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I'd rather drive a bug, knowing that I'm confident enough in myself that I don't need a penis envy car like a jag to prove something to the rest of the world. But thats just me ... Also, I'd never compare myself to a car ... I'm so much more than the phsyical.

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ORIGINAL: slimsub25

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ORIGINAL: goddessdevi

I prefer the term "financial appreciation". 
if a sub wants free sex he can get it pretty much anywhere. I can get a burger cheap but if I want a perfect steak I gotta put out a little extra.

'financial appreciation'
'tribute'

what i cant understand is why u r so afraid to use the word 'prostitute'.  im not sayin that as a bad thing, just curious as to why all of u without exception will use any words u can think up, but not that one.

if i had sex for money id say i was a prostitute and shout it from the mountains.

dont u just know they will write back with some catty remarks or other words to describe what they do rather than just say 'i have sex for money so yes.  i am a prostitute' 

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ORIGINAL: darq

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ORIGINAL: slimsub25

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ORIGINAL: goddessdevi

I prefer the term "financial appreciation". 
if a sub wants free sex he can get it pretty much anywhere. I can get a burger cheap but if I want a perfect steak I gotta put out a little extra.

'financial appreciation'
'tribute'

what i cant understand is why u r so afraid to use the word 'prostitute'.  im not sayin that as a bad thing, just curious as to why all of u without exception will use any words u can think up, but not that one.

if i had sex for money id say i was a prostitute and shout it from the mountains.

dont u just know they will write back with some catty remarks or other words to describe what they do rather than just say 'i have sex for money so yes.  i am a prostitute' 

OK, if there's actual sex or nudity involved ... Then yes, I'd have to say it was prostitution ...

But any serious professional domina (and I'm not talking about the ones who just like to say they're pros ... I mean the real deal, ladies and gentlemen) will not have sex with her clients. Its unprofessional ... No sex, no relationships.

"Tributed sessions" and the like do not make you a professional domina or even a semi pro as some of you seem to like being called. I'm not sure what it makes you ... Cheap comes to mind. But to each their own ... Obviously there's a market out there willing to pay you, cheap or not.

Slimsub, I understand where you're coming from but please understand that the great majority of professional dominas are way more classy than some of the women you've met here on this forum. They take their profession seriously and follow a certain code of conduct with every client. Most importantly, they are NOT prostitutes ... No more than an exotic dancer is a prostitute.

I do get irked when I see certain individuals try to claim to be something they're not just to make themselves look important. It sickens me even more when I see someone talk about submissives paying for sex and calling that professional domination. Thats utter bullshit. Call it what it is and be proud of it. If you can't be proud of it then maybe you shouldn't be doing it.

With that said, there is a kink known as financial domination. There are some men (and women) who enjoy being used for their money. If you're looking to dominate people like that, I suggest signing up with a group like Nite Flirt. They have special category just for that sort of thing. But please, don't bring it here ... CM specifically prohibits such behavior on their site and while they do not patrol it nearly as well they might, at least they're making some sort of effort.

Too bad more people don't respect the rules. But I guess the rules don't apply to them ...

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ORIGINAL: MichMasochist



I do agree that there is a lot of bullshit here. The Al Bundy type, do me slaves. Let's not forget the otherside of the coin. I want masters and the Peg Bundy dommes who stuff themselves with bonbons, and park themselves on the couch, seeking only no strings service slaves just so they won't hafta do the chores themselves, and most likely haven't been done in a month or two. While the internet is a very poor dating tool I have meet some wonderful, insightful, and intelligent people. Have also meet some jaded lonely and frustrate individuals as well.

I too get irked when I read certain individuals try to claim to be something they're not just to make themselves look important.

As for the rules well, "These rules were made for breaking and that is what I'll do. One of these day I'll break these rules in two."

Boy I haven't ranted in a few days, feel a little better. Now if only I had a woman who would beat me with a cat, face sit me, and make me eat her kitty for several hours. Oh well, I'll settle for my girlfriend who will let me dine on her kitty.

Mich

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ORIGINAL: MichMasochist
I want masters and the Peg Bundy dommes who stuff themselves with bonbons, and park themselves on the couch, seeking only no strings service slaves just so they won't hafta do the chores themselves, and most likely haven't been done in a month or two. While the internet is a very poor dating tool I have meet some wonderful, insightful, and intelligent people. Have also meet some jaded lonely and frustrate individuals as well.

I too get irked when I read certain individuals try to claim to be something they're not just to make themselves look important.
Mich

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ORIGINAL: EbonyFtshGoddess

i find it odd mami the males in the *ask a master* forum.. that SAY they won't turn down a tribute aren't being vilified like tribute/gift accepting dommes are.

hmm. fodder for thought.

even the one that initiated the thread didn't challenge the male doms that said they DO not have a problem with accepting tributes/gifts- yet we're all this or that whore this or that.

hmmm.. methinks i sense a discrepancy.. i just won't comment on that thread because i'm not a master.

still find it amusing.

we're whores because we accept the same things that the males ALSO wouldn't mind taking.

amusing.

i think openminded said it best..

