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RE: The Image that is Given - 7/1/2010 12:49:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

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Perhaps we can make it on topic.....

Uhmmmmm, shameless and worthless image promotion by trying to show how cool we are because we hang out and know one another personally??

Or is that stretching it a bit too thin?

What image are you trying to project here? Merc has paid for hotel rooms to host CM get togethers, he has probably met more people from CM than anyone else, what is wrong with taking joy in that? I once drove almost two hours to meet SunshineMiss when she had a stop in SF. Doesn't make me cool and none of us have ever claimed otherwise. So please explain how any of that is "shameless" if you would.

The image I try and project is as best I can, one that is truly "me". I am a no-nonsense guy, I hold myself to at least as high a standard as I hold others, I do my best to teach from a place of humility and have probably written more about my mistakes and issues than many posting in this thread have about their virtues. I love deeply and passionately when I do and have no trouble speaking my mind and owning the consequences. I am abrasive and I own that too but I feel that it is tempered by my willingness to be open and vulnerable here and expose myself to the same sort of microscope I focus on others.

Clearly some appreciate that and others don't.

I think you're taking her statement here too seriously, I think she was being facetious. It'll be ok, I promise.

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RE: The Image that is Given - 7/1/2010 1:29:19 PM

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I have been known to hold a mirror up to people

Try turning it around and perhaps you'll do better interacting with others.

EDITED TO ADD:
Seeing that I missed the last few entries and VAA's position - I extend an entire olive tree to ALL! This is me; "pointing out the obvious".

Michael - if that was a shot at Icarys it was done with a silencer as far as I was concerned.
Icarys - If you are ever in the neighborhood - I'd love to meet you. Who knows - in a few years you too can be considered for your own "Robe of Consideration" from the 'House of Merc'. Our 'House Bottom' and and 'Tribute Submissive', if she wants to 'out' herself, will tell you how much that means.

Lighten Up People - HAVE FUN!

I do hold it up and can even at times see a dual reflection..That of my own and that of the another person and can see the similarities in our collective faces.

BTW if the last part was sincerity maybe one day I could make it that way. I've been told by people I trust that you and beth are great people.

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RE: The Image that is Given - 7/1/2010 1:33:04 PM

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Usually if I want to actually figure something out I hit someone's mailbox and I have done that with KoM, LP, KC and others. Not because I have some belief that they are perfect, quite the contrary. I know they know they aren't and readily admit it.

just for the record..... I AM PERFECT!!!!!!!

I'm not, but I'm pretty damn close!!!!! Seriously, possibly because of "our years" in the lifestyle, we have had the chance to learn, just like life, the more knowledge we have, the more we know we have to still acquire.

I agree, it is always a never-ending process. It is nice to have people that will actually hear what you are saying rather than imposing their own beliefs and agenda on your questions though in that process. Thanks KC!

*smooch*

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RE: The Image that is Given - 7/1/2010 1:40:29 PM

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BTW Michael, a "glimpse" is just a tease Michael - four days was not enough of those "glorious" people. You know that coffee table book of us we're so proud of? They took the photos, put together the layout, and published for us.

beth and I MISS you guys!

This is RC

We miss you too! And seeing you might be closer to coming together than we first thought!
We should get those images from the book on your flickr site, then everyone can catch a 'glimpse'!

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RE: The Image that is Given - 7/1/2010 4:56:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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I like you find these kind of approaches "manipulate, insincere... and most importantly... Weak!

Not everyone that does this is weak...Hell I forget who said this just days ago but it's a well known poster...She mentioned that she emailed a Dom when she first started posting because she was afraid of how the Dom tore people to shreds(I'm sure it was DG)...Maybe she WAS weak but she doesn't come off that way now.

Ummmm..Wrong on both counts. Was NOT Domi!! Never been weak.

Well welll...Uhh the first one was a bit of a jest...

Well... Ok then.. Just so we're clear!

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The second I did mispeak..What I should have said is "Maybe she WAS in your mind weak but she doesn't come off that way now." Though we do all have weak moments I suppose thats not being weak in general..So your moment was weak...Surely being a tough cookie didn't come to you straight outta the womb.

