Mercnbeth
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Does anyone wear in public any type of lifestyle jewelry or patch that would identify them as active in the community? I'm not talking about a collar or bracelet which identifies your comment to each other. We're referring to something like the attached picture. I (Merc) wear this as a necklace and also have a ring with this symbol. beth has a matching ring. To those who do wear something like this we were wondering if anyone has been asked about it? It happened once to us and resulted in a woman being joining our little community in LA. she still is grateful that she overcame her nervousness to comment on beth's ring. she was a checkout person at a grocery store. she was very interested in finding people in the lifestyle but was only getting lurkers and wannabes from the internet. We were happy to have been able to help her in her search, and have remained good friends. In case anyone is not familiar, this is a little history on this symbol from this site link http://www.cufsmaine.org/bdsmflag.htm: quote:
The BDSM Emblem has no "obvious" symbolism because it was created to be enigmatic. To the vanilla observer who would be put off by BDSM, it is merely an attractive piece of jewelry. Thus, we can wear it freely as a friendly salute, nod, and wink to other BDSMers we should happen to pass on the sidewalks and in the hallways of our daily lives. To the insider, however, the Emblem is full of meaning. The three divisions represent the various threesomes of BDSM. First of all, the three divisions of BDSM itself: B&D, D&S, and S&M. Secondly, the three-way creed of BDSM behavior: Safe, Sane, and Consensual. Thirdly, the three divisions of our community: Tops, Bottoms, and Switches. It is this third symbolism that gives meaning to the holes in each unit. Since BDSM is at the very least a play style and at its greatest a love style, the holes represent the incompleteness of any individual within the BDSM context. However "together" and "whole" individuals may be, there remains a void within them that can only be filled by a complimentary other. BDSM cannot be done alone. The resemblance to a three-way variation on the Yin-Yang symbol is not accidental. As the curved outline of Yin and Yang represent the hazy border between where one ends and the other begins, so do the curved borders here represent the indistinct divisions between B&D, D&S, and S&M. The metal and metallic color of the medallion represents the chains or irons of BDSM servitude/ownership. The three inner fields are black, representing a celebration of the controlled dark side of BDSM sexuality. The curved lines themselves can be seen as a stylized depiction of a lash as it swings, or even an arm in motion to deliver an erotic spanking. The all-embracing circle, of course, represents the overlying unity of it all and the oneness of a community that protects its own. For additional information regarding the "Emblem Project" this is the souce site: http://members.aol.com/quagmyr/emblem.htm
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