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RE: If There Were Fewer Drive By's - 8/16/2010 3:40:28 PM

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Remember that hide function that was mentioned earlier? You really don't have to rabbit on about how much you dislike LP, or think of us as being whiners. Just HIDE.

Or, perhaps add someting like starting a thread on femdom relationships? Because we like to talk abou that on the Mistress forum.

How about you hide..It's not my style.

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RE: If There Were Fewer Drive By's - 8/16/2010 3:42:38 PM

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I really have no idea how to keep the Goreans in their own zone. I miss Aswad posting here, he had useful insights to contribute, but why come here just to say Wow I'm glad you're not in on OUR side of the fence!

Play the victim card..and for the record..Goreans are welcome to go where they like as well or do you believe in exclusion?

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RE: If There Were Fewer Drive By's - 8/16/2010 3:43:01 PM

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Didn't we just go through all of that?

Which is why I was surprised to see LH bring it up. Only to back away and reverse herself again.

It's a strange world here on CM, to be sure!

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RE: If There Were Fewer Drive By's - 8/16/2010 3:44:37 PM

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Didn't we just go through all of that?

Which is why I was surprised to see LH bring it up. Only to back away and reverse herself again.

It's a strange world here on CM, to be sure!

It's typical as I'm sure you know.

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RE: If There Were Fewer Drive By's - 8/16/2010 3:46:26 PM

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Didn't we just go through all of that?

Which is why I was surprised to see LH bring it up. Only to back away and reverse herself again.

It's a strange world here on CM, to be sure!

*I* did not bring it up, LadyPact did. I rarely venture into the Master forum. I welcome your presence here, Musicmystery, even if you are only here to shit and walk away. Your words remain as your marker.

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RE: If There Were Fewer Drive By's - 8/16/2010 3:48:05 PM

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*I* did not bring it up, LadyPact did. I rarely venture into the Master forum. I welcome your presence here, Musicmystery, even if you are only here to shit and walk away. Your words remain as your marker.

Aww poor soul on the Island of Misfits.

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RE: If There Were Fewer Drive By's - 8/16/2010 3:48:14 PM

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I even quoted you when I asked the question.

Sorry you see shit. Can't help you there.

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RE: If There Were Fewer Drive By's - 8/16/2010 3:55:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: Icarys
As if this is LPme.com or something. Your pomposity is what gets you some of the responses you receive.

I was discussing your topic. I was telling you in so many words that it reeks of whining..you just don't like hearing that.

All I can say is thank goodness you aren't the end all of what goes on around here. I'm afraid you wouldn't be able to handle that kind of authoritative responsibility without some oversight.

Carry on.

Yet, there were also responses on the thread who had the same observation. There were other comments as to having noticed the same thing over the years. I may have to read the thread again, but to this point, I believe you are the only one who has misinterpreted My curiosity in that way.

Oh, and I actually do have experience in being the authority of a group board. It went very well during My elected term.

Thankfully, the only person that has to concern themselves these days on the authority responsibility angle is the person collared to Me. I seem to be doing a fair enough job of it in his eyes. I'm sure the one collared to you at present would say the same in your case.

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RE: If There Were Fewer Drive By's - 8/16/2010 4:04:29 PM

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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery
Which is why I was surprised to see LH bring it up. Only to back away and reverse herself again.

It's a strange world here on CM, to be sure!

It's another facet that I'm curious about, MM. I may decide to revisit that on the General board again. When I've done so in the past, I think I've gotten a different result. Is it just a territory thing?

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RE: If There Were Fewer Drive By's - 8/16/2010 4:13:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

I even quoted you when I asked the question.

Is your sarcasm detector *really* that broken? Like, really? Or are you just wilfully misunderstanding?

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RE: If There Were Fewer Drive By's - 8/16/2010 4:14:10 PM

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Thankfully, the only person that has to concern themselves these days on the authority responsibility angle is the person collared to Me. I seem to be doing a fair enough job of it in his eyes. I'm sure the one collared to you at present would say the same in your case.

That's what I think you should be focusing on and less on statements looking down on other posters.

Have you ever heard me say off hand-idly that someones comments weren't worth anything unless they were in turn saying that about mine?

Despite what you may think just because I find fault with something someone says doesn't mean I've written them off as an evil person.

I think your post came off as whining..It's as simple as that. trying to read into it to a degree that in turn has you making remarks that I don't like you is incorrect. (I'd tell you if that were true). I'll tell you like I told sunshine..I don't know you well enough to have formed an opinion on you as a person yet. I may not ever do that entirely because I'd need to meet you and be around you for some time to do that "fairly"

BTW I'm not personally offended by anything negative someone says about me. I'm much more complex than a single sided person. I know you don't know me either although you seem to have formed and opinion on my likes and dislikes regarding you.

I simply just don't like some of the things that you say..nothing personal. You can believe that or not LP..in the end it doesn't matter does it.

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RE: If There Were Fewer Drive By's - 8/16/2010 4:14:23 PM

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OK. Sorry then.

Nice chatting with you.

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RE: If There Were Fewer Drive By's - 8/16/2010 5:00:28 PM

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ORIGINAL: Icarys
That's what I think you should be focusing on and less on statements looking down on other posters.

It is really a combination of the two, if you look at the whole history. (Best term I can think of to describe it.) I'm asking Myself the same questions that I'm asking others. Things like, if the famous "heterosexual males sucking cock" thread came back again/anew today, would I have responded in the same way, even though the board has shifted so much? I'm not especially sure if I know. In the two years or so, the tone has changed on the board and I have changed.

Of course, the same could be said (again) about your own dynamic.

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Have you ever heard me say off hand-idly that someones comments weren't worth anything unless they were in turn saying that about mine?