Never said I was a "tough cookie" either... I'm just a (hopefully!) stable, regular person. Like many though, I have my insecurities and one is them is that I feel a bit intimidated in new surroundings/situations.
So when I decided to start posting here 3 years ago, I contacted SimplyMichael before I ever posted and made "nice". I realized immediately from reading his writings that he was an incredibly insightful person. I wouldn't have ever written to him to begin with if he wasn't, regardless of the fact that he intimidated the hell out of me...

Thank goodness I did!

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RE: The Image that is Given - 7/1/2010 4:57:24 PM

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I like you find these kind of approaches "manipulate, insincere... and most importantly... Weak!

Not everyone that does this is weak...Hell I forget who said this just days ago but it's a well known poster...She mentioned that she emailed a Dom when she first started posting because she was afraid of how the Dom tore people to shreds(I'm sure it was DG)...Maybe she WAS weak but she doesn't come off that way now.

Ummmm..Wrong on both counts. Was NOT Domi!! Never been weak.

She contacted me and begged for my collar.

Domi! I'd never do that to Jeffff!!

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RE: The Image that is Given - 7/1/2010 4:59:01 PM

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Bless you!

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RE: The Image that is Given - 7/1/2010 5:00:39 PM

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Grabs a chair, a cold beer, and settles in to watch, hoping to catch a glimpse of that most glorious creature in action.

What's funny about this entire thread from this post on, is that everyone seems to be bumping into each other with their own interpretation of what this sentence means!

Don't you think?

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RE: The Image that is Given - 7/1/2010 5:03:06 PM

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I thought your message was real men don't wear mandals or capris

I read that as "real men don't wear mandals or capes"

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RE: The Image that is Given - 7/1/2010 5:05:23 PM

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ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

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Grabs a chair, a cold beer, and settles in to watch, hoping to catch a glimpse of that moist glorious creature in action.

What's funny about this entire thread from this post on, is that everyone seems to be bumping into each other with their own interpretation of what this sentence means!

Don't you think?

I thought he was talking about you...You are moist, righto?

I am an internet prick.

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RE: The Image that is Given - 7/1/2010 5:08:56 PM

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I thought your message was real men don't wear mandals or capris

I read that as "real men don't wear mandals or capes"

Hey, now, what about Superman? Batman? There's some other guys I can't think of their names right now, but they wear capes, too.

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RE: The Image that is Given - 7/1/2010 5:09:27 PM

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Pfffft! OK fine then! I wasn't talking about you guys.. I meant, umm.. People who didn't know we had a relationship. That's it. That's the ticket!

DORKS!

Edited cuz I just saw Domi wrote moist... double dork!!

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RE: The Image that is Given - 7/1/2010 5:09:46 PM

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I thought your message was real men don't wear mandals or capris

I read that as "real men don't wear mandals or capes"

Well sad to say I've seen a few men wear capes.. doesn't make it right

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RE: The Image that is Given - 7/1/2010 5:11:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: divi

I thought your message was real men don't wear mandals or capris

I read that as "real men don't wear mandals or capes"

Hey, now, what about Superman? Batman? There's some other guys I can't think of their names right now, but they wear capes, too.

The other ones who you don't know there names still live at home in their parents basements

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RE: The Image that is Given - 7/1/2010 5:11:23 PM

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Well sad to say I've seen a few men wear capes.. doesn't make it right

My little brother used to wear a cape.

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RE: The Image that is Given - 7/1/2010 5:15:45 PM

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Well sad to say I've seen a few men wear capes.. doesn't make it right

My little brother used to wear a cape.

So did I *blushes* But they were in style at the time.

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RE: The Image that is Given - 7/1/2010 5:17:01 PM

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So did I *blushes* But they were in style at the time.

When did that happen?

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RE: The Image that is Given - 7/1/2010 5:19:28 PM

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A man in a cape:

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RE: The Image that is Given - 7/1/2010 5:22:27 PM

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Who would of thought a thread could be so off topic, yet dead on at the same time?

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RE: The Image that is Given - 7/1/2010 5:22:53 PM

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So did I *blushes* But they were in style at the time.

When did that happen?

I've been trying to think.....I think I was...hmmm certainly in Grade School.....OH! and I had a really cool black velvet one when I was in my late teens.

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