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RE: fakes and phonies - 9/13/2010 9:38:33 AM

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Just out of curiousity, how much is it? I know some dating sites can be pricey.

He said it was $160 just to sign up then there were monthly fee as well.

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RE: fakes and phonies - 9/13/2010 9:42:42 AM

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Just out of curiousity, how much is it? I know some dating sites can be pricey.

He said it was $160 just to sign up then there were monthly fee as well.

~stef

That does seem rich.... but then again, if one isn't getting their needs met and they refuse to just be out in the open... what is the price of scratching one's itch discreetly?

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RE: fakes and phonies - 9/13/2010 9:45:29 AM

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Strangely enough, I'm finding it hard to locate any sympathy for those folks.

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RE: fakes and phonies - 9/13/2010 9:46:08 AM

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I am a married man looking for discreet daytime bondage play!

I can see what the problem here is. You are married so you don't have the time or the patience to sift through profiles.
I sympathize.

Hey OP...try this thread, possible match made in bondage heaven:

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3402047/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#3402416

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RE: fakes and phonies - 9/13/2010 9:48:35 AM

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I am in no way condemning pro dominatrix's, just saying why should someone have to resort to them when there are so many others into the scene available who don't charge! Just because they are married and looking outside the marriage! I knew as soon as I made this post there would be people posting just to toss disrespect and judgment out to make themselves feel more important than they really are!

You mean like you are doing, right? Irony is such a bitch.

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RE: fakes and phonies - 9/13/2010 9:51:37 AM

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Why is it you think the mods should sort thru all the crappy profiles? You're the one looking, so,um, gee......LOOK!

The mods have enough to do with dealing with the whiney little trolls.....

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RE: fakes and phonies - 9/13/2010 9:51:49 AM

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He said it was $160 just to sign up then there were monthly fee as well.

~stef

He's full of it. I got curious and made a profile for free. Then you buy credits that let you send the first message to someone. Any messages after the first one are free. You can buy 100 credits for 50 bucks. There isn't a monthly fee.

No wonder he's having problems finding people to play with...

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RE: fakes and phonies - 9/13/2010 9:54:10 AM

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OP, welcome to collarme.

Suspect that you're getting about the same number of fake profiles as I do. The difference is that I am single and unencumbered, and get a response to some of my messages to legitimate women.

I do have to say that I'm impressed with your cojones, complaining that this free site doesn't make it easy enough for you to cheat on your wife

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RE: fakes and phonies - 9/13/2010 9:56:52 AM

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That might not fit the bill if you are looking for say, FUCKING with your rope... but given the increased populariity of shibari, etc, I think that you should google, or use that... informedconsent.com (?) site that they have in the UK. That is, if you are interested in BONDAGE.

Thankfully the OP is not a Brit (profile says Florida). We already have our full quota of cheating, cheap-ass whiners over here

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RE: fakes and phonies - 9/13/2010 9:58:04 AM

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I replied to an obvious f er wait dont say the f word here
hello Master I am very intersted in you again from Ghana
my reply was as follows answer this question and I will know if your a fake (oops I said it) or not.....

If you had a Donkey
And I had a Rooster
And your Donkey ae one of the leggs off my Rooster
What would you have

the reply came back that how insightful
and intelligent the question was
that she would have to ponder it
and get back to me...........
la la la la blah blah blah

which is pure BS cause the answer to the question is
You would have a foot of my cock in your ass

no fakes here huh??

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RE: fakes and phonies - 9/13/2010 10:02:49 AM

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what does being married have to do with anything, There are profiles listing their home close to my home and yet they are out of the states. that's where my beef is. My being married is another concern all on it's own, i get told not interested by 90% of the legitimate profiles because I'm married and my wige doesn't participate! Sure i can go pay a prostitute for B&D sex but why should I, just because my wife isn't into it! Why do people have to be so hung up on someone looking outside their marriage for sexual satisfaction if their spouse isn't satisfying their needs!

You know, I can really relate to your frustration. I don't get as upset as you seem to be, but I do understand the off day I have when my email is filled with fake husbands playing a phony part with their spouse and filling my email box with their frustration, impatience and need to get some on the side. They fail to show any respect and treat me and other women who did nothing to them as if we are a side show there for the pickings because we must be sluttier than their wives, put out and don't ask for anything but a little time to play online or in a cheap motel... or they expect us to bring a fake husband into our homes so we can host.

They act as if we are nothing more than a little play toy, objectify us and assume we are interested in servicing them when their own beloved wife won't. I can relate to the wife too and don't blame her at all for not wanting to service them because if they act this way with strangers, I can imagine they have been real thoughtful to her as well. Anyone who can treat a woman like that has to let that attitude and blood flow to that special cock as if it meant more than it should, enter into the relationship somehow.