I couldn't honestly say. It would depend on your view of how people respond to an original post. I don't know how you see the discussion that happens in the middle of a thread when not directly answering the original.

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Despite what you may think just because I find fault with something someone says doesn't mean I've written them off as an evil person.

Evil wouldn't be My interpretation. I don't happen to think everyone that rubs Me the wrong way as 'evil'. With some, it's just a personality clash.

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I think your post came off as whining..It's as simple as that. trying to read into it to a degree that in turn has you making remarks that I don't like you is incorrect. (I'd tell you if that were true). I'll tell you like I told sunshine..I don't know you well enough to have formed an opinion on you as a person yet. I may not ever do that entirely because I'd need to meet you and be around you for some time to do that "fairly"

I don't think at any point I have told you that My belief is that you are not entitled to your interpretation. I have said that I believe it to be singular. I'm not even here to change it.

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BTW I'm not personally offended by anything negative someone says about me. I'm much more complex than a single sided person. I know you don't know me either although you seem to have formed and opinion on my likes and dislikes regarding you.

In the case of this thread in particular, I specifically waited for a period of time to respond to any singular person. This was due to My own semi-formed opinion of My own stance on the matter. If My opinion was going to influence, I wanted that to be as minimal as possible.

Generally, My habit is to respond in kind if I feel there is more of a two way communication going than a general reply. (I actually get more posts pulled because of quoting than anything else.)

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I simply just don't like some of the things that you say..nothing personal. You can believe that or not LP..in the end it doesn't matter does it.

Nobody asked you to like it. At the same time, I do notice that you never answered the original.

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RE: If There Were Fewer Drive By's - 8/16/2010 5:02:39 PM

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ORIGINAL: Twoshoes

Practical solution:

Simply link anyone performing what you would consider a "drive-by" to car porn.

Car porn supersedes the desire for any other kind of porn or means of personal satisfaction.

No one seems to have taken my advice seriously. This stuff displaces any other thoughts of beauty, power or fun in a male mind.

Elegant (European) car porn

Not so elegant car porn.

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RE: If There Were Fewer Drive By's - 8/16/2010 5:10:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: Twoshoes

Practical solution:

Simply link anyone performing what you would consider a "drive-by" to car porn.

Car porn supersedes the desire for any other kind of porn or means of personal satisfaction.

No one seems to have taken my advice seriously. This stuff displaces any other thoughts of beauty, power or fun in a male mind.

Elegant (European) car porn

Not so elegant car porn.

Then, of course, there's redneck car porn

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RE: If There Were Fewer Drive By's - 8/16/2010 5:32:12 PM

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A random post by those who we are not very familiar with on this board who wants to discuss his kinks/wants/sexual desires with the expectation that we will automatically respond even though we don't know him. Also known as wanker posts or some other term where the focus is on what turns on the originator of the thread. Perhaps falling into the "how many of you are into X kink activity" that is discouraged in the Frequently Asked Question section.

I suppose I wouldn't post either..as a matter of fact I don't post and just pass these by as well as most of the sexual banter I see on the boards. I still think having a discussion about "wankers" as you put it(These are still living breathing human beings and we can't be sure why it is some of them do what they do...some MAY be more obvious than others) is silly..Who cares if they are wankers, right?

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In My opinion, I think more of us would. I tend to believe that women talk more openly about the topics of our desires when we feel it is a safe environment to do so. We are more likely to be open about our thoughts when we are in a situation that we know our comments are not going to be exploited in some way. For example, there are some of us that will have a night out with just the gals where we'll talk about some thought or idea that turns us on, but we might not discuss the subject if there is someone that we don't know all that well or if we're in mixed company.

I think if you choose to put your stuff out on a forum to begin with you are buying into all of the possible outcomes with that...but safety just isn't a word I'd use here because you do have a good bit of anonymity if you use your head. If your referring to the "threat" of some "wanker" coming along and hitting you up then I'd say get over it or don't post but don't complain about the way life works. It just aint that big of a deal to worry about..Not that your worried I guess.

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After being a member of this forum for a few years, I think back on some of the threads that we have had in the past on a variety of subjects. I do notice that fewer of us talk about our kinks, etc now than what we used to. Is it the drive by type of threads that have played a part in that change? Do you think it is something else? Is it simply because some of the forum regulars that we used to have are no longer here and the ones that we have now aren't interested in more kink centered discussions? I'd like to hear your thoughts on this.

I don't give things like this much thought but i suppose it's fine if you do.

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RE: If There Were Fewer Drive By's - 8/16/2010 5:39:48 PM

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I don't give things like this much thought but i suppose it's fine if you do.

Your permission is received most gratefully.

(Note, just in case MM's still reading: that was sarcasm.)

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RE: If There Were Fewer Drive By's - 8/16/2010 5:40:44 PM

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I don't give things like this much thought but i suppose it's fine if you do.

Your permission is received most gratefully.

(Note, just in case MM's still reading: that was sarcasm.)

Aren't we clever..Two with one stone.

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RE: If There Were Fewer Drive By's - 8/16/2010 5:45:09 PM

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Well it's like you said before: you don't like some of the things LP posts, and I don't like some of the things you post. I don't like the way you grant approval to things nobody is asking you to approve, for example. You accused her of whining, I made a sarcastic comment to you. How is that different enough to deserve a '

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RE: If There Were Fewer Drive By's - 8/16/2010 5:47:01 PM

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Well it's like you said before: you don't like some of the things LP posts, and I don't like some of the things you post. I don't like the way you grant approval to things nobody is asking you to approve, for example. You accused her of whining, I made a sarcastic comment to you. How is that different enough to deserve a ''?

That was sarcasm.
I did find it a bit clever even if I was being facetious. I thought you had me partly figured out

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