daddysprop247
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Joined: 6/24/2005 From: DC Metro area Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: strippedwarrior A thought after reading daddysprop247's post. Slavery, submission, marriage. Is there anything wrong with doing any of these things from the point you are allowed to? Is there anything bad about giving your whole life to just one person? Maybe bad is a bit too strong. If you feel your best when you are bonded to one person for life, then there is no need to look for anything else. If you feel strongly about someone there is no reason, none at all, to do anything else but exist in that relationship. It doesn't matter if your a slave, a submissive or married. Sometimes things just turn out that way. i agree with you, but want to clarify something. i did not become a slave because i fell in love (that became quite a long while later), or because i found just the perfect man to belong to...that was just plain good luck! i became a slave because i knew i could be nothing else...once i discovered my true nature and learned what i was, i knew immediately exactly what i needed: to be owned. however, i thought the chances of my actually becoming a slave or, better yet, becoming a slave to a good man...were super slim to nil. but i understood, at that young age, that i would never be able to find peace or security in life without being under the total control and authority of a man. and again, my point in sharing all that is just to point out that sometimes you luck out and manage to truly find and know yourself at a younger age than most. my knock against most (certainly not all) younger people in the lifestyle now is that self-discovery and acceptance don't seem to have much to do with it, and it's more about just having some naughty fun. over time, this can lead to a lifestyle culture where the fun and game kinksters are the acceptable status quo, and the folks who are just expressing and seeking acceptance for their true natures are the unwelcome minority. i have seen just such a scenario play out many times, in both on and offline communities. the one and only time i attended a munch, it so happened to be TNG-sponsored (but all were welcome). i was extremely uncomfortable because everyone kept asking me what my "kink" was...when i would explain, "um, i'm just a slave," someone would respond, "oh, so you're into the humiliation thing? me too!"...or when i described my relationship with my Master as a Man and woman following the natural order, one young woman said, "oh you mean like the 1950s thing?"....it was frustrating to say the least. so, if there is any downside to the abundance of younger folks entering the lifestyle, it would be that...a whole lot more kink, and a whole lot less everyday living and being.
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