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I don't ask for tribute/anything from a man. I also won't have him in my life unless he treats me in a way that I feel is kind and respectful to me as a woman he wants/needs

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ORIGINAL: MistressLorelei
Personally, I love being a Woman, and will gladly give men the double standards they end up with....  I am thankful when the double standard mentality causes the male to grab the check before I see it; I don't want a door closed in My face; I certainly don't want to mess with the garbage; I like being able to cry in a sad movie without feeling people will think I am a 'sissy'.  Women may not get quite the wages we are entitled to yet... but we have Motherhood, sexy shoes,  pretty panties (though those look good on a male as well); we smell good, we know how to shop, and best of all... we think with the right head.

These are My views and were only meant to offend those without a sense of humor.

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ORIGINAL: MichMasochist

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ORIGINAL: darq

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ORIGINAL: slimsub25

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ORIGINAL: goddessdevi

I prefer the term "financial appreciation". 
if a sub wants free sex he can get it pretty much anywhere. I can get a burger cheap but if I want a perfect steak I gotta put out a little extra.

'financial appreciation'
'tribute'

what i cant understand is why u r so afraid to use the word 'prostitute'.  im not sayin that as a bad thing, just curious as to why all of u without exception will use any words u can think up, but not that one.

if i had sex for money id say i was a prostitute and shout it from the mountains.

dont u just know they will write back with some catty remarks or other words to describe what they do rather than just say 'i have sex for money so yes.  i am a prostitute' 

OK, if there's actual sex or nudity involved ... Then yes, I'd have to say it was prostitution ...

But any serious professional domina (and I'm not talking about the ones who just like to say they're pros ... I mean the real deal, ladies and gentlemen) will not have sex with her clients. Its unprofessional ... No sex, no relationships.

"Tributed sessions" and the like do not make you a professional domina or even a semi pro as some of you seem to like being called. I'm not sure what it makes you ... Cheap comes to mind. But to each their own ... Obviously there's a market out there willing to pay you, cheap or not.

Slimsub, I understand where you're coming from but please understand that the great majority of professional dominas are way more classy than some of the women you've met here on this forum. They take their profession seriously and follow a certain code of conduct with every client. Most importantly, they are NOT prostitutes ... No more than an exotic dancer is a prostitute.

I do get irked when I see certain individuals try to claim to be something they're not just to make themselves look important. It sickens me even more when I see someone talk about submissives paying for sex and calling that professional domination. Thats utter bullshit. Call it what it is and be proud of it. If you can't be proud of it then maybe you shouldn't be doing it.

With that said, there is a kink known as financial domination. There are some men (and women) who enjoy being used for their money. If you're looking to dominate people like that, I suggest signing up with a group like Nite Flirt. They have special category just for that sort of thing. But please, don't bring it here ... CM specifically prohibits such behavior on their site and while they do not patrol it nearly as well they might, at least they're making some sort of effort.

Too bad more people don't respect the rules. But I guess the rules don't apply to them ...

Ah darq did you blow it on this one. I like and have agreed with several of your posts in the past. But this time I must disagree.

Based on personal experience with a couple of pro dommes who have a very sizable dungeon and a large amount of toys. As well as having been in bussiness for a long time. I can truethfully contridict you and say that some professional dommes will offer an extended menu to select long time customers who do tribute them including tipping.

I've posted in other threads that I have worked as bartender in a strip club for two years. While not all exotic dancers prostitute or date a customer, or engage in unlawfull contact during a lap dance. But some most definately do. On numerous occasions my boss, at the time, got a phone call from a person who got herself busted, asking to be bailed out. The ladies do get fined for breaking the house rules. While the club I worked at the ladies were legally defined as comercial tenets, repeated or serious offenses would get her dismissed. Excuse me, the lady would elect to pursue alternative employment options. The typical pricing is definately on the high end to bed a stripper by the way.

I do agree that there is a lot of bullshit here. The Al Bundy type, do me slaves. Let's not forget the otherside of the coin. I want masters and the Peg Bundy dommes who stuff themselves with bonbons, and park themselves on the couch, seeking only no strings service slaves just so they won't hafta do the chores themselves, and most likely haven't been done in a month or two. While the internet is a very poor dating tool I have meet some wonderful, insightful, and intelligent people. Have also meet some jaded lonely and frustrate individuals as well.

I too get irked when I read certain individuals try to claim to be something they're not just to make themselves look important.

As for the rules well, "These rules were made for breaking and that is what I'll do. One of these day I'll break these rules in two."

Boy I haven't ranted in a few days, feel a little better. Now if only I had a woman who would beat me with a cat, face sit me, and make me eat her kitty for several hours. Oh well, I'll settle for my girlfriend who will let me dine on her kitty.

Mich

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ORIGINAL: darq
Just what is wrong with the Bundys anyway? Ya'll target them a lot but you have to admit, they did produce a really hot (if perhaps slightly brainless) daughter ..

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s I recall her brain function always kicked in when she needed it.