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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 1/25/2011 3:53:08 AM

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Sorry.

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 1/25/2011 4:04:15 AM

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Well bloody hell...I always thought the dominas exaggerated when they were speaking of dozens if not hundreds of PM's...because well it's what women do, exaggerate I should know, I am one. :P

But my bad I guess I will have to take everything back now.

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 1/25/2011 4:45:18 AM

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The vast majority of guys on sites like this are selfish jerks. They see absolutely nothing wrong with wasting a woman's time with jerk off messages.

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 1/25/2011 6:56:51 AM

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The vast majority of guys on sites like this are selfish jerks. They see absolutely nothing wrong with wasting a woman's time with jerk off messages.

And might one saaaaaaaay have a current list of these guys and the best times in which to reach them?

What?

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 1/25/2011 7:04:14 AM

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quote:

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mlicious

The vast majority of guys on sites like this are selfish jerks. They see absolutely nothing wrong with wasting a woman's time with jerk off messages.

And might one saaaaaaaay have a current list of these guys and the best times in which to reach them?

What?

chia* (the pet)

...slut...

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 1/25/2011 7:14:52 AM

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...slut...

It's a sacrifice I endure.

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 1/25/2011 10:19:00 AM

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Jeeze, and I thought I got a bunch of bullshit in my inbox. Ladies, how you remain patient and open to the good guys, I will probably never understand.

The majority of us don't, which is why you see an overwhelming majority of men and not so many women on adult sites. We get an eyeful of this crap and a lot of us run like hell. There is absolutely nothing fun about being ignored as a person while being aggressively pursued as a *thing* to masturbate on. And that's really what happens to us here. It's gross, depressing and dehumanizing. Mostly, women just leave.

In real life, the ratios are a lot closer to par at Munches and BDSM events. On Fetlife, which is more of a realtime social network that has no A/S/L search function, the ratios are also pretty much on par, because the women there aren't barraged with bored horny assholes messaging every woman in their search parameters with gross stuff or random/spammy/thoughtless stuff. So that's where I socialize.

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 1/25/2011 12:13:48 PM

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What is this "socialize" action you speak of?

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 1/25/2011 12:15:19 PM

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You don't think I'd drag you to events with Me if I were in your location?***

*** Said with the stipulation that reads, "if you were single".

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 1/25/2011 1:11:36 PM

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Oh I would willingly go if I had the time. Problem is, Im a college student and I work 30-40 hours a week. I dont have a life lol

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 1/25/2011 2:08:01 PM

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There's always kidnapping.

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 1/25/2011 2:15:28 PM

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Lol that would be just fine with me. I could use a break from this place

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 1/25/2011 3:12:03 PM

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Sounds like consent to Me.

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 1/25/2011 8:38:04 PM

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Sure, what the hell! Question though: Do you want me to come quietly, or put up a bit of a fight?

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 4/11/2011 9:29:14 PM

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thank you - and I thought I was the only one! It is quite discouraging...

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...show what happens when people are told that a person isn't interested...thank you for the contact and give the reason why I wasn't interested. Some of that was obvious due to distance or age. That's when the nasty notes started coming back. Not from everyone, of course, but definitely a high enough percentage to prove that women are better off not responding when they aren't interested if they don't want insults mailed to them....

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 4/13/2011 3:14:52 PM

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Hello All,

I am as guilty of the "crap in the mail box" phenomenon as any man on CM. I believe that when I view a woman's full profile, courtesy DEMANDS that I at least say hello. If I don't meet here criterion I explain that. For instance: "In your profile you state that you are seeking 'a submissive man who is as handsome as YSG, as muscular as SlaveKal, with abs exactly like PeonforHer's, who has dual PhD s in String Theory Physics and Game Theory, with blond hair and purple eyes, who is 6'2", who lives with-in 10 miles of me.' I am sorry, I have hazel eyes."

When I feel that I DO MEET her criterion then I send a message like this: HowRU?NICETITZ! ImTYPINonhanded PLZfkMEw/Strpn!

For some reasons I get better results with the former than the later. I don't know why but I can't complain.

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/1/2011 10:21:52 PM

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I did find one way to quickly discourage the repeat assholes on sites where I was participating socially and unable to permanently block someone. I simply "confessed" that I was a 420 lb transvestite looking for a sugar daddy to pay for my bariatric and sex change surgery so I could finally become the pretty girl I had always dreamed of being, the one whose picture I'd stolen for my profile.

Near 100% success rate at having the assholes disappear and never, ever bother me again. And if I was feeling really sadistic, I could chase them for awhile with some of the same crap they'd sent to me, complete with the most unattractive pictures of "the real me" engaged in gross activities that I could possibly find online. I found some that were calculated to make heterosexual males lose their hardons for a week, and they were great fun to send while reminding them how interested they said they were and what explicit things they had offered to do for me. *wicked, evil grin* This ensured that they would actually block me, thus preventing them from starting the thing all over again down the road when they forgot who they'd already been harassing.

I always figured that I participate so actively in real time BDSM events that any rumors they could possibly start would be received with much giggling from roughly a zillion people who have met me in person. Thing is, the assholes who bug women in this particular manner on the Internet basically never, ever connect with anyone real and local as far as I can tell. So years of telling jerks on the Internet that I was "really" a male cross dresser never even got back me as a rumor, even from someone who thought it was hilarious. Go figure.

You know. I really love you. ^_^

I actually stopped using IM for YEARS because my BLOCKED list eventually got exceeded. (Cap was around 200.) I only got things to quiet down a little after changing my photo from a picture of me, to some random anime character.

I've found that if it isn't some young guy sending me photos of their dick, it's some guy twice my age who thinks I'm going to fall madly in love with him. (Um, really? That full of yourself, huh?)

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/4/2011 6:07:21 PM

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Any domme who claims she has it hard on here, I truly have to laugh.

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/4/2011 6:08:43 PM

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Got kicked off of a few more Fet groups, did you?

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RE: What dominant women endure online - a halfway cluel... - 8/4/2011 6:41:47 PM

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Can we kick him off of here? I find his behavior to be repetitive and boring

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