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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 2:12:08 AM   
Gromgor


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Status: offline 		My point was that they're not looking for what they're claiming to look for and it's obvious.

Why am I even arguing this with people with 12,000+ posts. You clearly have less going on in your lives do and I don't have the time to waste.

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 2:12:49 AM   
sunshinemiss


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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: myotherself

so it's wrong to want a monogamous, committed relationship in which two people love each other and STILL do BDSM?

Who knew?


I tried to tell you!!!

(So... can we spank the bunny now? Maybe really fast before Val and I have to split up to preserve the idea of non-committed BDSM relationships?)


Hey... does that mean Valyrean is available for some noncommitted fun.... *checks flights...  (Do I have time to snag both of them... hmmmm conundrum)

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 2:13:25 AM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: DarlingSavage

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Woohoo - spank me now!!! *boingboingboing*

Just don't tell me afterwards that you loves me.

That would be...wrong!


But what about the aftercare? 



I think I can only tell her I love her if I'm lying to her.

I mean, I'm not a top, how hard can aftercare be? I usually just wanna curl up and be left alone so I can just throw her some juice and blanket and leave her alone right?

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 2:13:41 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Well I don't know... this guy sounds pretty typical for a lot of the males around here. They want a one night stand kink style.

What the fuck dude? Your way or the highway? It's not real if it isn't what you think it should be? We all just get out there and beat some ass, tie people up, fucky fuck and call it a night? We have no depth, character, other needs or desires... just fuck me up and fuck me! Yeah hardy har har... tough guy.

This site serves as a place for many different people to do many different things. Personally you would consider me vanilla all the way and one you would want off this site... but guess what? I have been here for years and will most likely be here for years whether I am with someone or not. And until the owner or the mods decide I need to go elsewhere... you are shit outta luck.

Now bend over and I will show you how vanilla I am.


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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 2:13:45 AM   
DarlingSavage


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Status: offline 		I can't give you anything but love, baby
It's the one thing I got plenty of, baby
Just dream a while
Scream a while
You're sure fine!


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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 2:15:53 AM   
myotherself


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ORIGINAL: Gromgor

My point was that they're not looking for what they're claiming to look for and it's obvious.

Why am I even arguing this with people with 12,000+ posts. You clearly have less going on in your lives do and I don't have the time to waste.



You are just SOOO adorable when you get all miffed!

Sweet boy

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 2:17:27 AM   
DarlingSavage


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Status: offline 		I just want to hold the bunny!

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 2:18:13 AM   
myotherself


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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub


I mean, I'm not a top, how hard can aftercare be? I usually just wanna curl up and be left alone so I can just throw her some juice and blanket and leave her alone right?



...don't forget the fifty quid...

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 2:18:19 AM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Gromgor

My point was that they're not looking for what they're claiming to look for and it's obvious.

Why am I even arguing this with people with 12,000+ posts. You clearly have less going on in your lives do and I don't have the time to waste.




Ooo ooo! Let's use post count in debate - cause it would be truly awful to use something like sound arguments!

Seriously, I have 12,891 posts (not counting this one) and I joined in '05. Divide that by 365 and it's 35.32. Divide that by 5, since I joined five years ago, and, if I did the math right, I have an average posting rate of seven posts a day.

*le gasp* Surely I must spend all my time on the computer to make those seven posts!

It's been very hard on me...

And Sunny, it does appear that Val is now in the market for noncommitted fun. I suggest telling him you like the swords and just brace yourself. It'll be fun, I promise.

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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 2:19:26 AM   
myotherself


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ORIGINAL: DarlingSavage

I just want to hold the bunny!


Is that a euphemism?

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 2:20:23 AM   
DarlingSavage


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Status: offline 		Diamond bracelets Woolworth's doesn't sell

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 2:20:53 AM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself


quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub


I mean, I'm not a top, how hard can aftercare be? I usually just wanna curl up and be left alone so I can just throw her some juice and blanket and leave her alone right?



...don't forget the fifty quid...


Sad to say, I don't know what that translates into for dollars. Is it about 20 bucks? I can throw in homemade beer and wine to make up the difference.

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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

Member:Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 2:23:25 AM   
DarlingSavage


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ORIGINAL: myotherself


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarlingSavage

I just want to hold the bunny!


Is that a euphemism?


No, just honesty in action, the bunny wabbit is SO CUTE, I just want to hold her and pet her and squeeze her and call her George!


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Strangers have the BEST candy!

Puppy dogs are my favorite people!


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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 2:25:56 AM   
myotherself


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ORIGINAL: DarlingSavage


No, just honesty in action, the bunny wabbit is SO CUTE, I just want to hold her and pet her and squeeze her and call her George!




EEEEKKKK!!!!

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 2:26:09 AM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		Hey... the bunny lives in my cleavage. I called dibs forever ago.

However, petting rights can be negiotated.

(Go with me on this one, MOS, I'll make sure we both come out ahead!)

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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

Member:Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 2:26:39 AM   
lally2


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Gromgor

My point was that they're not looking for what they're claiming to look for and it's obvious.

Why am I even arguing this with people with 12,000+ posts. You clearly have less going on in your lives do and I don't have the time to waste.



you also state in youre profile that youre a sadist more than a Dominant - depending on how much of one you are, there is a high chance youre going to find it hard to find play partners who are up to youre game - doesnt mean their making false claims, they just dont wish to be tortured by you on a casual basis.


< Message edited by lally2 -- 7/11/2010 2:29:46 AM >

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 2:27:28 AM   
DarlingSavage


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Status: offline 		I'm going to pet the bunny!  I'm gonna love her up REAL good!  I'm gonna hold her and kiss her and squeeze her! 

You're everything a big bad wolf could want!   OOOOOWWWWWwwww!


< Message edited by DarlingSavage -- 7/11/2010 2:29:48 AM >

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Strangers have the BEST candy!

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 2:29:09 AM   
myotherself


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Status: offline 		hmmmm...the lovely green lady has a point!

You are now officially my manager...just be careful that you specify EXACTLY what you mean by 'petting' rights. I has standards, yanno! Actually, I have a price

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 2:29:28 AM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		Phft, do you think the protective powers of mah boobies will fail? These are surgically enchanced boobies! Specially modified to protect little bunnies!


Ok actually I've just had a breast reduction and had them pierced but that's close enough right?

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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

Member:Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 2:30:58 AM   
myotherself


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Status: offline 		HELL YES!!!

I love pierced nipples...and other things...sigh.

Maybe one day the bunny will get the needle..yummy!!!

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