thefabmiskat
Posts: 2
Joined: 8/2/2005 Status: offline
|
MistressLorelei, "what they are really looking for is someone to play with them, the way they they like it, when they feel like being played with... nothing more. ... I have been told... "you seem so real, most Dommes here require money to talk to them"). Well, to Me... this translates into 'wow, I finally found a free one'. " Sad but true. I don't prodomme but receive countless emails from male "subs" who want me to do what they want the way they want and then go back to their real lifes without any real connection or friendship, let alone a true D/s relationship. I don't advocate a cash tribute..my primary tribute is spending vanilla time with me before we play, getting to know each other as people first before play. I am skilled, I do have experience, I have a full set of toys and know how to use them. I could easily charge for my services. But I already have a fulfilling day job. If a man is not sincere in his submission, he won't get past the first phone call let alone a meeting. I want him to get to know more and me him before we move into any D/s or SM. Trust takes time to build. ..on both sides. This cuts out the merely horny. At the same time, I have a lot of respect for prodommes. I refer them to the slew of dominant men wanting a woman to fullfill their submissive fantasy. Bah. Good luck.
|