SlaveOwnerDave
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Joined: 8/22/2007 From: Petaluma, CA Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Nanako Hello sirs ^__^ try as I might, it would be hard to write this topic without seeming self centred so I'll admit I have personal interest in it. I'm going to try to divide this into simple, answerable questions. Also, questions 2 and 3 are kind of exclusive of each other, so you should probably just pick one of the two to answer I'm looking for general thoughts here, about transsexual subs. MtF specifically in my case, but either is fine to talk about. I identify here as a trans submissive, though to those in this scene it is farther divided into: Transvestites: Those who crossdress and play the role of the opposite gender occasionally, for fun, release, kink or a variety of other reasons. It's not always sexual Transgender: Those who are living fulltime as their desired gender, and possibly intend to one day have gender reassignment surgery At the moment, I am more TV than TS, though who knows what the future would hold. Q1: Do you see a practical difference in the above two, as it matters to you ? Would you have an interest in one but not the other? (assuming you have any interest at all) In my little time around here so far, I have seen a few doms who identify as straight, and seeking female subs, but list trans subs amongst what they seek. I have got speaking to one and he seemed willing to take me on, but he stipulates that I would be secondary to any biological female he gets involved with, sub or not. Q2: Generally only applicable if you don't have much interest in male subs; How do you view trans? In the above example, I get the feeling that this dom views trans subs as a stand-in for a female. An acceptable compromise, second choice, etc. Possibly due to the relative numbers of males to females on the site. Do you view trans subs as something separate, or as a something that approximates a female sub I have also seen a few gay doms here, who do not list trans subs among what the seek. I'm curious about these viewpoints as well Q3: For doms who have an interest in male subs; how do you view a trans sub? Is an MtF trans sub "too female" for you? Do you have any interest in crossdressing subs that identify as male? Would you expect different things from them than a male sub, if you did take one on? Q4: How do you view crossdressing and feminization, from a fetish viewpoint? Do you find interest in it, and would you take on a trans sub for that purpose? Or, if you do take on a trans sub, would you expect to have that aspect of their life sorted on their own, so that you could concentrate on whatever other kinks you have in mind? Q5: Aside from all of the above, do you have any other thoughts to share? If you are a dom that is not seeking trans subs, is it something you've considered? do you have concerns or thoughts about the subject? I don't know if I can offer to answer questions here, being that this forum is for me asking YOU stuff, but I can always answer by cmail. Thank you for reading, and for any replies ^-^ Good questions. 1. TV and TG are essentially the same. One is for fun, the other has an important need. I do admit, My, um, focus(?) would be on a bio-fem. Generally speaking, and this has some weak places in the logic, (a) A bio-female will be smaller than an MtF. Petiteness is important to Me. (b) I am not a sex machine, but a bio-female would receive more fun from sex, thus (potentially) making a better partner. Those are My not-completely-thought-out views on the question. To think one is just somehow "better" than the other is not right. Neither would have any authority over the other. Neither would "have Master's ear" relative to the other. 2. A trans is not a second-rate product, to be replaced at the earliest opportunity. If I take a trans as My slave, it maintains its position---same as for any other slave! Sorry for the rant, but: To serve Me properly, My slave must surrender to Me. it cannot surrender, if it has "job security" fears! I think this is obvious, but others do not. 3. An MtF slave, like any other slave, is itself. A petite male is one thing. A large female is something else. To make a blanket characterization based on sex or size, is a poor idea, at best! An FtM would not be expected to be as strong as a man. Reality is not going to change, just to please Me. 4. Part of an Owner's job is to support His property, so that it can serve Him as He needs. Known special needs of the property should have been thoroughly discussed, before the prospective property offered him-/her-self as property, and before the prospective Owner agreed to Ownership! Given this was discussed, and both halves agreed, there should be zero misunderstanding! The Owner and His property do discuss Their needs in an ongoing manner. Therefore, they help each other. Fetish: Feminization does not do much for Me, I do admit that. Making a woman dress as a man is not appealing, either. 5. I have "Trans sub" checked on My profile because I mean it. I considered the issue, before checking the box! I have also checked "Couples". The learning, consideration, and training, periods are used to determine whether the prospective partners can fit closely enough to be what they need to be, for each other. I do not feel I have properly hit the target. If you want more info, then message Me, to start a discussion.
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