RE: more of an "ask a guy" thing...

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RE: more of an "ask a guy" thing... - 11/1/2010 9:11:06 PM

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Thank you, and yes, I am working on figuring out what I want with him... but it will take getting to know him more and seeing how things go between us... for now I am ok with it... we havent known each other all that long so maybe once we get to know more we can figure that out... but thank you!!!

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RE: more of an "ask a guy" thing... - 11/1/2010 10:13:21 PM

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K guys... I enjoy a good heated discussion but no tearing people down please...

I went and hung out with him today... got more kisses... they were amazing... so i am happy in that department...

Just need to figure out if he likes me as like a FWB or as a potential long term partner...

I did man up a bit and made a bit of a move myself for once...

thanks for those that stuck to my topic and helped me with my situation...

AvaJayne

Yay! Congratulations.

Don't be afraid to initiate the conversation about what you two are to one another, although do try to figure out for yourself what you want and are comfortable with first.

Congrats x 2!!!

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RE: more of an "ask a guy" thing... - 11/2/2010 1:39:57 AM

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ORIGINAL: HiddenGeisha

K guys... I enjoy a good heated discussion but no tearing people down please...

I went and hung out with him today... got more kisses... they were amazing... so i am happy in that department...

Just need to figure out if he likes me as like a FWB or as a potential long term partner...

I did man up a bit and made a bit of a move myself for once...

thanks for those that stuck to my topic and helped me with my situation...

AvaJayne

YAY!

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RE: more of an "ask a guy" thing... - 11/2/2010 3:15:20 PM

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ORIGINAL: crazyml

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ORIGINAL: HiddenGeisha

K guys... I enjoy a good heated discussion but no tearing people down please...

I went and hung out with him today... got more kisses... they were amazing... so i am happy in that department...

Just need to figure out if he likes me as like a FWB or as a potential long term partner...

I did man up a bit and made a bit of a move myself for once...

thanks for those that stuck to my topic and helped me with my situation...

AvaJayne

YAY!

Let me add mine: YAY!

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RE: more of an "ask a guy" thing... - 11/2/2010 3:27:11 PM

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I like YAYs!!!!!! Yays are fun! YAY!!!

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RE: more of an "ask a guy" thing... - 11/2/2010 3:27:13 PM

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TO THE OP:

Not nearly enough details, darling.

(and another YAY! You!)

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RE: more of an "ask a guy" thing... - 11/2/2010 3:29:07 PM

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what do you mean not nearly enough details? what other details might you want?

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RE: more of an "ask a guy" thing... - 11/2/2010 3:56:07 PM

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ORIGINAL: HiddenGeisha

K guys... I enjoy a good heated discussion but no tearing people down please...

I went and hung out with him today... got more kisses... they were amazing... so i am happy in that department...

Just need to figure out if he likes me as like a FWB or as a potential long term partner...

I did man up a bit and made a bit of a move myself for once...

thanks for those that stuck to my topic and helped me with my situation...

AvaJayne

Hello Ava Jayne,
Sorry. You are new and didn't realize that it was a fun thing to say... not nearly enough details...

I'm talking something like this:

We were in the living room, the lights just bright enough to see how his eyes sparkled when he laughed. Barry White was crooning from the stereo. Throughout the entire night, I could smell the manly scent of his aftershave, the pomade he uses in his hair, and the clean manly scent of just him. My heart was beating so fast, I just couldn't stop myself. Like a wanton, I rubbed my body up against him and felt the crush of his strong arm against my soft breasts. I was feline in my need for him. My fingers slithered up his shirt, toying with the skin that peaked out of the V where his first two buttons were undone, I leaned in, my body trembling, and began rubbing my face against his rugged beard. A moan escaped my lips just as I pressed my mouth to his.

You know... details!

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RE: more of an "ask a guy" thing... - 11/2/2010 4:03:46 PM

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In the interests of self-disclosure, I admit that I edited that post. I had written "wonton" instead of "wanton". I laughed so hard at the idea of being a little pasta blanket around him that I had to come back and tell you... See... sultry... silly... equal parts.

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RE: more of an "ask a guy" thing... - 11/2/2010 4:11:17 PM

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I... love... you!

Now I'm picturing little wontons making now. I'm hungry now...

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RE: more of an "ask a guy" thing... - 11/2/2010 7:17:38 PM

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LMAO!!!! Oh My! I have to agree with Aquatic, I. Love. You! I just got home from a local writing group and that was pretty damn good. I may have to steal that... lol (the wonton part) ummm more details... hmmm... unfortunately your description was far better then what actually happened...

