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NaturallySubi -> Oral only submissives (8/9/2010 8:17:03 AM)

Hi All/all,

I know there already was a discussion about if can a slave have penetration sex with a Lady.
So this subject is not "to have penetration or not" but rather this is about your experiences and thoughts with the "oral only sex" in the relationship.

I am just wondering if there are many Ladies who have sub only to serve them orally without penetration, or wants to have...

I think this has many advantages for a Lady, like no need to take pills, can enjoy the sex for a long time, etc...

Obviuosly, the sub would also do all the other service for Lady, like housework etc...




LadyPact -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/9/2010 8:28:41 AM)

Can't say that I do.  I won't collar someone if I don't have full use of them.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/9/2010 8:52:20 AM)

I don't like oral sex. So, no.




Ambyant -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/9/2010 9:46:24 AM)

My part time clean up boy has a wikked tongue. his other appendage is so small I have brought in friends to laugh at it.
he never knows when or to what use his tongue (I named it Mr Pointy) will be put. Just that it is never from a request from him, coz he knows better.
I'd say, not often at all - maybe once a quarter. if I feel his other chores have been exemplorary. I do take photos and compare it.
I'm pleased iwith his service right now, as he has just gone to My home and brought breakfast and coffee to My Primary after taking care of the Subaru in preparation of My Wednesday return from China.


^too many typoes at midnight thirty^




Domtaur -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/9/2010 9:49:21 AM)

A woman that doesnt like ORAL SEX...Cant be...say it aint so




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/9/2010 9:52:38 AM)

Hate it. Total waste of My time.




Dnomyar -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/9/2010 6:28:19 PM)

LH. How is it a waste of time? Guess Im going to have to change my dreams of you. Thats not fair.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/9/2010 6:39:19 PM)

Get to know Me, Rayray! :)




Tantriqu -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/9/2010 7:21:36 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: NaturallySubi



I am just wondering if there are many Ladies who have sub only to serve them orally without penetration, or wants to have...

I think this has many advantages for a Lady, like no need to take pills, can enjoy the sex for a long time, etc...

Obviuosly, the sub would also do all the other service for Lady, like housework etc...


Yep.
Totally.
Exclusively OSODD. Mmm mmm mmm. No one gets pregnant, no one gets bladder infections, and Richter-8/Force 10/Spinal tap 11 orgasms, gair-ron-teed.
It's up to the individual sub if he wishes strapon training: [and yes, they ALL do]




LadyNTrainer -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/9/2010 9:59:47 PM)

No.  If he's not a hot stud who is good for fucking, then I'm not interested in collaring and owning him.  I might have a completely nonsexual and more casual D/s play relationship with such a submissive if we were otherwise compatible, but it would a) not include oral sex and b) be very much secondary to what I have with my collared partners.

Because our health is a major concern, there is no way that any of us would have unprotected sexual contact including oral outside the relationship.  Unless I'm in a committed relationship of trust with someone, to the point that I am very sure that I know their sexual history and tested health status and the same for every one of their current partners as well, no contact of that nature is happening. 




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/10/2010 6:23:26 AM)

What's OSODD?




LadyConstanze -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/10/2010 6:49:45 AM)

Everybody will have a different preference, wouldn't be mine...




servantforuse -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/10/2010 7:32:33 PM)

OSODD...Oral Service On Doms Demand.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/10/2010 7:50:23 PM)

LOL! Thanks, I would never have figured that. Nor would I see the need for an acronym--isn't any service on the dom's demand?




dreamerdreaming -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/10/2010 11:37:26 PM)

Nope.

Oral sex is sex, so STD's are still a risk. I would never, ever in a million years feel safe enough to relax, enough to get off with oral sex- with someone that I wouldn't also have unprotected vaginal (or anal) sex with. So its all or nothing, there.

It would be much safer, and get me off A LOT better, to have a finger-fuck only servant.




DerangedUnit -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/10/2010 11:48:48 PM)

ummm you can get the same things on your fingers that you can orally (well not syphilis) but herpes yes it is possible just not as likely but then oral genital herpes isn't very likely anyways.




dreamerdreaming -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/11/2010 12:21:59 AM)

That's what gloves are for, silly! [:)]




Lockit -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/11/2010 8:51:31 AM)

Oral sex is a good time to play... I'm not interested and this book is far more interesting. (At least in my mind, that's about what most oral sex workers are worth.) They always think that tongue is gods greatest gift sexually and I have found few who made me feel it was a gift. Those that do, it really is a gift! Yet, most believe it is more of a gift than they can actually provide.

There isn't much worse than a guy who thinks he is all that, between your legs making funny noises, breathing funny, acting like he is giving you some 'good stuff baby' and not knowing what the fuck to do. He's happy, but I just want to grab him by the head and push him away and actually... I have... when I said stop and they decided I really wanted more of that 'good stuff'.

The guy who talks about oral as if it is the best of sex for a woman and then talks about doing it for hours... omg... get the fuck back, you will never get near my clit or pussy. If it takes hours... you're doing something wrong. If you are good at it and come back for more during an all nighter... oh yeah... but if someone wants to lay there licking up, it is typically for them that they want this, not for me.

So do I want only an oral boy who does my dishes? No, never, not in this lifetime.

If a man cannot get it up... there are other things that can take place or not, but oral wouldn't be it in my case. Would I have him and let him do whatever he could do... sure. I wouldn't only want a man for sex. But oral doesn't make up for something they may feel is lost and they have to make up for it. I wouldn't want someone to feel like that.

I also wouldn't want to hurt someone's feelings about oral and me. I am not emotionally cruel. But if it's all that important to them... they need to be good at it or be able to learn to be good at it without being insecure in the learning process or find a different woman.




LadyConstanze -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/11/2010 9:28:01 AM)

Agreed, there is nothing wrong with oral and/or genital sex, but it's something I want in a relationship, with my partner, not a guy who does my dishes, sorry...

What makes me laugh are guys who are on about "forced oral worship" and how they are open about it and being "punished" this way, hell, if going down on me is considered a punishment, I'm not really interested in the guy anyway. Why do the guys have to pretend it is a BDSM thing? Why not just say "I'm into eating pussy, I'll even do the dishes and clean up if you let me..." No woman wants a guy she has to "force" to go down on her, ffs, some of the guys who like it have no clue how to do it, so a guy who would need to be forced, ewww, no thanks. I hate to break it to the slaves, but vanilla guys do it without being forced, it really isn't a thing where we need special slaves for...




curbisub -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/11/2010 10:11:27 AM)

I think I'm good at giving a female oral sex. I do know if I give oral sex to a male, I suck at it. As for penetration sex with a female, I'd want to be wearing 1 of those hollow vac-u-lock cocks that my penis would fit into, that way my penis would NEVER touch the female.




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