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What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/13/2010 9:50:11 PM

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I have read quite a few and heard quite a few stories about self titled "Masters" and "Dominates" since my return to CM that I am here late night thinking, "What makes a Dom a Dom"? I have my own opinions but I would like to hear from the community in words not links please what you think makes a Dom a Dom. What qualities should that person possess, what kind of temperament, etc... I know there is no cookie cutter formula its just something I was thinking about and well like all good hmmmm thinking about something moments thought I would share the question and see what others have to say.

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/13/2010 10:08:29 PM

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leadership abilities, confidence, a rather healthy ego, someone who has Mastered his own life, is responsible, doesn't have any desire to follow, maturity, knowledgeable about life and love

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/13/2010 10:36:27 PM

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 1:47:45 AM

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Someone unlikely to lose dkp.

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 2:36:52 AM

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A desire for control,. tempered with maturity.

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 4:13:58 AM

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A specific gene, perhaps? I know it's not nurture as my upbringing was every bit as happy and healthy as my flagrantly vanilla older sister's and younger brother's was....

I find egalitarian relationships deeply unfulfilling. I'm what 'nillas or the ignorant in general might call a "control freak" - that I have a need to control my partner and the greater relationship. Allied to that is that I'm not an abusive arsehole; that my needs can only be fulfilled by a partner whose submissive needs complement my own in her desire to be controlled.

Ergo, I'm generally what's termed a 'Dominant'.

Focus.

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 6:25:24 AM

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big Leather boots with buckles, assless chaps, mirror sunglasses, slicked back hair or oh... one of those leather police hats. Lots of chains, maybe some peircings and tattoos, ohhh! and a flogger, gotta have a flogger. No wait! a riding crop, sweet!

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 6:30:48 AM

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big Leather boots with buckles, assless chaps, mirror sunglasses, slicked back hair or oh... one of those leather police hats. Lots of chains, maybe some peircings and tattoos, ohhh! and a flogger, gotta have a flogger. No wait! a riding crop, sweet!

And handcuffs?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CS9OO0S5w2k

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 6:34:51 AM

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yes hand handcuffs! and lots and lots of leather, if you can get leather underwear too you ahead of the game...
heres the look you should be going for.

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 6:36:47 AM

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yes hand handcuffs! and lots and lots of leather, if you can get leather underwear too you ahead of the game...
heres the look you should be going for.

To my eternal shame I looked at that and thought "Oooh! Cool chair!".

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 6:41:50 AM

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Now for the bigger question in life....

what makes a Subaru a Subaru?

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 6:43:24 AM

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That chair is amazing. I want one for Master. :)

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 6:47:19 AM

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I thought for a minute that was George Michael all tarted up for a night on the town.

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 6:53:57 AM

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Now for the bigger question in life....

what makes a Subaru a Subaru?

I don’t know - what does make a Subaru a Subaru? But apparently, at Wilkins Hyundai and Subaru, they've got Hyundais and Subarus.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qtq4qDgkuGc

I do, however, know how to solve a problem like Maria. It involves whips and chains.

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 6:59:46 AM

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George Michael? c'mon! its the mostest evilest Dom daddy rocker of them all.... any guesses?

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 7:01:55 AM

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George Michael? c'mon! its the mostest evilest Dom daddy rocker of them all.... any guesses?

Is it Princess Anne?

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 7:03:10 AM

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Rob Halford. All the boys that he was a tough rocker when in the end it turned out he was a gay leather boy.

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 7:06:55 AM

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George Michael? c'mon! its the mostest evilest Dom daddy rocker of them all.... any guesses?

Is it Princess Anne?

And is this the way to Amarillo?

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 7:21:16 AM

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<snip> assless chaps <snip>

Is there such a thing as chaps with ass?

Or is that chaps that are asses?

Or asses that happen to be chaps?

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RE: What makes a Dom a Dom? - 12/14/2010 7:31:27 AM

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the chair is cool, but what about the boots? that hat? damn! so Dom... notice the riding crop? he exsudes all things DOm wouldnt you say? I mean look at all the chains and studs and cool stuff!

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