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Lockit -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/11/2010 10:15:07 AM)

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ORIGINAL: curbisub

I think I'm good at giving a female oral sex. I do know if I give oral sex to a male, I suck at it. As for penetration sex with a female, I'd want to be wearing 1 of those hollow vac-u-lock cocks that my penis would fit into, that way my penis would NEVER touch the female.


You will give good oral with your tongue but won't let your cock touch the female? Why?




KurtAllen -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/11/2010 11:28:31 AM)

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so a guy who would need to be forced, ewww, no thanks


The scariest and most humiliating time in my life was the first time I let a girl put her mouth around my penis.
I still do it today because the girls get so much pleasure from it, especially those over 45 and I think it’s important
to make girls feel like they have a purpose and can succeed even if they gag a few times learning to deep gullet.




Lockit -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/11/2010 11:33:50 AM)

KurtAllen, whatever you are doing here in the mistress section... it isn't working. We can only be offended if you matter, which you don't. You are always saying things that you hope will degrade women but basically, you only degrade yourself.

Anyone who needs a purpose and finds purpose in sucking a cock, didn't have much life to start with. Sure... a good time can be had... sure there is a purpose in it, but a woman especially over 45 that needs purpose isn't going to find it in sucking your cock. Doesn't say much for the gal's you've been seeing or imagine.




KurtAllen -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/11/2010 11:43:45 AM)

Locket, you flatter yourself, offended how is that even a remote possibility with a female like yourself? Your words reveal you girlie.




Lockit -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/11/2010 11:52:08 AM)

One doesn't have to be offended to call someone on something silly they are doing.




LadyConstanze -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/11/2010 1:09:32 PM)

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ORIGINAL: KurtAllen

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so a guy who would need to be forced, ewww, no thanks


The scariest and most humiliating time in my life was the first time I let a girl put her mouth around my penis.
I still do it today because the girls get so much pleasure from it, especially those over 45 and I think it’s important
to make girls feel like they have a purpose and can succeed even if they gag a few times learning to deep gullet.



Nice try, I doubt I'll be interested in your member when I hit 45, if so, please will somebody kill me before I really get so desperate...

But if you wait 45 years, you might have a chance with me, you can dig me out then, depending on when I snuffed it, I might be nice and soft, and possibly a bit "off"




pogo4pres -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/11/2010 1:10:59 PM)

Don't know if I really should post a reply here, but I'll risk it any way.  I am one of the guys that finds I enjoy giving oral more than receiving it. Having said that I don't know if I really am great at it, but I try do do the things I remember reading in "lesbian-erotica", and if those things do not seem to be working I lift my frigging head up and ASK.  Guys it is really that god damned simple ASK, she knows far better than you do what makes her feel good.  Oh and when you get an answer, do not say "well books say...blah blah blah"....just fucking DO WHAT SHE SAYS.   I now politely beg forgiveness from all the Domme's, for interjecting my self into this thread.


Begging Forgiveness,
Some Knucklehead in NJ




Lockit -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/11/2010 1:44:46 PM)

Pogo4pres, anyone is allowed to post anywhere on the boards. Feel free to post!




travisaj1986 -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/11/2010 2:27:13 PM)

So...

Im pretty new to this site, but thought I would try my hand at taking part in the discussion boards, since it appears that it is a good place to interact with people who are "real" for all intents and purposes. In regards to the oral only slave, being submissive I think that at least for me, if that is what she wanted, I could be very happy with that. That being said, inevitably imo it would probably lead to other things. This is of course based on my limited experience within the D/s lifestyle. I would be happy either way as getting yourself off while pleasing her orally is it's own level of heaven for me [:)]

My thoughts for what they are worth





hardbodysub -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/11/2010 3:12:58 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Hate it. Total waste of My time.


Sounds like you never had anybody do it right!




wittynamehere -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/11/2010 3:15:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
Can't say that I do.  I won't collar someone if I don't have full use of them.

You missed his point. He asked if anyone would have use for a submissive that is oral only, not if LadyPact requires penis.




LadyPact -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/11/2010 3:15:45 PM)

I wanted to expand a bit on My earlier answer.  I may not have been fair in being so quick.

