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RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" - 7/10/2010 6:56:16 AM   
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I don't care who posts where. Hell, I post on the ask a slave forum periodically. Strangely enough though, I can't remember ever posting in the ask a mistress section. Course, me not being a mistress and all, I don't peek in that corner of the old CM often.
Frankly I don't care who posts where about what. It's the net, it's wide open. The only rule I care about is the one that says if someone posts something asinine that deserves to be ridiculed, I get to make fun of it as much as I want.





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RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" - 7/10/2010 8:27:54 AM   
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I see nowt wrong with people garnering a plethora of offered opinions. If the reply is not from a master then the inquisitor is free to ignore/cursory glance.  Though this may be problematic if no M/D partake in advice.  Which i very much doubt shall ever be the case here.

So the answer to your question Op is i dont mind.

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RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" - 7/10/2010 12:59:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt

Gentlemen-
Seeing frequent posts from Dommes in this category has me wondering...how do you feel about female dominants inserting their opinions in your Ask A Master forum? 

Best,
MDA



I'm a fan of people posting anywhere irrespective of the label.

In the event it's interesting....then the background doesn't matter.....and where it's useless you just swerve it. Easy.

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RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" - 7/10/2010 2:53:55 PM   
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I know that I post in the Mistress forum.  I think the forum is more about the sort of question asked than the sort of people answering.

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RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" - 7/10/2010 4:51:55 PM   
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Not a problem for me at all as long as they don't mind us posting in Ask A Mistress if we choose to. 

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RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" - 7/10/2010 6:48:48 PM   
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Not at all, Imus.  We'd actually like to see more male Dominants there!

IB, I can't imagine why anyone would tell you such a thing.  I can promise that you'll receive no such reception from Me.  I'm not saying I haven't seen certain posters do that.  Usually, it's during the heat of debate and they have no better leg on to defend their position that to say, "well you're not a <insert here>" so the comment has no merit.  You won't find many female Dominants very tolerant of those who pull the "you're not a Mistress" card.

I'm just another poster like everyone else, but as far as I'm concerned, you gentlemen are welcome on the Mistress board anytime.


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RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" - 7/10/2010 8:52:39 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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As far as I'm concerned, you gentlemen are welcome on the Mistress board anytime.



Do we need to curtsey first? That might be a limit.

For what it's worth, I have posted in the International House of Mistresses and it's not so scary. As others have said, sometimes the topics are not quite as relevant for whatever wisdom or snark I might be feeling that day, but the same can be said for any number of threads in the General or Master categories. I think if there is something very relevant that others can derive thoughtfulness or humor from, it matters not where the source might be.

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RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" - 7/10/2010 9:12:33 PM   
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i guess i'm just rude and obnoxious. lol i go all over this site and post everywhere, regardless of which forum it's in. At first it bothered me, but not anymore.

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RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" - 7/11/2010 2:45:49 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

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i guess i'm just rude and obnoxious. lol i go all over this site and post everywhere, regardless of which forum it's in. At first it bothered me, but not anymore.


You should be spanked you naughty girl!

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RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" - 7/11/2010 6:59:10 AM   
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quote:

Have you also noticed that responses also come from switches, subs and slaves? The categories are not necessarily existing to indicate who is expected to answer, but more as a way of determining where to place a question.

Anyone can post a question or response regardless of what side of the kneel they might fall on.


Kind of defeats the point, though, doesn't it.

Even just mentioning the issue here before has resulted in a small flurry of "I can post anywhere I want you're not the boss of me you're not a twue master" responses. So, sigh, and it's why I don't take the section seriously or visit often.

Personally, I think it's a matter of respect and self-discipline. I almost never post in the Mistress, switch, or sub/slaves sections, precisely because I think it's reasonable to recognize those boundaries, contributing rarely when there's something to add, but mainly honoring that people posted there specifically to hear what Dommes have to say.

Clearly others disagree. But without the constraints of the banks and shores, lakes and rivers would all be swamps.

Welcome to Swamp Askamaster.


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RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" - 7/11/2010 8:32:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

Personally, I think it's a matter of respect and self-discipline. I almost never post in the Mistress, switch, or sub/slaves sections, precisely because I think it's reasonable to recognize those boundaries, contributing rarely when there's something to add, but mainly honoring that people posted there specifically to hear what Dommes have to say.


Musicmystery,

I disagree. I think it's a matter of someone getting their knickers in a knot and making a big stink about something that management has clearly indicated isn't set in stone. And if we're really adhering to the chain of command and being respectful as stated, there's nothing left to debate. What I find most interesting is how it is both disrespectful and a lack of self-discipline when the parties complaining are neither site owners, volunteers, or investors. And if the powers that be don't take issue with the subject, I'd gather those utilizing the service shouldn't either.

