW thanks for the advice, i think i shall soon speak to the hostess.

Could you turn your computer off maybe?

I'm sorry, Didn't quite got what you're trying to say...

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RE: Male bashing - 6/26/2010 7:30:41 AM

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I'm sorry, Didn't quite got what you're trying to say...

My comment about turning the computer off was in answer to the part of your frustration that dealt with online forums. My personal opinion is simply that if I ever find myself getting frustrating by words on a screen (and yes that does happen) then it is time for me to turn off my computer and interact with the world outside my computer for a while.

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