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RE: Request made for wearing high heels - 8/2/2010 5:50:46 PM   
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RE: Request made for wearing high heels - 8/2/2010 6:00:59 PM   
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I have talked to several Doms as of late that have made requests for me to wear high heels on a regular basis.   Stelettos to be exact.  (For some reason these guys don't like block or wedge styles)  And preferrably over three inches.  Now I do wear heels now and then, but most are wedge styles as they tend to feel better and more comfortable on my feet, and also heels lower in inches,( one to two inches.)  I was wondering if any other submissives have had this request and have adapted wearing shoes like this to their owners preference. 
The problem I have with it, is that most steletto type heels over 3 inches tend to KILL my feet after wearing them for a while.  So much so that it is all I can think about is how much my feet hurt and then I lose focus upon everything else.  Does any other sub have problems with wearing these types of shoes? 


OMG!  I wouldn't  be caught DEAD wearing wedgies!  Beauty knows NO pain!  I couldn't imagine living life WITHOUT stiletto heels!  I MUST have beautiful shoes to wear! 

Steve Madden:





Actually, these ain't shit next to my other shoes.  What did I ever see in these beyond the designer name?


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RE: Request made for wearing high heels - 8/2/2010 8:06:54 PM   
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I just wear heels in my bedroom lol...

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RE: Request made for wearing high heels - 8/2/2010 10:14:48 PM   
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I just wear heels in my bedroom lol...

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RE: Request made for wearing high heels - 8/3/2010 12:18:43 AM   
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This is a really cute thread. I havent read it all, I seem to miss many threads and come in on the tail end maybe if at all.

If you want to wear heels Aerosole makes cuter and cuter shoes. They are not too expensive. I find I can go much longer in their heels than I can in other brands with a similar style. A friend of mine buys them then barely rarely wears them then gives them to me. I just got two 'new' pairs. Granted they arent stiletto's which are stiletto's, but they are heels and give you that look of being in heels with less height but still a cute heel and shoe.

They usta be a more dowdy company but they are doing some cool stuff too.

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RE: Request made for wearing high heels - 8/3/2010 12:52:19 AM   
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Aerosole
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ORIGINAL: divi

I just wear heels in my bedroom lol...


When the going gets tough, the tough put on some fucking high heels and go out and get schnockered.


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RE: Request made for wearing high heels - 8/3/2010 3:55:18 AM   
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I don't wear heels. Because of my condition I can sit in them and stand in them for a short time but walking is nearly physically impossible and could potentially be dangerous. I NEED NEED NEED NEED ARCH SUPPORT!!
I've only worn heels once to a ball. And they were the widest heels I could find on shoes small enough to fit my feet.
I would prefer boots that go beyond my ankles but I would need a satanic ritual to find one of those. Apparently it is completely normal to be dangerously anorexic and if you actually have a calf muscle (which you pretty much depend on to even stand up) then there is something wrong with you.

So if I was a sub: "Are you giving me these stilletos to wear for the rest of my life? Thanks. Here is a gift in return: Here's my collar." Fair trade. I mean how low does a mans IQ level have to be to look at my feet and suddenly decide that I should be wearing stilettos?

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RE: Request made for wearing high heels - 8/3/2010 6:14:01 AM   
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[Major edit to remove overreaction]

- Personally, the idea of doing something that might cause my partner lasting harm horrifies me, but as others have pointed out - high heel wearing isn't exactly "out there" in terms of risk.

I would say, though, that if a partner really did suffer in high heels - I'd take the view that only a jackass would make her wear them often.



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RE: Request made for wearing high heels - 8/3/2010 6:50:53 AM   
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Oh god when my partner says he wants to see me dressed up......even hints he likes high heels...I pull out the stops!

A full make up, red lipstick, chandelier ear rings, corset, frilly panties, suspenders, seamed stockings and glace kid black high heels.
Any thing outside that is dependent upon his request before the event.

I have an extensive collection of costumes and lingerie...my man will never be bored.

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RE: Request made for wearing high heels - 8/3/2010 7:14:15 AM   
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quote:

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I just wear heels in my bedroom lol...

Then you are not real nor true,...report for reeducation camp immediately

My hooker  heels go from the closet to my bed to the floor and back to the closet..
I live in UGGS, flip flops, ballerina flats and sneakers to the gym.  When I do have to dress up I will wear heels and complain the whole night that my feet hurt.