It was more, (long story short) I crawled into his arms after giving him a full body massage, and he intertwined his fingers with mine as I lay pressed against his body. His warmth seeping into me, his cologne and faramones dancing under my nose, teasing, beckoning to breathe him deep. "your naked" I giggled. "yes" he said matter of factly, "if that bothers you I can put shorts on or a blanket between us" I just shook my head in response. I was very still in his arms, listening to him breathe, listening to his heart beat, paying no attention to the movie. I turned around in his arms, looked him in the eyes and then leaned in and pressed my lips to his. My hand automatically found his soft hair and my fingers became tangled, holding on for dear life. His hands roving across the expanse of my back, alternating soft, sensual strokes with sharp nails clawing. Tongues danced, heart rates increased, breathing labored, bodies pressed to one another. Starting at the very base of my back, he rakes his fingers all the way up, causing my back to arch in pleasure, a moan escaping me. My once tight composure crumbling in his arms.....

How is that? Better?

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RE: more of an "ask a guy" thing... - 11/2/2010 7:32:40 PM

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Oooooooooh. That made me drool a bit ;P

And Aqua's description wasn't better than yours! It was just different. I actually like yours a bit better... cuz making out with naked guys always wins over making out with guys wearing clothes.

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RE: more of an "ask a guy" thing... - 11/3/2010 12:24:32 AM

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good on you, darlin'.

Glad to help.

Edit: In response to HiddenGeisha.

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RE: more of an "ask a guy" thing... - 11/3/2010 12:30:15 AM

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I think I missed something.

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RE: more of an "ask a guy" thing... - 11/3/2010 2:33:06 AM

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Oh my. Yes, much better than my description. I may need a cold shower now. Who am I kidding? I'll grab a hot shower and... see what happens. *purrrrrrr

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RE: more of an "ask a guy" thing... - 11/3/2010 6:08:45 AM

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What do you think you missed Greedy?

@Sunshine - Glad I could help!

hehe! I told you, I just got home from a writing group, those creative juices were flowing... lol!

@Paradox, Thank you Kindly!

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RE: more of an "ask a guy" thing... - 11/3/2010 7:36:02 AM

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glad to see you took the initiative HG, grins...it can be fun can't it?

Nice also to see that it wasn't just the masters who were able to help

Keep us updated on how things progress

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RE: more of an "ask a guy" thing... - 11/3/2010 8:46:10 AM

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LMAO!!!! Oh My! I have to agree with Aquatic, I. Love. You! I just got home from a local writing group and that was pretty damn good. I may have to steal that... lol (the wonton part) ummm more details... hmmm... unfortunately your description was far better then what actually happened...

It was more, (long story short) I crawled into his arms after giving him a full body massage, and he intertwined his fingers with mine as I lay pressed against his body. His warmth seeping into me, his cologne and faramones dancing under my nose, teasing, beckoning to breathe him deep. "your naked" I giggled. "yes" he said matter of factly, "if that bothers you I can put shorts on or a blanket between us" I just shook my head in response. I was very still in his arms, listening to him breathe, listening to his heart beat, paying no attention to the movie. I turned around in his arms, looked him in the eyes and then leaned in and pressed my lips to his. My hand automatically found his soft hair and my fingers became tangled, holding on for dear life. His hands roving across the expanse of my back, alternating soft, sensual strokes with sharp nails clawing. Tongues danced, heart rates increased, breathing labored, bodies pressed to one another. Starting at the very base of my back, he rakes his fingers all the way up, causing my back to arch in pleasure, a moan escaping me. My once tight composure crumbling in his arms.....

How is that? Better?

I like you... You should stay and hang around awhile. And definitely keep posting...

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RE: more of an "ask a guy" thing... - 11/3/2010 9:04:19 AM

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If I'm interested enough to hunt the girl I already know where I want to take things, so if she starts leading Me a merry dance instead of taking My hand and starting to work towards what I've told her I am prepared to try and build.... then I pretty soon work out that the compatibility isn't there for what I wanted. I offer what I offer, it either appeals or it doesn't and she doesn't have THAT much time to dither about whether she is on or out... else I'll assume she's out and I'll have moved on.... the interesting part is moving together hand in hand, not trying to reel her in like a bloody fish!

Bingo!

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