Even sluts for a chosen one want to be treated with respect. So these men don't get how to make the little wife happy without her being a little sex slave to them and their attitudes of please me god damn it and do it now and then run out to treat other women who didn't invite them into their lives, like whores there for their fulfillment. What you think because we are here we invited you fake and phony husbands? I think the site ought to do more to weed you all out. It is far easier to see a scammer than it is a married man wanting a little on the side. So the worst of the fakes and phonies come from all over the place, can also lie about where they are and are easier to hide.

I really can relate but even when faced with twenty emails a day from a hubby seeking, I never whine and get as pissy as they do. That blood flow to the cock must be painful and cause headaches because you fake husbands are awful cranky.

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RE: fakes and phonies - 9/13/2010 10:17:37 AM

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Op is outnumbered and routed on this issue...

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RE: fakes and phonies - 9/13/2010 10:22:14 AM

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Married men who can't get free tail and then complain about it are a dime a dozen here. So suck it up buttercup, and quit whining. Now how would you feel if you were to find out your own wife was getting some on the side? Shoe. Other foot. Wear it.

'Nuff said.

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RE: fakes and phonies - 9/13/2010 10:23:42 AM

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I replied to an obvious f er wait dont say the f word here
hello Master I am very intersted in you again from Ghana
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no fakes here huh??

In My way of thinking, there are two possible ways to deal with such things. Be part of the solution or be part of the problem.

Of course, if you choose to engage with such profiles for your own amusement as your preference, that is completely up to you. However, it doesn't change much.

Personally, I now report all of the drive-bys, form letters, random messages that just say "hi" and such as spam. The automated system takes care of the rest. It's done wonders for Me personally.

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RE: fakes and phonies - 9/13/2010 10:24:28 AM

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You believe owning a slave is cheaper than paying a prostitute? It should be easy to shift through the many, many mails you no doubt receive daily. Do you honestly believe you are the only one who gets those kinds of mails? You claim to be Dominant yet here you are whining about how you cant control the influx of information into your mail box?

Now, on top of that, you already admit to looking for a relationship... actually, a fuck buddie.. outside of your relationship with your wife. Nice display in that picture, i gotta admit. But your profile screams... CHEATER! Its no wonder why you havent gotten any serious contact from submissives/slaves. This lifestyle is based upon honesty and trust... and simply put... you arent showing you have the capacity for either of those traits.

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RE: fakes and phonies - 9/13/2010 10:26:59 AM

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Op is outnumbered and routed on this issue...

I just wanna know where he sees monthly and joining fees cause I'm looking at it right now!

Seriously OP, if you aren't even honest about why you don't join an adultry site to get your itch scratched, why should anyone believe you about anything? Even with an affair, there has to be some trust involved. They've got to trust you enough to be honest about your STI results if nothing else!

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RE: fakes and phonies - 9/13/2010 10:36:36 AM

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Oh but this is when they come in and say they are being honest with the sluts! Not at all getting that the dishonesty with the wife means something to even a slut. I don't know, I think we need a badge or something... sluts with honor. You lie once to anyone you are in a relationship with, you will lie to someone only worth a couple hours now and then. Then, what does a liar get about honor and honesty? In my opinion, not much.

Then they claim it's for the children! That has to be one of the worst examples of parenthood I have ever seen! Teaching children how to work on a relationship, honor commitment and provide a loving example of a loving partnership and home is giving them a good parent, but one who is just there in physical body without the heart, commitment, honesty and true affections that needs a little on the side is not there and doing it for the children.

Of course, then we have the cold hard bitch who has no sexual desire. It must be the cold hard desire-less woman's fault. I've known many who were accused of such and once they dumped the selfish, immature idiot, they loved sex with someone who treated them more as a partner than a servicing robot or ball and chain. Then they learned what good sex was all about.

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RE: fakes and phonies - 9/13/2010 10:42:43 AM

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I wish my parents hadn't stayed together "for the children".

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RE: fakes and phonies - 9/13/2010 10:48:29 AM

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That or how the mean women are ganging up on him and not letting him have free play.

(Athough seriously, this site is kinda cool to play around with. I'm amazed how many men post full length, unblurred pictures of themselves on an adultry site. Valyraen is very amused as he watches me fill out the profile. I wanna make one for him and we can trade illict notes.

)

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RE: fakes and phonies - 9/13/2010 10:51:27 AM

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Twoshoes, that is what many I have talked to said. It is far better to break things off and continue to support and care for children so that they don't become an economic statistic that filters into other life problems, than to remain in a home where the love is lost and resentment has replaced it. Even if parents don't argue or show their disappointment in front of the children, it can be seen in what is not there. The loving touches while someone cooks a meal, the glance of love shared between them, the hand holding, the laughter, the joined force against the world. The broken relationship can be seen in what is lacking. Staying for the children in this environment is more hurtful than helpful.

Staying for financial gain or to prevent loss when you have to split everything is as selfish as looking for a slut on the side and that is what I heard many men expressing when I was privy to their conversations of why they stayed in the marriage. It would cost them a fortune... as a side note, they did say... they would miss the children.

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