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RE: Request made for wearing high heels - 8/3/2010 7:15:24 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DarlingSavage

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Aerosole
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ORIGINAL: divi

I just wear heels in my bedroom lol...


When the going gets tough, the tough put on some fucking high heels and go out and get schnockered.



DS you wear them well.  I think I'd break an ankle in your shoes lol

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RE: Request made for wearing high heels - 8/3/2010 7:33:13 AM   
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When I do have to dress up I will wear heels and complain the whole night that my feet hurt.


Better than me, I've been known to fall off of them and have been seriously injured.


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RE: Request made for wearing high heels - 8/3/2010 8:21:24 AM   
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ORIGINAL: divi

quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania


quote:

ORIGINAL: divi

I just wear heels in my bedroom lol...

Then you are not real nor true,...report for reeducation camp immediately

My hooker  heels go from the closet to my bed to the floor and back to the closet..
I live in UGGS, flip flops, ballerina flats and sneakers to the gym.  When I do have to dress up I will wear heels and complain the whole night that my feet hurt.


I wear short heels. If I wear a 2 inch heel I am suddenly 6 feet tall...

I do have fantasies about wearing a 6 inch heel to a fet club just because it would be fun to be a 6 foot 4 amazon for an evening...

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RE: Request made for wearing high heels - 8/3/2010 9:54:38 AM   
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A European woman told me a good tip to walking in heels which is to bend your knees ever so slightly, it gives you more balance and helps them not hurt so much.

We could have a pajama party and divi could wear her heels!

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RE: Request made for wearing high heels - 8/3/2010 11:43:55 AM   
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But WAIT!  There's MORE!  bebe over the knee boots:








Now, these are fucking hot!

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RE: Request made for wearing high heels - 8/3/2010 3:25:44 PM   
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Damn just got new shoes today! 5 inches of hot irresponsible foot wrecking sexy! :)  




Wore them all day, and they were a good 5 inches of heel, and not one bit of pain. Love it :)



Damn you Aynne. I am so jealous. I used to wear shoes like that and now, it could only be inside. You must have looked hot, girl!



Oh sexy one, lol...you look hot in whatever you wear ;) I miss you!

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RE: Request made for wearing high heels - 8/3/2010 10:04:34 PM   
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Those are nice ..

I was just asked to be a bridemaid in my cousins wedding ... and all I can think of is damn I have to wear heels.. blahhhhhhhh

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RE: Request made for wearing high heels - 8/4/2010 4:08:32 PM   
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Hi everyone...I am the chiropractor that Wyld spoke of.   

Speaking as a man and as a dominant, I LOVE high heels.  They do wonders for the appearance of most women's calves and ass and they can make almost any outfit look better.  That said...

They can also cause:  spinal problems (I know, trust me...I've seen enough of them in 27 yrs of practice), especially at the L4 - L5 -S1 junctions, stress fractures of the feet, bunions (because of the increase in weight borne by the balls of the feet), varicose veins, problems at the knee joint (tends to wind up hyperextended due to the "throwing" of the body forward), instability of the ankle (non-supportive in many types of heels and because of the lessening of the weight put upon the ankle.  Instead of the ankle area acting as a weight-bearing joint, it ends up acting as a stabilizing joint.  While the ankle is geared to do both, it is not geared to do one more than the other).  These are just some of the problems.

That said...I love high heels.  But I advise my patients and would advise my submissive to wear them with informed caution.

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RE: Request made for wearing high heels - 8/5/2010 2:24:54 AM   
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A European woman told me a good tip to walking in heels which is to bend your knees ever so slightly, it gives you more balance and helps them not hurt so much.



Yes here in Europe we tend to bend our knees when we walk... i did for a while follow this trend to walk with stick legs and found it very hard to do, it was very hard on my hips swinging my stiff limbs sideways in an effort to move forward... it did not look right good either, i gave up on it

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RE: Request made for wearing high heels - 8/8/2010 12:06:53 AM   
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Because not every woman hates wearing heels, obviously, or the High heel  shoe business would go out of business, and because some women, even if they hate the discomfort of the shoe, will wear them because they think the shoe is sexy, fabulous, or just because they're submissive and their dom told them to.


Nah, there'd still be all us trannies (and we'd still be shaking our heads at all the fuss)


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