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RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" - 7/11/2010 8:33:37 AM   
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And I don't think anyone has knotted knickers for noting the point.

I wonder how people would react if Politics and Religion roamed throughout the boards.

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RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" - 7/11/2010 9:26:38 AM   
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RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" - 7/11/2010 9:33:58 AM   
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*lol* oh how cute!

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RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" - 7/11/2010 9:36:11 AM   
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aldompdx

Please tell me that was a tongue and cheek post.

If not I will point out that the flaw in your argument.

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SECTION GUIDELINES - ASK A MASTER:
This section is open to those wishing to ask questions of a Master, in the hope of receiving answers from that particular perspective.
Experienced Masters are also encouraged to share their advice and knowledge regardless of if a question has been asked to prompt response. If you (Masters) know the topic to be something that is often on the minds of newer people, or a subject you have found in your experience to be beneficial to address, feel free to take the initiative and open the discussion yourself.


As I read the above highlighted portion it is a section for people to post their questions for those who identify as masters and in the HOPE that masters reply. It does not state that ONLY those with male genitalia that identify as masters are the only ones allowed to post here.


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I hereby serve notice and invoke binding arbitration in resolution of any conflict arising from this notice and request, and the imposition of stipulated damages in the amount of US$50,000 pursuant to TOS 7.3.7.



I will also ask if you are so insecure and skeered of other opinions that you have to even threaten arbitration. I would actually LOVE to see you attempt to take this into the courts.

< Message edited by DaddysInkedSlut -- 7/11/2010 9:46:45 AM >


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RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" - 7/11/2010 9:39:27 AM   
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I received My Master's Cap in April of 2008.  I qualify.


Edited because I wanted to add a little something.


I realize that a lot of folks on this site are not familiar with leather protocols.  It might be something of interest to you as one of the cultures that is a part of the BDSM world.  We are not like Goreans or supremacists of either gender.  It's actually the leather folks who specify that gender, as well as sexual orientation, are not what dictates the title of Master.  In fact, according to protocol, it is the years spent living this lifestyle that determines whether one leather person is senior to another or not. 

Granted, that is not always how it was.  If this was four decades ago, before protocols had changed, those clinging to the genitalia definition of the word might have been right.  However, progression of a culture doesn't stop just because some people want to cling to the old.  Instead, it was recognized that women were just as qualified to own slaves as their male counterparts and they ran M/s dynamics just as successfully.  There are a good number of women out there who have earned their leathers and are absolutely more competent Masters than random folks who cross this screen who have labeled themselves "master" because they are male, but have never had their collar on anyone.

There may not be many leather folks who post often on the boards these days, but we have just as much right to our definition of Master as any other group out there involved in BDSM.  If any Master out there can't handle the opinion of a female and the only leg they have to stand on is that she doesn't have a dick, I'm afraid I'd just have to tell them that isn't much of a valid argument.


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RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" - 7/11/2010 9:40:50 AM   
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They've yet to kick me out of the Mistress Forum, or even the Sub Forum, two things I'm not. Sooooooo, yeah. ;)

But, seriously, I love it. Gives some perspective that I may have not seen nor thought of before. If I'm seeking advice, I'm often seeking as much (good) advice as possible. I don't mind if it comes from a Master, Mistress, S-type, Little green men from mars or Anteaters.

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RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" - 7/11/2010 10:42:28 AM   
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By the way, that forum guideline does not once define the term Master as male.

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RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" - 7/11/2010 11:25:04 AM   
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Can I ask why the fuck it matters? If you really only want the DOM MALE HAVE A PENIS MASTERS then ONLY read those replies.

I ask questions all the time and ignore replies from those who aren't answering the question but what they think the question implies.

It's not hard.

Penis = Read
Penis = Read
Boobs = Pass
Boobs = Pass

Or you can be a Grown Up and take information from all sides and see how your question is viewed by everyone.

I am a Dom, I know how I feel, but that is MY feeling Not all Masters Feelings, Not all Mens feelings... So when I get Input I need to get it from ALL places.

Who cares who posts?

I think it is people who want to control people even on a Cyber Medium and I think those who Squack Loudest are those who like to push those limits of control either trying to control others (I didn't ask you) or those who think not posting means they are being controled (I can post where I want and so I am posting here to show you have no control over me)

It's Silly.

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RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" - 7/11/2010 11:34:44 AM   
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*lol* oh how cute!


If you find wet cats cute. I just thought "oh, how unfortunate."

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