When I first got clip, it was not an arrangement that involved sexual service.  This was actually at his preference and I honestly didn't mind.  In most cases, the sexual part is going to be one of the later points in the dynamic anyway.  I've never been much of a 'sex just for fun' person.  I prefer emotional attachment.  It doesn't have to be the 'in love' type, but there has to be something there.  I'm just not that much of a casual sex kind of gal.

If I happened across someone again who had a legitimate reason that he wanted intercourse as a hard limit, I wouldn't especially have an issue with that, but I most likely wouldn't want the oral sex.  I can do perfectly well in a non-sexual arrangement (I have in the past) but that means I'm not going to look at that person in an intimate way.  It's not that I can't work within someone's limits.  At the same time, My own have to be respected as well.




wittynamehere -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/11/2010 3:19:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lockit
KurtAllen, whatever you are doing here in the mistress section...


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ORIGINAL: Lockit
Pogo4pres, anyone is allowed to post anywhere on the boards. Feel free to post!

This was a pretty good laugh, thank you! And only two hours in between, a complete 180 in opinion! :D




Lockit -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/11/2010 7:35:45 PM)

Well wittynamehere, you didn't see what the two were saying connected to what I said. One is always disrespecting women in some manner and the other was simply joining in with the discussion. Before you get high on the laughter of what you think I was doing, you might understand what I did.




KurtAllen -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/12/2010 4:42:06 AM)

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One doesn't have to be offended to call someone on something silly they are doing.

Silly is a gross understatement, ridiculous wouldn’t describe it either nor is it any more or less ridiculous and silly then your constant comments of males being incompetent, inadequate and incapable of rational thought or logical decisions.
Just as is your nonsense when spouting off about men wrapped around your finder without the ability to recognize the head game you are playing with them. Then you follow it with whining about not being involved with emotional attachments in a loving caring and sharing manner. All you are really saying is you have destroyed your ability to touch emotion in yourself and others and failed miserably in your attempt to cover your deficiencies with sarcasm.
You go on and on and on with preposterous claims of dominance that by their very nature have absolutely nothing at all to do with dominance and are at best expressions of your own selfish self-centeredness and lack of humanism. Locket, when you speak of silly, look first to yourself.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/12/2010 8:44:20 AM)

KurtAllen, it's true that anyone is welcome to post here, regardless of orientation. What I wonder is, WHY do men like you bother to come here when you have nothing good to say? If you don't like it here, leave. If you don't like a certain poster's commentary, use that HIDE button.

I hear so much commentary from those new to the boards about how rude, crass, and mean spirited the regulars are. I can only look to posters like you and wonder what they are talking about. It seems that post count has nothing to do with good nature.




Lockit -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/12/2010 10:14:44 AM)

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ORIGINAL: KurtAllen

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One doesn't have to be offended to call someone on something silly they are doing.

Silly is a gross understatement, ridiculous wouldn’t describe it either nor is it any more or less ridiculous and silly then your constant comments of males being incompetent, inadequate and incapable of rational thought or logical decisions.
Just as is your nonsense when spouting off about men wrapped around your finder without the ability to recognize the head game you are playing with them. Then you follow it with whining about not being involved with emotional attachments in a loving caring and sharing manner. All you are really saying is you have destroyed your ability to touch emotion in yourself and others and failed miserably in your attempt to cover your deficiencies with sarcasm.
You go on and on and on with preposterous claims of dominance that by their very nature have absolutely nothing at all to do with dominance and are at best expressions of your own selfish self-centeredness and lack of humanism. Locket, when you speak of silly, look first to yourself.


LOL You have surely twisted a number of things. I do believe you enjoy twisting things and stirring up trouble. So you won't get a whole lot from me.

You have no clue what you are talking about. There isn't a grain of truth in anything you just said.




Dnomyar -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/12/2010 7:55:20 PM)

What about oral only Dom's?




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/12/2010 8:00:32 PM)

Rayray you teasemonster!




LadyConstanze -> RE: Oral only submissives (8/13/2010 4:32:18 AM)


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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Hate it. Total waste of My time.


Sounds like you never had anybody do it right!


Sounds to me like the argument that lesbians just need "a real man who'd do it right" and then they'd all see the light...

Not everything is to everybody's liking, most people like chocolates, I loath them... Is there something wrong with me? Do I just need the "right chocolate" to become a chocoholic?




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