RedMagic1
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ORIGINAL: RavenMuse Assertive and confident would just tell her what's on offer, she can take it or leave it.... she doesn't get to play games with it. Just as there are men who are addicted to conquest -- they'll do anything to get the girl, and then once they've gotten her, they set their sites on the next prospect -- so too there are women who are addicted to being conquered. They don't feel female unless a man is constantly trying to conquer them. Such women keep attracting the conquest-addicted men, in a cycle that repeats again and again, until the woman is considered too old to be a worthy conquest. Men (and women) who understand themselves and accept themselves are not addicts. If the cat is chasing the cat-toy, who is really in control? The cat, or the person wielding the toy?
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Not with envy, not with a twisted heart, shall you feel superior, or go about boasting. Rather in goodness by action make true your song and your word. Thus you shall be highly regarded, and able to live in peace with all others. - 15th century Aztec
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