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Elisabella -> How to overcome being easily offended (9/12/2010 4:22:26 PM)

So, there's this mosque being built, and it's offending a lot of people who find it insensitive. Since I can't imagine that being offended is a pleasant state to be in, I've gone and found some links to share:

http://www.ehow.com/how_2078115_overcome-being-easily-offended.html

http://socyberty.com/advice/being-offended-is-a-choice-to-be-a-victim/

I encourage everyone who is offended by the building of an Islamic cultural center near Ground Zero to find some inner strength, try to come to terms with it.

The world doesn't care if your feelings are hurt and refusing to even attempt to move past hurt feelings into acceptance is only hurting yourself.




luckydawg -> RE: How to overcome being easily offended (9/12/2010 5:02:40 PM)

Or is it Islamic groups calling for violence if the center is not built. Or if Mohamed is drawn. Or Islam is mocked.
Or kill filmakers
OR issue death Sentances on authors?

Is there an Arabic translation of your very imformative websites?

Heck yesterday I had posts pulled because others were offended.

Maybe a lot of folks could use your informative links.




AquaticSub -> RE: How to overcome being easily offended (9/12/2010 5:03:53 PM)


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ORIGINAL: luckydawg

Or is it Islamic groups calling for violence if the center is not built. Or if Mohamed is drawn. Or Islam is mocked.
Or kill filmakers
OR issue death Sentances on authors?

Is there an Arabic translation of your very imformative websites?

Heck yesterday I had posts pulled because others were offended.

Maybe a lot of folks could use your informative links.


What they said....




Elisabella -> RE: How to overcome being easily offended (9/12/2010 5:07:23 PM)


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ORIGINAL: luckydawg

Or is it Islamic groups calling for violence if the center is not built. Or if Mohamed is drawn. Or Islam is mocked.
Or kill filmakers
OR issue death Sentances on authors?

Is there an Arabic translation of your very imformative websites?

Heck yesterday I had posts pulled because others were offended.

Maybe a lot of folks could use your informative links.


Your taking offense to any of this does absolutely nothing to fix it.

Consider getting involved/donating money to charities working to end human rights violations in the middle east.




luckydawg -> RE: How to overcome being easily offended (9/12/2010 5:14:19 PM)

Where do you see me being offended?

What does the thousands of book burning Muslims in England (salaman Rushdie) or the murdered Dutch Filmmaker have to do with Human rights violations in the Mideast?




Jeffff -> RE: How to overcome being easily offended (9/12/2010 5:20:33 PM)

You were offended yesterday. The posts were pulled so I can't quote them.

It was about the chances of being killed in a terrorist incident.

Once again dog, disingenuous.






popeye1250 -> RE: How to overcome being easily offended (9/12/2010 6:08:21 PM)

LOL, I saw this title and thought you were doing an *intervention* for the lefties!




Jeffff -> RE: How to overcome being easily offended (9/12/2010 6:09:21 PM)

HAHAHAHA.. ok... THAT was funny.




Elisabella -> RE: How to overcome being easily offended (9/12/2010 6:54:10 PM)


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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

LOL, I saw this title and thought you were doing an *intervention* for the lefties!


Ha, I'll say it to anyone having a sook and thinking that their taking offense to something actually fucking matters.




Elisabella -> RE: How to overcome being easily offended (9/12/2010 6:56:14 PM)


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ORIGINAL: luckydawg

What does the thousands of book burning Muslims in England (salaman Rushdie) or the murdered Dutch Filmmaker have to do with Human rights violations in the Mideast?


My mistake, I thought you were concerned with the middle east.

What sort of solutions do you think you can get involved in to help these causes that mean so much to you?




Aneirin -> RE: How to overcome being easily offended (9/12/2010 6:57:11 PM)

More an more I am seeing people being easily offended, could this be down to a rise in pure intolerance. If it is intolerance, then it says lots about people who call themselves civilised.




popeye1250 -> RE: How to overcome being easily offended (9/12/2010 7:12:20 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Aneirin

More an more I am seeing people being easily offended, could this be down to a rise in pure intolerance. If it is intolerance, then it says lots about people who call themselves civilised.


Oh Jeese, Aneirin, don't try to tell the lefties that they're,....."intolerant!" You'll never hear the end of it!
It's "their way or the highway!"




Elisabella -> RE: How to overcome being easily offended (9/12/2010 7:15:36 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Aneirin

More an more I am seeing people being easily offended, could this be down to a rise in pure intolerance. If it is intolerance, then it says lots about people who call themselves civilised.


I think it's more about selfishness than intolerance, I really have no problem with people who get offended easily, but I do have a problem with people who think that taking offense to something should mean that others pander to their delicate feelings.

"I'm offended" should be a simple statement of fact, not a call to arms.




popeye1250 -> RE: How to overcome being easily offended (9/12/2010 8:13:04 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Elisabella


quote:

ORIGINAL: Aneirin

More an more I am seeing people being easily offended, could this be down to a rise in pure intolerance. If it is intolerance, then it says lots about people who call themselves civilised.


I think it's more about selfishness than intolerance, I really have no problem with people who get offended easily, but I do have a problem with people who think that taking offense to something should mean that others pander to their delicate feelings.

"I'm offended" should be a simple statement of fact, not a call to arms.


Elis, I agree. And they also use it to try to control people and stiffle thought!




willbeurdaddy -> RE: How to overcome being easily offended (9/12/2010 8:20:58 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Elisabella

So, there's this mosque being built, and it's offending a lot of people who find it insensitive. Since I can't imagine that being offended is a pleasant state to be in, I've gone and found some links to share:

http://www.ehow.com/how_2078115_overcome-being-easily-offended.html

http://socyberty.com/advice/being-offended-is-a-choice-to-be-a-victim/

I encourage everyone who is offended by the building of an Islamic cultural center near Ground Zero to find some inner strength, try to come to terms with it.

The world doesn't care if your feelings are hurt and refusing to even attempt to move past hurt feelings into acceptance is only hurting yourself.



And the world doesnt give a flying fuck what Elisabella thinks about people who are offended by any number of things. Everyone is at one time or another, including you. Get off the pulpit before you fall off it and injure yourself.




AnimusRex -> RE: How to overcome being easily offended (9/12/2010 8:24:41 PM)

For a bunch of macho manly men, conservatives sure spend a lot of time wailing about their fee fees being hurt.




Jeffff -> RE: How to overcome being easily offended (9/12/2010 8:25:39 PM)

Careful with that, you can be seven six three'd in a heartbeat!




Kirata -> RE: How to overcome being easily offended (9/12/2010 10:24:51 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Careful with that, you can be seven six three'd in a heartbeat!

You mean made to not exist? We can do that?? Kewl [:D]

K.




tazzygirl -> RE: How to overcome being easily offended (9/12/2010 10:33:13 PM)

Try to come to terms with it....

Hmmm... would you have said that to the abolitionists who felt it was wrong to own another human being?




Elisabella -> RE: How to overcome being easily offended (9/12/2010 11:51:18 PM)


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ORIGINAL: willbeurdaddy
And the world doesnt give a flying fuck what Elisabella thinks about people who are offended by any number of things. Everyone is at one time or another, including you. Get off the pulpit before you fall off it and injure yourself.


Oh yes I admit I'm often offended by things. That's why I posted this. I try to work through my feelings internally, and it really does help me move past hurt feelings into acceptance.




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