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no limits period - 1/20/2011 4:46:21 AM

asubsydneymale

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I have been asked to take part in a play session that will have a period where there will be no limits, no permanent marks or injuries will occur, nothing illegal, no scat. During the no limits period, I will be bound, blindfolded and have been informed that excessive screaming will result in my mouth being taped,

I want to and don't want to - what do you think ?

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RE: no limits period - 1/20/2011 4:58:14 AM

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Why did you quote yourself?

I am in a no-limits relationship, so a limitless session is the norm for me, and not the least bit scary. But I don't know you, the person you're playing with, or what your usual limits and tolerances are. If you trust this person and want to do it, go for it. Just make sure there's a way to signal if there's a real problem, like if you get lightheaded or feel like you'll throw up behind the tape (a potentially dangerous situation). Your friend might want to make you scream, but unless he's into snuff he's going to need a way for you to tap out in case of an emergency.

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RE: no limits period - 1/20/2011 4:58:41 AM

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Pesonally I think "no limits" is a very stupid and dangerous way to play. Everyone has limits. If you are playing with stranger or somone you barely know, do you really want to trust that person with your life???

Now if you have a partner whom you sincerely trust you might not have any stated limits as you trust your partner to never really hurt you. That trust is earned over time and you will know when its there.

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RE: no limits period - 1/20/2011 5:11:07 AM

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Dunno. If this is someone you do not know, it would be insane. If this is someone you have subbed to for ten years and has done the exact same thing for others, then it might be worth considering.

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RE: no limits period - 1/20/2011 5:22:07 AM

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Pretty sure your photo, charming as it is, violates TOS for this site. Might want to check into that.

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RE: no limits period - 1/20/2011 5:24:23 AM

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no limits, no permanent marks or injuries will occur, nothing illegal, no scat. During the no limits period, I will be bound, blindfolded and have been informed that excessive screaming will result in my mouth being taped,

These sound like limits to me. No limits to me, means "no exceptions." Not a good idea, and not something I believe in, but if you say no limits, don't start your post with all the limits. Self serving much?

Found even more limits on your profile

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I am a submissive fuk toy but not a domestic slave... I can be dominant, especially really well on a submissive who has hurt me and who is then ordered by their master to lay open for me.
Note " My limits are No scat or anything illegal,

Puhleez give me a huge break. M

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RE: no limits period - 1/20/2011 5:28:27 AM

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To the OP. It sounds like you all ready know the answer. Trust your gut feeling.

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RE: no limits period - 1/20/2011 5:31:50 AM

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If, as part of the session the person is going to delete that photo, I say go for it.

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RE: no limits period - 1/20/2011 5:32:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: mummyman321
Pesonally I think "no limits" is a very stupid and dangerous way to play. Everyone has limits. If you are playing with stranger or somone you barely know, do you really want to trust that person with your life???

He isn't a no limits anything. He's a "no limits" as long as you do what I say." Needless to say, a fairly small number of slaves really are so devoted as to do something harmul to selves, not (or maybe even) inolving sexapalooza I want to experiment with please.

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RE: no limits period - 1/20/2011 5:32:57 AM

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RE: no limits period - 1/20/2011 5:37:48 AM

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Sounds exciting in theory, in reality I'd say not so much. For me it would mostly depend on how long and well I knew the person who'd be doing things to me. Even then, I'd have reservations.

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RE: no limits period - 1/20/2011 5:46:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: SexyBossyBBW

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ORIGINAL: mummyman321
Pesonally I think "no limits" is a very stupid and dangerous way to play. Everyone has limits. If you are playing with stranger or somone you barely know, do you really want to trust that person with your life???
He isn't a no limits anything. He's a "no limits" as long as you do what I say." Needless to say, a fairly small number of slaves really are so devoted as to do something harmul to selves, not (or maybe even) inolving sexapalooza I want to experiment with please. M

I had a look at his profile out of curiousity, too, and you're right.

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RE: no limits period - 1/20/2011 5:49:01 AM

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ORIGINAL: Aynne88

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RE: no limits period - 1/20/2011 5:59:13 AM

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No, no, NO. Not for a play session, not ever. No limits is either fucking dangerous, or it's a stupid way for people to feel better about themselves because sensible people aren't going to be doing dangerous things. Therefore you have limits. You don't let someone tie you up for a play session and then agree to no limits. If they have to ask then it's a No. Better yet, fucking HELL NO.

Set limits. Then consider playing with him and letting him have free reign within those limits. Think really hard what you want them to be if you aren't in a relationship and know them very well.

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RE: no limits period - 1/20/2011 6:45:13 AM

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ORIGINAL: asubsydneymale

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I have been asked to take part in a play session that will have a period where there will be no limits, no permanent marks or injuries will occur, nothing illegal, no scat. During the no limits period, I will be bound, blindfolded and have been informed that excessive screaming will result in my mouth being taped,

I want to and don't want to - what do you think ?

I think it is silly to say there are no limits and then list the limits. If you trust these people and want to play with them, then have fun. If you don't then say no. I don't know any of the people involved, so I really can't say if it will be safe or not.

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RE: no limits period - 1/20/2011 7:19:01 AM

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I on the other hand, am gratified that there are limits, no eating shit or illegal activities, which seem like reasonable compromises to me, as is usually concluded when the subject arises, "no limits" is invariably a qualified concept.

It leaves a lot open actually, they could CBT and foot you, piss on you, then take pic and send them to your wife, could be tense.

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RE: no limits period - 1/20/2011 8:24:00 AM

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No limits period? I'd be stocking up on tampons.....

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RE: no limits period - 1/20/2011 9:03:10 AM

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Umm... how is this no limits? No permanant marks.. no injuries, no scat..
Those seem like limits to me.

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I have been asked to take part in a play session that will have a period where there will be no limits, no permanent marks or injuries will occur, nothing illegal, no scat. During the no limits period, I will be bound, blindfolded and have been informed that excessive screaming will result in my mouth being taped,

I want to and don't want to - what do you think ?

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RE: no limits period - 1/20/2011 9:34:10 AM

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I thnk it is dangerous to go into a scene with a conflicting agreement. Stating the scene has no limits, but with limits - is a guarantee that there are some serious communication issues from the get go.

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RE: no limits period - 1/20/2011 10:09:49 AM

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I have been asked to take part in a play session that will have a period where there will be no limits, no permanent marks or injuries will occur, nothing illegal, no scat. During the no limits period, I will be bound, blindfolded and have been informed that excessive screaming will result in my mouth being taped,

I want to and don't want to - what do you think ?

Well fuk-a-diddle, so much for shoving an ICBM up his ass and sending him across the pond.
WTF man? No limits means no limits. Friggen do-me douches.

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